Jason and Etta
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Jason and Etta
from  the USA
posted on 11/25/2009
Name/Nickname.........Jason                               Age: 40                 Sun sign....

Country........................ USA                                  State........... 

Occupation.................. Management  

Email contact.............. N/A

Your twins name/nickname........ Etta                  Age:  38                 Sun sign.....

Country.........................USA                                  State ...........

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

I met Etta when I was in high school. We were two grades apart. We did not know each other well  the one year we were together in school, but we were aware of each other. About 11 years later our paths crossed again. Etta was hire to the comapnay that i was working for, but had just resigned. Through the next several years our paths continued to cross. Eventualy we would see each other more often. After another 10 years of our paths crossing over and over again, we both admitted to each other that there was an undeniable attraction that the two of us had had together for years. From that first time I saw her ten years ago, I knew it was something. Nothing I could put my arms around---just a feeling the minute I saw her after 10 years.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

There is a spirit about her that makes me smile. It makes me want to live life. I want to be a different person. I want to open my heart up and be an open person. I want to do everything I have ever done and loved with her---as if it were doing it for the first time. I want to experience every moment with her that has meant something special in life---just to see her joy in those moments.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

It has been the greatest blessing and the worst tragedy of my life. I have discovered so much about who i am and what i want to become. But we are not ready for each other. My fear is that she is too affraid of the power of what we can be. Past failures and fear of being exposed freezes her in her tracks. I want her to feel and belive she deserves---all I have to give---but she wont take it from me. She wont give it to herself.

Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

There are days when I can feel her presense. We went for months without talking. Instictivly I was drawn to read from a place where i knew she would go. After months of not talking I went to the site where she has posted that very day. It is a draw that is unexplainable but real.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 


Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  


Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

With our history, I know our souls are finding each other. Two ten year stretches where we were brought together.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

I was a happy person. I have accopmplished a lot. I have succes with work, lots of friends and great family. I was just missing something,

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

They are so many occassion where a thought occurs, a song plays, a name is called out---and the clock reads the number 11 in some way.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  


What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Be honest. Dont pretend it isnt there. Dont deny the signs. I was never a beleiver. I didnt want to beleive when this all started. Now I am faced with trying to convince myself that they are NOT real. The fear in her won't let her move forward. Maybe all the stuff we have shared and felt wasnt real----but there i go again trying to pretend it wasn't. I am trying to convince myself I didnt have this connection---maybe out of fear. Maybe out of self preservation. But I believe in the signs. Even when the signs force you to make changes you are scared to death to make. Believe in yourself enough to find the most special thing you have ever known.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

What is next for you and your Twin Flame? How do you keep from missing out on something so amazing?

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

With all my heart. I believe in all reality we both have. Etta was spiritual before. She has always believed in this idea of Twqin Flames. But what I woke in her has scared her.  She is affraid to face herself. This is my belief. No matter how much I want to help--no matter how much I will love her through the process--she is too affraid to face herself ---even if that means getting to her Flame.

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My story needs to be told. There are those who never believe. I was a skeptic. But I have experienced something I never believed possible. I have had my heart opened up to show me what is possible. But the truth is that even in the midst of all the joy---the sadness of reality can haunt you. The fear of opening up can cause others to shut down. I Know Etta loves me. She is just to affraid to show herself. My hope is that the othe "Etta's" of the world may read this some day and take the chance at something ---knowing that the chance is only a confirmation of what is already scripted. It is a love very few will ever have a chance to experience. The tragedy that it may never be, should not exist. When you find your flame - you are meant to be together.

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