Brendan's Profile

Name/Nickname.......Brendan "B"
Age: 36
Your twin/soulmates Name/Nickname........Paula
    Sun sign....Leo
Age: 40
    Sun sign.....Leo
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)  We met one night on the internet over six months ago, now. We began chatting and hit it off like two old friends might do. There was an immediate connection between the two of us - we could feel it. From there we began to build our own online home using the Second Life medium as a means. Everyday we would meet up and go out in the second life virtual community and pick out new furniture for our home. 

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame? Paula has this way about her that attracts me to her like nobody else ever could. She is divine feminine in my eyes and I remind her of this all the time. She is also the most giving person I have ever known - and she doesn't expect in return even though I do so, 3-fold. 
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life? I never thought I would find the "perfect match" for me but something - this feeling inside, kept telling me to keep searching. Now that I have found her, I know we will be together forever - after all - we have been together since the beginning. 
Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? Oh yes. We buy each other the same things, call each other at the same time(because we still live apart), text each other often at exactly the same time, and can feel each others moods even though we live a thousand miles apart. 
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.  Answer -N/A
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  I've always had certain psychic abilities, like dreaming of things - major events, before they happen, but since meeting Paula, they have become greatly enhanced. We are able to visit each other in our dream states, through meditation, and by simply concentrating on the other while keeping an open heart and open mind. 
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? The last "big thing" to happen to me and my family was the death of my sister in November of 2007. She was only 45. I learned what it was like to lose somebody so close. For contributions, I built a website in comemoration of her life, complete with a guest book, family photos, and music. 
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.   A little while back I began to think of the oldest memory I had. It was of a little girl in a dress that was standing in front of a group of trees. There was a house beyond it with a sort of driveway in between. So I got the idea to ask Paula what her oldest memory was (without telling her mine) and she described a little boy in the same setting and same backdrop as I described above. She recalls that the boys name was Bud and the girls name was Kiddie. At this point in time we believe that we were either childhood friends or brother and sister. We're still uncover the truths of these memories. 
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?   If you are still searching for that special somebody, don't give up. Also, examine your life and be ruthless in your critique. 

If you have found your twin flame or soulmate, in the beginning you will notice that a lot of karma will come bubbling up - you must deal with this as quickly as you know how or it will come in between you and the greatest love of your life. The best way I have found in dealing with the karma is to either meditate on it or simply Let It Go. 

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time?
The numbers 11 11 are popping up everywhere in our lives. I never noticed it until Paula mentioned it to me. The Fibonaccie Sequence may be a factor as well. This sequence of numbers - when we apply the date in which we first met - fits perfectly into the first spiral of the Fibonacci Sequence. 
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  Ever since I can remember, there has been a feeling of something I have to do. I don't know precisely what, but I feel, now that I have met Paula, that I am getting really close to receiving an answer. 
The questions below are optional and will not appear on the "your story" page, unless you wish to have them displayed.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..?  Spiritual but not religious.
Do you believe in angels...................................?    YES
Are you artistic.................................................?     I'd like to think so :)
Do you believe in reincarnation........................?    I do now
Paula and Brendan - April 2008