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Jass and Ben
from Europe and Africa
posted on 5/28/2010

Your Name/Nickname......... Jass                        Age: 31             Sun sign....Aquarius

Country........................Europe                              State........... N/A


Email contact...............N/A

Your twins name/nickname........ Ben                  Age:  36             Sun sign.....Aries
Country.........................Africa                                State ........... N/A

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

We met on internet...still not met in person.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

In the beginning was the feeling to be so comfort and open in talking with the stranger. Day by day we become so attracted by each others company that being able to chat, makes the sense of that day. So many times reading his answers were my own thoughts explained on better English that left me in shock and with tears in my eyes. Honestly sometimes I was even scared. Till this day reading his words is something that gave me peace in my soul. We are very similar in the way of believing, seeing on life and people and just felt the same for most of things. I Feel him as my brother by soul. His smile is the warmest smile I ever see. Even other people said how we have the same smile and same energy.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

He helped me to learn the thing I wanted to learn mostly in the years before I met him- The Faith. His faith and his way of believing open... completely new way how I see on myself, life and Universe now. The difficulties in our communication later just proved to me how much my faith was increased during the time, and how strong I was able to love and trust to somebody. No matter of anything, what I feel now is just pure thankfulness for the chance to have met him. I feel it as a special gift.

Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

I was never good in noticing things like this. Maybe sometimes sending SMS in the same moment or asking the same questions at the same time. Once I remember , two days before he came online - exactly in the moment I was listening to my favourite love song. It was so magical. I have always been interested about guys who wear caps. Once he told me that for some reason all his life he feels like he has worn a cap.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

We are not together. We live on distance of 10 000 km. No matter what distance we planned to meet each other but because personal problems in his life we didn't manage to organize that till now. In the last 2 years many times we stop communicating for some time and then back in each others life again. And when we did that the feeling always was as there was no  time between. We never talked about twin flames. I learn about that later but all I have read just explain good what was happening between us. He was never able to explain the closeness and special connection between us. ME - I know now.
I don't know what future holds for us. Still feel him somehow all the time even his decision to stop communicating with me for few months already. I don't understand but feel that I should respect that. And I do!

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  


Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

I can't answer on this question for sure. But once when I was reading a book about reincarnation and reunion, all the time I felt him inside me even the fact that back then, we had only known each other for a very short period of time.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

I had a big personal crisis before and in the period before he came in my life. I felt so lonely that I felt a physical pain from the loneliness, if anybody knows what I mean. That was the only time I felt like this and his smile came in the right moment in my life. 

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

I was trying to figure this out, but I am not good in it. Nothing connected to 11 11 but number 7 was always special for me. I am born on the 7th and always use it as my favourite number. And on the site we met his username was exactly few 7's. 7 is his favourite number too.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

Yes, in this lifetime we both chose to be faced with a personal, big physical disability who will help us to grow our spirit. Like we took the same journey but on different destination.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
To accept that blessing without the fear about how it will end. And to do everything possible to make it well.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 


Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

Yes impossible to not have that influence to each other when you met. Maybe we can all define it differently but one thing is for sure, that we came to each other�s life with a big purpose.

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? 

Believe in myself, God and Universe- all connected by love.

Are you artistic..................................................?  Yes

Do you believe in reincarnation.........................?  Yes

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