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Isolde and Tristan
from Europe
Posted 9/7/2009
Your
Name/Nickname.........Isolde Age: 28 Sun sign.... Virgo
Country........................ Europe State........... N/A
Occupation..................N/A
Email contact.............. N/A
Your twins name/nickname........ Tristan Age: 30 Sun sign..... Pisces
Country.........................Europe State ........... N/A
Occupation..................N/A
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
We met at a rock concert when I was 17 going on 18 and He was 20. He saw me in the crowd and was stunned. I saw him when he walked by below me on purpose (I was sitting on a platform), staring at me & I felt his glance so I looked down. Our eyes met, time stopped, and we stared at each other until he disappeared behind the wall. I felt (for a fraction of a second) that I had found and lost something... Fortunately, he returned 10 min later and again we fixated each other until he disappeared in the crowd...
Later in the evening, he found me again and his friend introduced us to each other, since He was too shy to come to me. He later confessed, he never believed that we could ever be together. He thought I was unreal and wouldn't go out with someone like him. How sweet!
We said "I love you!" on our 3rd date! We now express this feeling differently: we say "You thrill me!"
We split 1.5 yr later, because I had to emigrate from my country with my parents. We were too young and inexpirienced back then. Tried to stop the agony many times but never could...
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
His disarming smile, his pure brown eyes, his laughter that sounds like a wind chime, his curls, his big hands and long fingers; his soft lips; his real name, which means "fiery" -- he's my inner fire, my inner everburning flame. The fact that I can be myself and that he loves me for who I am. He's my best friend. This powerful indescribable force that I can feel physically; this deep connection that transcends space, time and distance. A spiritual experience that we once had and that has been the driving force for me to keep searching for answers and stumble upon the Twin Flame notion:
It was Easter and we went to a Holy spiritual place in the mountains. While returning back to the city, in the car we were listenng to a CD with Native American music. Something strange started happening minutes before we entered the car and continued all throughout our journey back home...
We started feeling a unified, eternal flow of energy circulating between our bodies, mirroring from me to him and back again. We were experiencing powerful thrills -- our bodies were throbbing and trembling from head to toe as we were exchanging energies. There were ecstatic feelings of joy, "drunken" heady sensations, orgasmic oneness and there was often a sucking sensation around the cervix, as if vaginal fluid was needed by the energy. There was a heightened sensory awareness as if we comprehended everything. We were feeling beautiful unbounded waves of love, bliss and grace. We had tears in our eyes. We had no idea what it was, but it was the most beautiful and divine feeling on Earth...
I cannot describe it for what it was, but I tried. Whatever it was, was powerful and left an imprint in my mind and soul forever! We felt it only once and nothing methaphysical started happening after that, contrary to other TFs who said they became 'awaken', more sensitive, etc.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Part I: I used to have a secret diary from the age of 13 till the day I met Him. I used to write love poetry in another diary -- poems filled with incompleteness and longing for a soulmate, until I met Him. Suddenly, I stopped writing in either because I felt complete.
Part II: It's been 6 months since I realized that He is the Only One for me and I have become more spiritual because of our relationship. He inspires me to write in rhymes and I feel this flow of poetic energy that is so strong and fast sometimes, that I cannot type as fast as it comes to me. What is that?? Even him, he writes some poetic sentences at times that sound like something I would write. He's never been good at writing! I recently read him a letter he had written to me 9 yrs ago and he said: "If you hadn't told me I had written it, I could have sworn it was something you had written!!"
And even the letter itself -- it's so powerful and full of spiritual wisdom that neither I, nor he had realized what he was writing about back then... As if someone had been dictating him all that. I was able to comperhend it all now, so many years later...
Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
Unlike other TFs, we don't have similar family situations or interests in the same work field. However, in my other 2 relationships after him share some funny facts in common with him:
* all 3 have had long hair prior to meeting me & have listened to the same bands as me
* all 3 have been into taekwondo
* all 3 have a sister the same or almost the same age as me
Apart from that, I see synchronicities now, 9 years later, and it doesn't surprise me:
Lat year:
I hadn't seen him for 8 yrs. I came back to my country to get married to another. As newlyweds, we decided to go to the seaside for a week. I purposely did not want to go to the spot me & my Love had been to 8yrs earlier. Lemme tell ya, it happened that my hubby had a friend right there who offered us a place to stay and his & his g/f's company. No choice, it was Destiny. I could feel Him everywhere!! Everyday I felt that I will see him on the street or at the beach. The way I felt him was mind blowing. The 'signs' too!
1) The same resort
2) A poster of a singer who I was listening to when I wanted to reunite with him a year before that (who was singing, "She's sleeping on your spot and all I see is your face...")
3) One evening, there were some Peruvians dancing and singing in the center of the town. It's strange to see Native Americans in Europe... On top of that, they sang a song from a CD that is so sacred and meaningful to us both, that I was stunned!
No, I didn't see him, but I felt that I should call Him and I did. I told him I was there after so many years... He instantly forgave me everything. We saw each other later on as old friends with huge walls built between us, because we were in relationships.
This year:
* He sent me an e-mail talking about how we "recharge" each other and minutes after that I texted him from work talking about the same thing, without having read his e-mail.
* He was thinking the same thing as me when watching the house in the mountains of Wolverine & Silver Fox in the movie "X-men Origins: Wolverine"
* We were at a car race at the same time, but didn't see each other
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
I was the one to first find out about Twin Flames and spoke to him about it. We cannot tell for sure if we are, but we know that it's a special deep connection that always keeps us in touch with each other, no matter the time that has passed, the circumstances, etc. We always come back to each other.
I am now married and he is in a relationship with some financial complications that he needs to work out. We're working on our future reunion.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
I cannot say that I see Me in Him, but we feel very well connected and experience the same 'thrills' as we call them when we think of each other or talk over the phone.
I have always dreamed of him. He never dreams.. He says that he feels "enchanted" by me; that there is something magical in our connection between each other.
Years ago, when we got separated by distance (8000km), he used to tell me "I feel you...", but I never knew what he meant up to recently.. My Ego was huge back then, 'thanks' to my mom's influence. I used to think that he was saying that to make me feel that there's something I have to cling onto. I'm happy I finally realized what he meant and never question it again!
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
I cannot say for sure. I just know that when we broke up for good 2 yrs ago, we were both 100% sure that we'll meet in another lifetime or in the afterlife and felt this weird peace and calmness by knowing that...
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
Hmm... Nothing major really, I was thinking of some guy I thought I was in love with when he passed by me and made me forgot all about the other one, haha! Our second reunion, that's happening now separated by physical distance: well, I got married last year and I guess I realized that even marrying someone else could never help me escape this bond... I was 'the Runner' up until recently....
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time?
Our number is 13, but there are some 11s sometimes too. I was born on the 13th, we met on the 31st, became b/f-g/f on the 13th, made love for the first time on the 11th, I parted on the 11th; he lives in building #11, my building was #11 and later became #130. I work in a company, which name contains his name, the street on which it is located is of my name and number of street contains 13. Lately, I have been noticing 11:11 and 1:11 but I don't count on it, since it started happening after I read about the phenomenon ; )
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
I don't know... We both love helping people and we do work with people in our jobs. People easily confess to us and we're good listeners. We'll see what's in store for us in the future.
I just know that it's always Him the reason for my drive, my Inspiration to be more spiritual and grow. He makes me a better person.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
I'm not the best adviser in this situation, but all I can say is to try and put the Ego false-self down!
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
He's very busy with his job and life, but I know he's spiritual and believes in the same things I do. I know I have become even more spiritual ever since this 'magic moments in the mountains' happened, even though I started looking deeper into it just now -- 10 yrs later...
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
N/A
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? Eclectic, Judeo-Christian, Metaphysical, Spiritualist
Christian/Spiritual
Are you artistic..................................................? YES
Do you believe in reincarnation.........................? YES
Free Form Comments:
There are a few movies that describe our story:
Tristan+Isolde
The Notebook
Serendipity
I called us Tristan & Isolde, because this movie touched us both on a very deep emotional level 2 yrs ago...
I would really like to know what you guys think of our story!! I am still not sure if we are TFs, but any advise and comment will be appreciated deeply!
