Kandice and Matt
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Kandice and Matt
from The USA
Posted 8/29/2009
Name/Nickname.........Kandice                              Age: 21               Sun sign.... Cancer

Country........................ USA                                    State...........  VA


Email contact.............. camillahairdesigns@gmail.com

Your twins name/nickname........ Matt                    Age:  18               Sun sign..... Cancer

Country.........................USA                                     State ........... NY

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

We met online. We really started talking through a set of unusual circumstances. We have been through a lot of the exact same things in our childhood. He had knowledge of my social anxiety, so he contacted me in order to help me...it was over from then on! 

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

His eyes, our similarities, my ability to be myself, a powerful indescribable force that I can feel physically.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

In infinite ways. I have grown closer to God, gained a much greater appreciation for the spiritual realm, I am much more thirsty for knowledge of the spiritual realm. I have learned so much about myself and relationships through our relationship. I now yearn to fulfill my earthly purpose. I understand the bible a lot better then a lot of people now.

Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

We have been through many of the same things and come together because of what we both have been through in our past. I guess you can call it destiny. We have similar hobbies. We both have an appreciation for music, poetry, and religion. We also share many beliefs. I consider him to be myself in male form.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

We have many obstacles. A few are- He is three years younger than me, He is hundreds of miles away, his personality, my insecurity, but we have faith that we will overcome all of our obstacles.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

When I look at him, I see.........me LITERALLY....like I was in his body looking at myself if that makes sense! One night, I had a dream that a female was kissing on his neck in a car. I woke up thinking it was me. He later tells me a story of what actually happened. THE VERY night I had that dream. It wasn't me in the dream, it was one of his friends. The way he described it is EXACTLY how it played out in my dream. I was blown away. He has also had a dream about something I have been trying to hide from him....WOW.

Lastly, one night, I started crying for no reason at all. He calls me later and tells me he may not be able to move to where I stay, and he cried for the first time in years. (He says) It's so powerful.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

I have, but I have not shared this with him. When I see him in pictures and look at his eyes, I see me....a brother, a sister, a lover, a friend...I see someone that looks completely different from many years past, but possesses the same eyes.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

Chaotic. Painful. I cant think of one particular "BIG" thing that has happened. I feel like my life has literally just begun ever since I've known him.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

Our phone numbers. WOW. I was having the worst day of my life one day, and something told me to add our phone numbers together (without the area code because its not unique) and the first four numbers are 8374. 8+3=11 7+4=11. 1-1-1-1. I immediately knew that was God telling me everything was ok and that I should not give up on life.

Also, many of our intense conversations happen on the 11th. The number of letters in our names together equal 29. 2+9=11.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

Since meeting me, he has become very in touch with God and gained a very strong desire to fulfill his earthly purpose. He did a complete 180! I have always possessed a feeling of a higher calling, I knew I could reach people through my career path.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Don't look! God will place him/her -  in your life when you least expect it, and when he feels you both are ready for somethig this intense. Personally, we are taking another year before we meet in person because I am not ready for the intensity of the physical reunion quite yet.

You will not have to force anything. Twin flames should not be romanticized, as it is a spiritual relationship....and life is not a fairytale!

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak? 

Definitely! Like I have said before, he has done a complete 180. He is so interested in religion and Spirituality. Before I met him, I was just your everyday Christian, but now I am so much more spiritual. I yearn to learn more about the spiritual realm, reincarnation, and teach others the knowledge I have gained through this relationship.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

When you look into their eyes or ake love, what do you experience?

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..?  Christian/Spiritual

Are you artistic.................................................?  YES

Do you believe in reincarnation........................?  YES

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