Dawn and Steven
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Dawn and Steven
from USA
Posted 11/14/2009
Your
Name/Nickname.........Dawn                                 Age: 41                 Sun sign.... Scorpio

Country........................ USA                                   State...........  IL

Occupation..................Massage Therapist        

Email contact.............. essentialwork@yahoo.com

Your twins name/nickname........ Steven              Age:  42                 Sun sign..... Libra

Country.........................USA                                   State ........... IL
                                                    
Occupation..................Business Owner



Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

Steve and I have known each other since I was 15 years of age.  There was no soul recognition, no chemistry, nothing.  As time went on we always noticed that we were very similar in personality, likes/dislikes, and views.  We played a significant role in each others lives growing up and in adulthood, helping and giving advice to each other in rough times and marital issues.  We always felt this connection, like coming home to an old friend even if it was a few years inbetween seeing each other.  Again, that was it. 

I went his family cottage when we were in our late 30's, as I always did frequently throughout the years.  Steve and I went to the clubhouse to book a lake like we had several times in the past and sat down on an old couch that must of been atleast 50 years old. We both fell asleep at the same time in the middle of the afternoon in a sitting position. We both awoke at the same time dazed as well. When we looked into each other's eyes everything had changed. There was this undeniable unconditional love, although not coined as romantic, just pure, we thought of it as like brother/sister.

Over the next few years, we tried to help each other out with our failing marriages, but it didn't work. Steve wound up divorcing and I even encouraged him to date my girlfriend after his divorce from Amy. I wasn't going to go there and I wasnt going to give up on changing the man I was married to. But we couldn't deny this pull...it was magnetic. We started to have telepathy. I could tell when he was awake or sleeping and we could feel each other's moods when we were apart. We started saying the same things at the same times. I started divorce proceedings myself.


Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

He rarely can surprise me, as I get images and messages from him all the time.  I know how he feels every momment, if he's sleeping, there is complete telepathy. Stating a thought before the other has a chance to say it or saying the same things at the same time with the same jestures.  There is a radiant spiritual heat between us when we sit together or ly togther.  We have the ability to heal each other's minor physical aches and issues.  We cannot argue, or even joke in a hurtful way because we instantly feel the pain and emotion from the other.  It physically hurts when we are apart, even for the work day.  We have had lots more spiritual experiences, are more sensitive and aware, can tune into other's feelings more easily, psychic ablilities.


How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

Huge changes. He wound up divorcing his wife, losing some of his relatives in death, having to close his business to tie up his Karmic agreements.  I have lost my parents to abuse, lost my other full time career, lost some dear friends due to my personality and spiritual changes, my body is changing where I cannot eat the same foods (having a hard time with this), and our whole perspective on life, whats important and raising the children has changed.


Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

As I have said above, and it's endless.  We text/call at the same time or know if the other has telepathically.  I can feel his aches and pains or I get them too.  We yawn at the same time, when we ly together we breath at the same rate, even when we try to stop it, it always returns.  Our heart beats even sometimes syncronize. We know what we want to eat or do even before the other one tells us or knows.  Our childhood and experiences are almost parallel.  Our past spouses were almost the same.  It goes on and on and on.


If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

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Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

Again, please read the above.  We did however go to a channeling class.  And the same spirit came thru both of us.  My body actually leaned into Steve and Steve spoke, then I validated, although it was one spirit.  We intuitively know other's emotions and sometimes thoughts.  Again, Steve and I cannot be apart.  When I am sick and have to sleep on the couch, he has to sleep with me there.  When he leaves for work, there is a physical ache for each other.  We can talk all day long, and even on the way home til he pulls in the driveway and still dont run out of things to say.  We can heal each other on some level emotionally and physically.  We have had unexplainable, sacred sexual experiences that have been validated with each other.


Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

We know we have shared lifetimes before, but are sure our souls never recognized each other as a twin flame until this lifetime.


How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

My life was full of abandonment, abuse, very negative people except for my children.  The last big thing to happen was my Father abused my girls and that opened all our eyes to the abuse from my husband at the time and pushed me more into Steve, because at some point, I knew we had no control and would be together, but I kept fighting it and didn't want to go there because of all the complications it would cause.  But all the walls seemed to be torn down with help from Angels and Spirit Guides and we were protected until we came steadily together.


Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

I have noticed as has Steve and all of my 3 children all the Sequences of 1111, 111 222 333 etc. daily.


Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

Yes, I always have, but never knew what it was, always felt held back and that I could be more than what I was.


What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
 
Dont search.  Work on yourself, tie up all your karma, become a lightworker, educate yourself spiritually and if you are to meet in human form, it will come when you've reached your highest self.  If not to met in this human experience, then meditate and spiritually search to feel and connect with your twin flame who is not here.  But whatever you do, do not let it interfere with your path, with your journey, with what your mission is here.


If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

none, thank you for this forum.


How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? 

Spiritual, truthful, psychic, open

Are you artistic..................................................?  YES

Do you believe in reincarnation.........................?  YES


Free Form Comments: 

A Bit of A Bio-

I was born and put in an orphanage, adopted by 2 very abusive parents. I grew up to learn self sacrificing techniques to survive. In order to survive I had to become someone I wasnt. I also became my mother's best friend, my parents punching back, their trophy to others. Not allowed to have a friend or a boyfriend for more than a year without their part in sabotaging it.

Always trying to do the right thing and see the light, I grew up very giving, trying to please everyone no matter what the cost, thinking that if I morphed myself to what they wanted they would like me. I tried to have everyone like me. I hid myself, going thru many shallow relationships.

The only thing that made me brave enough to defy them was the love of a man I thought was too good for me. As I thought myself, awkward, ugly, with nothing to offer and he was handsome, popular and his family appeared to be something out of a TV show of perfection. Tony and I defied all odds and married against their approval.

Months after we were married he started taking away my posessions in a sneaky way, limiting what I wore, whom I talked to, but gave me love that I had never known. I totally gave myself to him, determined to be the best wife, the best daughter - in -law. Years went by, working 2 jobs, putting him thru school, 3 children and years of emotional, verbal and sometimes physical abuse. That's a loving relationship right? That's the cycle of abuse.

But rising above, not being bitter, protecting the children, I became a strong silent woman with only love in her heart. I truly believe because of this I was saved by the divine. Most people would see this as tragedy, but in order to recognize my twin flame my life had to be ripped apart because I no longer belonged there.

God prepared me for this series of tragedies by inspiring me to go to Massage School which was spiritually based and I found out about energy, the purpose of life, and a new belief with an ability of healing others.

This gave me the strength to lead me and my children thru the loss of their grandparents (mine) as my father sexually abused my daughter and we had to prosecute, losing both of them. They saw the kids every day, my mother worked with me doing daycare, they were the fun ones. That opened my eyes to my life and what I had in it. Thru counseling with the girls, I found that I was also in an abusive relationship. We went to counseling. It got so bad that the girls were begging me to divorce him.

I went to a cottage my life long friends owned, one of the few I was allowed to keep. Steve and Amy whom I have known since I was 15. Steve and I went to the clubhouse to book a lake and sat on an old couch that must of been atleast 50 years old. We both fell asleep at the same time in the middle of the afternoon in a sitting position. We both awoke at the same time dazed as well. When we looked into each other's eyes everything had changed. There was this undeniable unconditional love, although not coined as romantic, just pure.

We tried to help each other out with our failing marriages, but it didn't work. I even encouraged him to date my girlfriend after his divorce from Amy. I wasn't going to go there and I wasnt going to give up on changing the man I was married to. But we couldn't deny this pull...it was magnetic. We started to have telepathy. I could tell when he was awake or sleeping and we could feel each other's moods when we were apart. We started saying the same things at the same times. I started divorce proceedings myself.

But I wasn't going to go there. I was not going to be with my girlfriends ex husband, I'm not that type of person. And then by some blessing all the walls that kept us apart started to fall, even Amy encouraged mine and Steve's relationship. My children wanted us to get together. And there was no denying this incredible ache. We would talk on the phone for 6 hours a day. And finally gave into this incredible feeling that we were so confused about. It was then that we experienced incredible spiritual love. Everytime we think it cant get any better than this, we enter a new level of spiritual companionship. More and more things are happening that are not humanly explainable. The more we are together, the more it physically hurts to be apart.

Steve was the missing key and has helped us all heal. The girls trust him and love him, can't wait for us to be a family. Steve has helped me by being my voice, literally and gently guiding me to make my own decisions, which are his because we are the same. He is a mirror image of me in EVERY SINGLE WAY...even down to our choices in food and childhood experiences. It is completely mind blowing.

Everyone thinks we are crazy, doesnt understand us, or thinks we've had this scandelous affair...except for Amy ironically who believes us and supports us. That's why I'm so glad I found this group, because only other twins can understand the depth of love that I never even imagined existed.