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K. and A.
from USA
posted on 7/5/2010

Your Name/Nickname......... K.                              Age: 28       Sun sign....Pisces

Country........................USA                                    State........... IL


Email contact...............N/A

Your Twins name/nickname........ A.                    Age:  29       Sun sign.....Scorpio
Country.........................USA                                  State........... IL


Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

We met at a birthday party of a mutual friend. We have a very tangled story, but basically a man I used to date a few years ago brought A around and introduced me. I will never forget as I was standing in line waiting to get some food and my friend asked me if I was there with anyone. I of course was single and frustrated with men and answered no. Then a handsome man came up and handed him a beer and in one look, my friend asked me if he reminded me of a long lost love! turned out as I look back he did remind me physically of a soulmate who I was involved with for several years never becoming a complete couple until I left him to pursue his own dreams in CA. Well the night I met A turned out to be  very magical night indeed. During the first meeting moments he acted interested, yet reserved until I looked up from across the room and saw him staring at me in such an intense way with no fear in his eyes. I couldn't believe it! I never experienced
such an ancient loving glance before. After the restaurant we left to go to another bar. We were inseparable and kept talking to each other non-stop. From there we ended up talking about politics, careers, dreams, goals, personalities. Once again I was blind to his attraction to me until we passed eachother on the way to the bathroom and I caught his eyes deeply boring into my soul...with such a serious look. The night ended several hours later with me giving A my number incase he wanted to be friends and hang out sometime. My friend drove me home and told me before I got out that he suggested A and I get to know each other more since we have a lot in common. I simply could not see it! I remembered our conversation and thought we said the exact opposite of each content we were talking about. He wants fame and glory with his building designs and I want to teach kids and be behind the stage now after being an actress and singer. He saw life in the opposite way I did, I never thought he would call me or want to talk to me..however I was proven wrong when he called 3 days later asking me out. After that night, we were instantly in an exclusive relationship that lasted 6 months. Within this worldwind romance, he managed to make an extra key for me to come and go as I please, he trusted me fully like his own self and we had no problems other than my insecurities and his insecurities which surfaced slowly...which is why we had to learn separately on our own to love ourselves before we can come back together again.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

He carried the same energy as me. He and I vibrate on the same level. We never hurt anyone and we both had that lighthearted carefree childlike spirit at times. His eyes looked at me with intensity and always seemed like he knew something I didn't or that in time I too would find out. Looks, tastes, quirks, interests were all the same. Every song or group he showed me I loved...we truly were in touch musically.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

Before I met him, I had "awakened" spiritually to life, but now having this twin flame energy experience I am confirmed now that life is far more exciting, beautiful and expansive than I could of thought. It has been rough, we are no longer together as this intimate relationship came at this point to give us each a glimpse of what pure love can be like . So it has been hard, but an amazing thing has happened. I have taken all of his "teachings" and have been applying them to my life now. I am going to gradschool (like he convinced me of doing), I am also getting stronger and more fit daily, I am seeing a counselor every week, I am balancing my karmic imbalances with my family. So many things have changed after meeting him...with his love and confidence in me as a huge catalyst. I hear after me, our mutual friend says he only can date girls that look like me and have the same interests as I do ;)

Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

All the time! Never before has it seemed the universe pulled us together so strongly than in this relationship. When I was dating him, we ran into each other once in the subway. After we broke up, I ran into him twice in the big city of 3 million people! I also learned that we have been at the same concerts, I have seen him drive by me on the street AND the friend of mine who introduced me say that every time I call out of the blue to see them, HE calls them out of the blue to come visit them either that same day or the next day! supposedly A and I have missed a few awkward run ins a few times already. I have also ran into a few of his friends and a coworker I hung out with once lived in his same building before he moved. I also have had a sales client live in the same building as him! Not to mention my father lived on the same street across from his apartment building as a young man himself. Too many synchronicities to count....and the list keeps growing.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

A is my opposite half. He is closed off spiritually and has a very open sexual chakra. I have a closed off one due to the bad experiences with men, but a very open spiritual chakra. He definitely is at a different place on the learning curve than I am. I am a little more further along in the spiritually receptive part, however he is further along in his physical manifestation part. However, I am learning how to balance all my energies which is something he is on the path to do as well...otherwise he would of never have met me in the first place as I him.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

There are many. I dream about him and I seeing eachother in the future and he always says "don't worry, we will be together one day" or I dream we are getting married. I see his name often which is not a common name, I hear songs we made love to or danced to in his apartment all the time in bars or the radio. When I walk down the street, I physically feel him also walking at the same time bopping to the same beat and radiating the same energy as I do. I did have an interesting meditation session once where I believe angels were telling me as I cried to them about my loss of A and my broken heart. They told me he is encoded in my DNA as I am in his and to not worry any longer...for when we reach zero point, we will be drawn into each other's lives again as was always planned out. They told me to be patient for 2012 as all will feel a shift. Hopefully this is a message for others as patient! :)

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

He and I never discussed this, but he always had this knowing that THIS was not the end and we would always be in eachother's lives. Until I discovered the term Twin Flame after he ended things I had no idea why he acted so assured. Now I know cause I am HIM and he is ME! We can not be separated now since we have been introduced to each other.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

I have been in and out of relationships with men who did not treat me with the respect that he showed me finally. I had finally ended it with this other soulmate of mine, I was with for 8 months. Through it all I learned alot, but I never learned the lesson of love until A came along. A showed me what it truly meant to be loved fully in my essence. He taught me the art of self-love through loving me. Seeing his love for me makes me love myself! which is something I needed to do to balance my energies fully.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

I see 11:11 all the time, it seems no other time exists to me now. I believe it is an activation code for twin flames to wake up to the balancing of their female and male energies as 11:11 is a balanced image visually and looks like strong pillars that symbolize the ONE divided into TWO and then it is mirrored back. Also Edgar Cayce first talked about TF and said that they would meet on certain days. One of them being the 15th of the month. I looked back at the times we met and saw a pattern. We met on Nov. 1, we ran into eachother on the 15th of the month twice, I sent him a love email on the 1st in which he it seems to be 1s and 15ths involved so far only in our meetings. Also his birth month 11 and my month and date equals 11.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

I know that is something A and I shared unspoken. He and I both feel a duty towards humanity in a big way...and that is why he is so intense about his career and not focusing on relationships (he STILL is not dating anyone after me and I am not either)I also felt that this is my last lifetime to really truly make a mark in life...and I know he also has these feelings as he told me with his eyes aglow about his dreams and beliefs in his career. He made me see the severity of my effect I can have.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Do not doubt that once you are on this path, guided here to this site, to twin flame books and have a deep knowledge inside that this is your lifetime to experience this divine love energy that really truly is the ultimate gift from the creator. It is about reuniting your two halves through the manifestation of another person and vice versa. It will happen if you are drawn to this concept in the first place..if not, you would not be guided to discover more about the twin flame energy.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 


Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

I believe I have awakened more...I see A very stubborn and set in his ways. It is ultimately his choice to let this side of life in, but yes, I do believe he is tempted with thoughts late at night of "what the heck was that relationship?!" and "is life really as it all seems?". I think he is now on a spiritual path and trying to find himself before he can vibrate on the same level as me spiritually in which we can come together once again.

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? 

ALL is ONE and ONE is LOVE

Are you artistic..................................................?  Yes

Do you believe in reincarnation.........................?  Yes

Free Form Comments -

A showed me myself. Every TF story is different, but it all leads up to you experiencing an inner love reflected outward by a physical manifestation of your ideal match. I have seen my fears, my insecurities, my doubts, my repressed pain and anger and now am in a healing mode. I am learning to heal myself in order to become a better healer. I think I showed him the same as it was reflected back to now we are moving in our separate directions working on our own levels individually until we reach zero point and balance our energies, so that we can reunite and take the next step of this incarnation together...and show this world what love truly is :D

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