Twin Flame Signs
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Signs that you have found your Twin Flame or Soul Mate can be many and varied. Some of you may be able to identify with a few of the signs listed below while others may be experiencing all of them. However, the most important thing to remember is that it is only a soul's life experiences and choices that he/she makes along the way that will determine whether or not you are in a Twin Flame or Soul Mate relationship. In the end, it is the universe that will show you exactly what you are ready for.

Listed below, are signs that we (Paula and I) have experienced in our Twin Flame Relationship. We've documented them all because we have been *paying attention* to each and everyone of these important experiences that the universe has shown us.

While we realize that this website is a work in progress, we may have also left out some important signs that you - the visitor may have experienced, that we missed. In reading some of the signs below, if you have any suggestions, then we welcome your input. Just click the link at the bottom or write to:

The following list of "Signs" that Twin Flames/Soul Mates Encounter was created by Paula and Brendan in 2008 and based off of what they experienced together. This page was also modeled off of other questionnaires given to people who have encountered something either Spiritual, paranormal or extra-ordinary to anything they have ever known before in their lives/comprehension. This way, by reading the signs; connecting the dots and "sharing" Twin Flame Stories, we have a more "Scientific" approach to something science has yet to grasp...something not definable by weights and measures. The Spirit! But one thing Paula and I do know is this: The Proof Is In Our Stories! They are our Common Thread! We thank you for sharing yours!!! :-) 


Signs That You Are In A Twin Flame Relationship

- An overwhelming sense of love and attraction.

- A sense of completion that goes beyond words.

- A magnetism to the other stronger than anything you have ever experienced.

- You will complement one another.

- The ability to literally feel one another whether you are with or without your partner physically.

- A feeling that you are so close, you just might be related - like a brother or a sister.

- A complete and total breakdown of your lives as you knew them upon finding one another.

- The power to touch the other without physical means from great distances.

- Over the course of your life you may have dreams of a "mystery man/woman."

- Synchronicities will be abundant. You may find yourselves calling, emailing and texting one another at the exact same time. You may also find yourselves buying each other the same gifts.

- You may feel your heart wanting to jump out of your chest at the sound of his or her voice.

- The ability to feel each others emotions, whether they be happy or sad ones, from great distances.

- The ability to contact one another just by thinking of the other or meditating and have confirmation the other knows and/or have the same spiritual experience together.

- The desire to be with one another no matter what the obstacle blocking your way.

- The ability to dream of your partner in their current state and verify the accuracy of that dream, later.

- You may notice the ability to collapse time as you knew it. Upon your coming together, time itself will cease to exist. 

-  When you and your partner are out and about, you may notice the eyes of everyone are upon you. Your love for one another will shine so brightly, that it is not uncommon for those near or around you, to be drawn TO YOU! And even though they won't understand what it is the both of you have, they are fed by the beauty of the love.

- You may find yourselves completing each others sentences, sometimes even before you have the chance to begin them.

​- Upon connecting with your Twin Flame or Soul Mate, you may find that you are practically mirror images of one another and that you may want to even run from your flame because of the things you see/feel in yourself from the reflection of his/her eyes.

- If you currently live apart, (even at great distances) you may notice the power to be sexually intimate without ever even physically touching the other.

- You may notice that any of your bad habits, ie. smoking, drinking, or whatever they be, will adversely effect you. Even in your diet, food that you used to be able to eat, will have to be set aside. 

​- You may find that certain dates in your lives, ie. birthdays or the even the day you met, will fit perfectly into the Fibonacci Sequence or 11 11.

- A realization that this isn't the first time the two of you have met... Past life experiences!

- If the both of you are artistic, you may discover that you have been drawn to the same tastes in art or have been drawing the same symbols long before your Twin Flame reunification.

- The individual twins become more as one, without losing their unique identities.

- There may be obstacles to overcome, but there are no barriers between twin flames. The relationship is a totally open one.

- You may meet through unusual circumstances that were totally unplanned and unexpected.

- The two of you know without doubt that you have been brought together for some spiritual purpose.

- It feels as though you have been awakened since your reunion occurred. You feel more alive than you've ever being "born again."

- You give to the other and never think of receiving in return. Giving is the nature of the twin flame relationship and you feel the rewards in your giving.

- There is a very sacred sense of intimacy and feeling of divinely inspired wholeness that one finds within a twin soul relationship. It is not by accident nor is it without purpose. Rather, it is a magnificent and loving part of our Creator’s plan for us. 

- The relationship is immediate, as though no time had been lost since you were last together. Basically, you already know each other...

- There is a strong sense you will be together for all eternity... even when you pass on in this life.

- You still have karma with your twin from previous lives, but the two of you resolve it all with total forgiveness and unconditional love.

- Your conversations seem to go on forever. There is nothing you won't discuss with your twin flame.

- There is nothing hidden between the two of you. You don't hide secrets. You are truthful and respectful to one another.

- There is no need to build walls or barriers between one another from pain or fear the other causes. Your twin will treat you like someone sacred. 

- The two of you are inseparable. No matter if there are distances between you physically there is no distance for the twin souls.

- Neither one of you are dependent on the other for your sense of self. You know who you are with or without your twin flame in the physical.

- Your sexuality with one another is a sacred act that celebrates the unconditional love you have for one another. You feel a deep spiritual oneness with The Creator.

- Trust, patience and acceptance of each other’s weaknesses happen automatically. You will never use that weakness against your twin in anger or hurt.

- There is a special sacredness to your relationship that transcends anything you’ve ever experienced before.

- You feel a deep sense of sacredness and unity with God that you’ve have never known before.

- There are no restrictions within the relationship. All is freedom without the need for ownership or control.  

- You will feel inspired to create and your twin flame inspires your creativity. 

- You do not compete with one another nor do you pretend to be other than who you are. You love each other for your individuality and uniqueness. You understand that some things are better left to your twin's strengths rather than competing.

- You recognize there is a deeper spirituality that you manifest and will find your higher self. You will gain knowledge of what your souls higher purpose is and will serve for that purpose. 

- In spite of your sameness, there is no doubt you feel a sense of completion through the other.

- You will recognize you two are Godmates. You will know you are one with everything in the universe and beyond.

Twin Flame/Soul Mate

Q - Where can I find my soulmate or twin flame?  
A - Anywhere! In person, on the phone, the internet, blogs, chat rooms, dating clubs, maybe even here :) All that's required is that you are searching. You can even find your twin in the spirit world if they are not here on earth.

Q - When can I meet that special somebody?
A - When, has more to do with your life experiences and when your soul has reached a certain point in growth that time will be presented to you. However, just prior to the reunion of your soulmate or twin flame you may notice a very important lesson learned in your life.

Q - Why are twin flames coming together?
A - To be reunited with the other half of their soul which split many lifetimes before. The reason for this is to bring love into a world that is in dire need of healing and light. Once this is accomplished, their mission is complete.

Q - How can I find my soulmate or twin flame?
A - If you have not found your soulmate or twin flame, then take a good look at yourself and be ruthless. Ask: Is there anything I need to improve? Ask: Do I give enough? Ask yourself is there anything that I could do better for the needs and cares of those around you and to the world at large?

Q - When I finally do find my twin flame or soulmate, is my mission complete?
A - No. But your search is over. In fact, your mission is to be role models reminding a vast majority of the world how to give love and compassion. You will be surprised at how people respond to this :) The light that will encompass you, will attract everyone! It is very profound.

Q - I think I have found my twin flame. We love each other so much, but on the rare occasion that we argue, it is just terrible. What can I do?
A - You must work on your karma. Arguing with your twin flame or soulmate will get you nowhere. This is why you must heal all of your unresolved life experiences. Besides, a comment aimed negatively toward your partner will only hurt yourself. Remember - the two of you are connected.

Q - How is that certain food may effect my physical body when the reunion of a twin flame or soulmate is spiritual?
A - The reason for this is that, upon the reunion of your souls, there will be physical changes. The vibration of your soul, itself, will greatly increase and you begin to become a light body.

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How Twin Flames Connect
by Brendan ~ 2008

Throughout all of our lives, whether we were aware of it or not, we have in fact always been "connected" to our Twin Flames. Even before we ever reunited with our twins, we have always shared our Divine Compliments emotions. Being connected, we have shared them with our Twins in happiness and sadness, in sickness and in good health, and from the physical plain to the astral plain. But, when Twins come together in the flesh, even if they are unable to make a life together for a myriad of possible reasons, nothing can keep them apart - not walls, not chains, not oceans, and not even if they live on separate continents. Twin Flames - when they come together, are able to defy all laws that apply to this physical realm - a dualistic plain that is collapsing now, into oneness.

Whether or not you have found your Twin here on earth, in the flesh, or on the astral plain, you are aware of the psychic connection that you both share – it is automatic! However, if you are looking for your twin, seeking advice on these divine relationships, or trying to hone your newfound abilities after the recent discovery of your Twin Soul, then maybe you will find something in the body of this article to help you – better connect. Just think of it as a Twin Soul offering help to another Twin Soul. Which is what we are supposed to be doing, right?

So, how do Twin Flames connect? Simply put - they connect across all space and time through LOVE. That is it! There is no incense burning, no wizard behind the curtains, and no smoke & mirrors. Love is the key to connecting with your Twin Soul. Without love, nothing is possible. However, when the Twins keep their hearts open and full with the love of their divine counterpart's essence and energy, they are connected! When Twin Flames become filled with love, they can experience everything that their other half is experiencing across all time, space and distance. You may see, touch, taste, smell, feel, and be with one another if you so desire. The key to connecting and staying connected to your Twin, is Love. As somebody who has practiced remote viewing and shamanic journeying for "seeing" never have I been able to connect to the spirit world with the ease with which I do now, by way of the love I have for my divine feminine. All of my life, I have searched and failed to realize what the one missing piece to the puzzle was - and that was, Love. Only the Twin Flame can show you this.

Let us say that you have found your Twin, and that you want to "see," him or her. You know you are connected and you are certain that you are in love, but you cannot be together because you are separated by distance. So here is what you can do - close your eyes, and begin to think of all those things that you love about your Twin – especially their Essence. Envision yourself as being right there with your Twin and feel your heart fill with love. When your heart is all "big inside" or “full,” this is when your connection is at its strongest and will help to amplify your experience. Therefore, when you feel your heart fill with love, with eyes closed, envision that you are literally right there with your Twin and you may be surprised at the clarity with which you will be able to perceive him/her. This is not imagination, although the approach is similar. Speaking from experience, you will literally be able to SEE your Divine Compliment - in real time! Moreover, it does not always require a meditative mode or state of being. Some of you will be able to see your Twin Soul wherever and whenever you want. You may see them driving in their cars, at the computer, in bed, or at work – and it will not matter, even if you live in Australia and he lives in the Europe.

Seeing your Twin Flame across space and time, may take some practice and getting used to. After all, we are not actually seeing with our eyes anymore, we perceive them across time and space through the vibe of love – similar to the way shamans would journey in the days of old. If you and your twin are able to communicate, via the phone or internet, share your experiences with each other and verify them for accuracy. This will help you fine-tune your abilities and help you to understand the difference between real and imaginary. However, I would be willing to bet, you will both be very surprised at how accurate this vibe of love, really is. The vibe of love connecting Twin Flames is a star gate, a wormhole, and a time machine, all in one. In addition, when Twin Flames come together in divine love, they receive access to the Kingdom of God.

Connecting with your Twin Flame, in the act of love or sex, whether you are with or without him/her, is the most beautiful display of creation one can ever experience. Making love with your Twin is unlike any other love you will ever have made. It is dreamlike, it is electric, it is Heaven, and I could go on and on and never find the appropriate words in any language on this planet to accurately describe its true meaning or essence. It is simply impossible because the experience itself goes beyond words and imagination. Nevertheless, it is the human dream - the pinnacle of all life experiences - the divine union of masculine and feminine energy.

Sex with your Twin Flame is rarely about self-pleasure, because each of you will be so intent upon giving or serving the other, that it will not matter. The joy is really in the giving! In fact, your love for one another will be so great that you may feel as though you could just give all day long and be just as satisfied even if you never received a bean from the other. Lovemaking with your divine counterpart can and does last for hours. If it were not for the daily necessities of having to eat and drink just to stay alive, the two of you could go on and on until you collapse in exhaustion. Yet, even then, you may find yourself wanting to display your affection in ever changing new ways of love.

Now, let us say that you have found your twin but cannot be with each other because you live on opposite ends of the earth. Being connected - you may find that you are able to make love to your twin, through the dream state, in meditation, over the phone, and by simply closing your eyes and envisioning yourself doing so. It is quite that simple. Remember, this is not self-pleasure; there are no hands required or no need for the Twin to be there physically. The only thing you need to have to make love to your Twin when you're separated by distance, are hearts full of love, which in turn creates an open connection between the two of you, whereby you will be able to send and receive - LOVE! Through this vibe of love, you will literally be able to make love to your twin without ever laying a hand on him/her and in turn and you may receive all the pleasures that you would if you were there, physically – but only better – much better! The secret to success in making love while you are, separated, will depend only on how much "Love" you hold with your Twin.

Let us say that you have decided to meditate on your Twin Soul and you are both aware that you will be meditating on each other at exactly the same time. Once again, close your eyes and let your heart be filled with the essence of your Divine Compliment. Next, envision yourself (without expectation) as standing or sitting directly in front of him/her. The key to successfully contacting your twin is in, the envisioning of him/her. Through the vibe of love, that you have for each other you may visit each other wherever and whenever you want!

Once you have made contact with your Twin and have a visual the rest is up to you. For me, personally, I prefer to go right up to my Twin at first contact and kiss her. How could I not? I find her irresistible. In addition, do not be surprised to see your Twin "split" from the physical form if they have not done so by the time you reach him/her - this is normal but may take some time to digest if you have not experienced it before. After all, it is very profound! With the realization of the power that you have, some of you may be able to try it all on and find that it fits like a glove, while for others it may take some time to accept – especially while you balance out any karma from the past. In the beginning, it may seem overwhelming at first as if what you are experiencing is like something out of a Hollywood film. Words of advice – Welcome your Twin Soul and the newfound abilities that go with this relationship because you will never find another like it.

Other things you may notice while being with your Twin in the spirit world is that you may choose to perceive each other, as he/she would appear in the physical, or you may perceive your Twin as pure energy. The perceiving of your Twin in the physical is enough, alone, for the beginner to be “wowed,” but when you see and feel the pure energy of your twin soul, this is can create an overwhelming sense of ecstasy that can sometimes be so powerful as to break you from your meditation or snap you back to the physical. When this happens, take a break! There will be other times, because your love, which equals the ability to touch each other across time and space, is going nowhere, for you are, awakened. Simply being together, you collapse all time, space and distance. You are the human dream!

As an end note: Paula (my Twin Soul) and I believe, as we are now beginning to experience, that as more and more Twin Souls reunite and “come online,” so to speak, a collective consciousness will emerge. This collective consciousness will not only link yourself to your twin, but will link you to all other Twin Souls that are out there. As more and more Twin Souls come online, the speed and connection we have to work with, will improve. We are literally creating our own web of communication made possible by LOVE. We could all, very well, be linked together through this collective consciousness, which is now accessible.


​If you liked How Twin Flames Connect, click the links below to read more by Paula and Brendan ~

Paula's Articles - Panorama - Sophia Part II - Sophia Part I - Touched by God

Rites of The Heart Part III - Rites of The Heart Part II - Rites of The Heart Part I

Achieving The Light - The Twin Flame Path - Celtic Shamans

The Lion Over The Dragon - The Empyrean Revelation Parts I & II with emails by Bono

The Holy Grail - The I Am Dialogues - Parable of One and Zero

Megan of Moher - How Twin Flames Connect - The Divine Order of Creation

Mystery School - Contact - Divine Feminine Rising - The Stages of Spirit Self

The Concrete and The Abstract - The Pyramid of Souls - Collapsing Duality with Paula and Contributors

Twin Flames Connecting - Journeying  - Twin Flame Grounding Article - The Providence of Divine Union (unfinished article)

The Ten The Ten 2 - The Ten 3 - The Pyramids - The Pyramid of Souls - Pyramid News


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