Welcome to Collapsing Duality - into oneness. Here, you can share your own special experiences of your twin flame or soulmate relationships, educate yourself by reading articles on this phenomenon, read our own - ongoing story that continues to unfold, and submit your own story for us to profile - if you wish.
Our goal, is to provide information about this very special phenomenon. We believe that there is a very special purpose for the bringing together of twin flames. In fact, this maybe the most significant thing to occur in the evolution of mankind - the profound joining together of the divine masculine and divine feminine into one divine soul. Together, they collapse duality and become one. We encourage you to email us with questions, comments and suggestions. You can click the web address on the bottom of the page for a direct link. We truly hope that your visit to our website will provide an informative, lasting, and enjoyable experience as you seek to understand your own path in life.
Paula and Brendan
It is our mission, at Collapsing Duality not to define the so-called twin flame/soulmate relationships that exist, but to offer many perspectives as to the how and why that this phenomenon is really taking off at this point in time. After all, we all have different paths in life and there is no single one that is identical. Having said this, I feel there is simply no need to try and categorize what qualifies one to be a twin flame or soulmate - because if you are in one of these relationships, you will simply know. Another aim of our mission is to get your story out there. We want to hear from you. We welcome the subsmissions of your own special stories so that we can share them with the world.
It is also our intention to bring those of you together who are still searching for your twin flame or soulmate. While we realize that we do not have the final say as to when your time will "be" perhaps we can just make it that much easier. Let's face it, if you have come this far and found this site you are either searching for your twin flame/soulmate, looking for more information on this phenomenon, or hoping to get some "confirmation" about your own special relationship.
There has been much written about twin flames and soulmates and I've researched numerous articles, websites and books dealing with this topic. I've talked with many people who are in twin flame relationships. While there seems to be, for the lack of a better words, a generic set of qualifiers regarding what constitutes a twin flame/soulmate relationship, we have no intention of telling you about how your own relationship should be - only you will know that. But it is not our mission to discount anyone elses views of what qualifies and does not qualify a relationship to be twin flame or soulmate, either. We are all working for a higher cause. We will offer up information regarding what to look for if you feel you have found your twin flame/soulmate, but the reality is, it's going to be unique to each and every one of your relationships.
As this website takes shape, and all your real life stories begin to come together ( as well as our own ) I believe, that without being judgemental, we will see a common thread, form - and that thread is love. At the very core of the twin flame/soulmate relationship lies a purpose - to collapse duality and be walking examples that will show a world that has forgotten how to love, LOVE!
Twin Flames and Soul Mates
By Brendan and Paula
If you have found this page, (unless I invited you) just know that it was no accident. You are searching for something - someone - a missing piece to your soul, lost long ago, that will complete and/or complement you. For as long as we are seeking, whatever or whoever we find along our path is by no coincidence. There will be signs on the way. Our soul's journey is a personal one and our "choices" we make, will determine who or what we find while travelling on this road. More than likely, however, you are looking for answers to something because you have had an amazing experience you cannot explain in any conventional way. If that is indeed the case, you have found 1 of many places on the internet that will help shed some light on the topic of Twin Flames and Soul Mates.
While traveling on this road, either with your Twin Flame/Soul Mate or searching for your divine love, you will find many who will guide you, some will tell you exactly how to get there and yet, it is still up to you to determine if that ONE is your Divine Complement. Regardless of the advice that anybody gives you - even our own advice, here - there are only 2 ways for you to know for sure, if that One is your Twin Flame or Soul Mate.
#1 - You will know it in your heart.
#2 - You will need to ask your Angel(s) or Higher Self if you are still unsure. They will set the record straight for you. But before you do, just know that they never lie and will not bend one way or another.
The following information regarding Twin Flames and Soul Mates that you are about to read is based solely on the path that Paula and I have traveled; our experiences with our higher selves in Heaven and by connecting with others who are traveling the same path.
What is a Soul Mate?
A Soul Mate is somebody that you will share a deep connection with while incarnating on this planet. What is more...at the spirit level or soul level in heaven, you are part of the very same soul family. While we are all Soul Mates to varying energetic degrees, some of us will connect more strongly than we do with others. The reason for this is because there are many soul families and those in the same soul family, typically numbering in the millions and created by a single pair of divine complements, will have a stronger connection with those of the immediate family, than those of extended soul families. Yet, all soul families are connected and I will explain more about this below.
What is a Twin Flame or Divine Complement?
Each of us, will only have 1 Twin Flame or Divine Complement and the connection you share will be like no other. When you find one another, it will change everything you ever believed. Sometimes the both of you will incarnate together, sometimes separately. Whatever the case, as Twin Flames, you are divine masculine and divine feminine properties and together you are a balance of each. Yet, it is also your mission while you are incarnate, to balance both the divine masculine and feminine properties of your soul at an individual level. Do this, and your chances of finding Twin increase greatly!
How Do I know if He/She is A Soul Mate or Twin Flame?
To understand the difference between a Twin Flame and Soul Mate can be very difficult indeed. This is not because we have 1 divine complement to find on a planet full of Soul Mates, either. Moreover it is harder to tell because we have roughly 6.7 billion Soul Mates and out of those, we are to know in our hearts that this is the ONE! So...it can be very hard indeed, to tell the difference. Yet, while travelling on your path, you might have noticed that some Soul Mates seem to have a stronger connection with you than others - almost like a Twin Flame. The reason for this is because there are many soul families - thousands - and whether or not you are part of the same soul family, will determine how strong your energetic connection will be. This connection will feel like a magnetic pull and the two of you will be drawn to one another. Whatever the case, if you are Twin Flames, know that the two of you are part of a soul family; mother and father to many more souls (soul mates) and have been created at the soul level by Divine Complement's that even though they are your true mother and father, they too, can be considered as Soul Mates.
A Soul Mate is essentially, anyone on the planet at this present time. However, some will be closer to you than others and this is because there are soul families. If your soul was created in the same soul family, your energetic connection will be much stronger to those people than it will with anybody who is not part of the same soul family.
A Twin Flame is your divine other half. Both of you were created at the same time, in heaven, usually by Divine Complements. But this is not the rule and I'll explain further below. Twin Flames are created as Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine, sent to incarnate over and over again for the souls purpose of learning and experiencing. All the while, they are growing as souls; their mission is to balance the divine masculine and feminine between themselves and on an individual level.