Andrea and Michael
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Andrea and Michael
from  the USA
Submitted to CD on 11/19/2009 (at 1:11:56 PM)
Name/Nickname.........Andrea                              Age: 45                 Sun sign.... Aries

Country........................ USA                                  State...........  LA

Occupation..................Student  (Metaphysical Studies)        

Email contact.............. N/A

Your twins name/nickname........ Michael           Age:  45                 Sun sign..... Pisces

Country.........................USA                                  State ........... VA

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

Internet and through a friend.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

The fact that I feel so comfortable and at peace with him, his voice, his smile, his eyes, how his body fits mine perfectly, his gentleness, his beautiful heart, his innocence, his childlike joy.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

I think that it ultimately saved it.  I had given up so much of myself that I hardly knew who I was anymore.  I stopped hoping for things, dreaming of things.  I'm so much more like I was when I was a child now.  I'm more trusting, outgoing, and confident.  I'm more at peace and believe in myself.  Seeing myself through his eyes makes me understand the greatness and beauty in me.

Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

Things we're interested in, things we've studied, things we love are the same - music hits us in the same way, similar thought processes, joking that we share a brain, one telling the other "I was just going to call you" when the other calls, etc.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

He knows it.  We just can't be together right now due to having to follow our own paths.  I have things I want to learn that I would've given up to be with him.  He has growing to do.  We are also both married and very stubbornly clinging to our "ideal" families, but I know we'll be together eventually.  If not today, 2 years, 20 years or 2 life times from now.  It's hard, but I know I'll never lose him..he's a part of me and the love we share is magical (so much that he sometime doubts if it's genuine because it seems to good to be true).  The universe will help us find our way.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

Lately, every night at 11:11 my thoughts go right to him.  I can be completely involved with something else and the brain just stops and makes some sort of comment or observation about him.  I can feel when he reads my emails and when he's thinking about me.  I also can feel when he's holding something back.  Every once and a while I've gotten lucky enough to feel me in his arms before I fall asleep.  We also used to be online at the same time, but his schedule is keeping him too busy of late to experience that.  

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

Yes, definitely.  We were actually planning on writing a book about it.  We had to put "us" on hold though, so I'm not sure how soon that will happen.  We definitely have negative karma to work through (most of which involves family ties and sacrificing ourselves unnecessarily).

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

I was suffering from PPD and my marriage was having problems.  His was as well.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

Insane dedication to family and sacrificing our needs and wants for it.  My 11:11 PM thoughts about him.  His birthday is a combo of mine and there are a lot of 27's...a big number in my life.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

I don't know about him, but I have.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Just keep believing.  Don't give up.  Realize that what you have is beautiful and no one and nothing can take that away from you.  Follow your own path, support them in theirs.  Try not to be too selfish or demanding and realize that it's not a struggle or a battle.  It'll all come together when it's supposed to.  Enjoy the fact you found each other no matter if you can be together now or not.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 


Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?


How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? 

Pagan, Eclectic

Are you artistic..................................................?  YES

Do you believe in reincarnation.........................?  YES

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