Kristin and Jude
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Kristin and Jude
from New Zealand
Posted 7/14/2009
Name/Nickname......... Kristin                                      Age: 43             Sun sign.... Taurus

Country........................ New Zealand                           State...........  N/A


Email contact..............

Your twins name/nickname........ Jude                        Age:  47            Sun sign..... Cancer

Country.........................New Zealand                          State ........... N/A                                                       

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)   We met online, we were in love before we met it seems, we knew that night, we knew we loved each other, that we were the one's for each other.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?   We connect on every level, fully, spiritual, emotional, creativity (we are each other's muse), intellectual, and oh yes physical!

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?   It is like my old life is falling away, leaving me in all my glory to start a new life with Jude. My old dreams have fallen away, replaced by (refound)dreams that are very simple.

The poem below describes it best:

I want you to know that in meeting you
something seemingly irreparable
has happened to my life.

Without you my life turns to grey and white,
only with you does the colour return.

I yearn for you and only you,
all other possibilities evaporate into nothing.

I yearn for you to be my backbone,
to support me as I reach for my dreams.

I yearn for you as the tree under which I shelter and thrive,

Without you,
and thriving,
stand with you,
apart from me,

I lean over
and start whispering in your ear....
you are the prism
that disperses the colour
i bring...
so it can be seen in its entirety...
and not just as white light�
..i love you

Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?  We call it "snappin' ", we do it all the time, same thought, same intention, same time... we just say "snap" and carry on :) if it is happening particularly a lot we'll usually comment "we're really snapping tonite babe!"  

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.  N/A

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.   Can feel each other all the time when separated, can choose more disconnection if needed, can focus in on it, exceptionally strong when we are apart but communicating our love eg internet. We can feel each other's emotional state, sexual state...the love connection emanates from the heart, the sexual connection vibrates from the heart, through the solar plexus, to the groin and back, all feelings of connection are a vibrating energy that has feelings and colours attached.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.  What we do know is that our souls are in relationship on other levels at the same time as we are here on this planet, reuniting (cos it feel so good ;) )

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?  My life was comfortable, getting 'ahead', was lonely for someone to live the rest of my life with but have a bunch of supportive, lovely friends who are always there for me :)

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time?  No

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  Well, yes, I always wanted to be Martin Luther! it took a long time for a 7yr old white girl in New Zealand to accept she probably wasnt going to lead the next African American civil rights revolution!!...

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships? Searching: well I am not sure how many "twin flames" actually knew about the term before it happened? Seems it's more likely to happen when the universe reveals the relationships true identity to you because it is so strong and so perplexing you tend to have tp stay open to the spiritual connection to ground it into the here and now.

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?  We have awakened each other equally...just as our love is fully reciprocal, "snappin'" at every turn, we love each other truly, madly, deeply, equally....

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?  What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now?

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..?  Jude says "Jedi", we both take and leave from teh vast pool of ideas and experiences to formulate our spiritual beliefs, they are every changing, and completely synchronous.

Are you artistic.................................................?  YES

Do you believe in reincarnation........................?  YES

Free Form Comments: 

Some poetry to sign off, our vows we wrote after meeting on net, three days later...


What I like about being with you...
is that I can be all of me...
usually I have to hold back the expression of things spiritual because they don't understand...
usually I have to limit intellectual conversation because they can't keep up...
usually I have to keep things Maori to myself because they can't relate...
but with you,
I can be all,
of me�

And what I like about being with you...

is you allow me to be all of me...

for we can talk about the spiritual...and I feel like I am talking to my soul

for we can have an intellectual conversation...and I feel like I am talking to my equal

for we can talk about things Maori...and I feel like I am wrapped in your wairua

with you I too,

can be all,

of me...

K + J     10th Feb, 2008


A soft yearning,
in a safe place,
a warm set of hearts,
with only good intent,
beats in unison.

My hand caresses
the nape of your neck,
all of me vibrates to you,
you, who gives me light,
to colour my world.

I hold you firm,
safe and steady,
I want to be the place
for your tears
and your joy.

How hard is this?
unbelievably so�

J+K  16th July 2008

what kind of love is this?

An expression of love that is so pure,
it has to open so very, very wide,
be the widest love,
the most all encompassing love,
the most accepting love of all...

K+J 16th Sept 2008


Today, your love, is engraved upon my arm.
Today, my lost children, are engraved upon my arm.
That have been urging me forward since february.
That have a found a way through,
through you but not through me�

The colour of our love
is engraved within my arm,

The colour of our children
is engraved within my arm.

Kristin 10 10 08


My butterflies will always fly home to you...

..every day... comfort and remind you that you are well loved....

..there is no difference....

..from day to day...

..for that is all they know... is the only path they choose to follow....

..for they love you...

by  Jude   23rd Dec 2008

               The Present Tense
as in, not what might happen one minute from now
and not what happened a minute ago
         but right now, right here,
         you and me
         time stops
         until it needs to start again

K 23rd April 2009

Sculpture by Kristin
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