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L.J. and Dave
From The USA
Posted on 12/27/2010

Your Name/Nickname.........L.J.                         Age: 23         Sun sign......Virgo/Leo Cusp

Country........................USA                                                        State........... N/A



Your Twins name/nickname........Dave             Age: 22        Sun sign.....Pisces
Country.........................USA                                                      State........... N/A


Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

At a bar...I know, I know, a bar of all places.  Thing is, my friend and I ended up at this bar on a whim.  It was a classic choice of making a left and going home, or making a right and staying in the area, wherein a promoter for the bar came up to us and asked if we wanted to get in for free.  We said what the heck and found ourselves inside.  I was smoking a cigarette and needed to put it out, conveniently (sarcasm) there wasn't an ashtray at the area of the bar I was at, look over and there he was next to an ashtray.  Conclusions can be drawn from there.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

As soon as I saw him, I just knew I had to talk to him.  When I asked him for the ashtray across the bar, he slid it to me, I turned to my friend, and a few seconds later he slid over and was right next to me, so I guess you could say he took initiative there.  The energy was instantaneous.  We fed off of each other and our conversation kept rolling, and grew and grew.  We had the same taste in music, the same sense of humor, the same taste in a lot of things and would blurt out the same albums, artists, what-have-you at the same exact time.  I'd never experienced that with anybody.  His energy was so palpable, and even when he made a lame joke, I understood the intent and where it was coming from.  I didn't brush anything he said to the side.  Two hours felt like five minutes.  He made me feel so alive just by talking to me.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

He's a template for what I strive to achieve.  I grew so much in terms of viewing love in the short amount of time we had together.  Meeting him made me believe in this kind of magic, because prior to meeting him, I had no idea what a twin flame was.  He compelled me to seek this phenomena out.

Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

I believe so.  There have been strange occurrences.  An example: I will be talking about something in person with a friend; a joke, an article, a certain subject, and lo and behold he'll post something on his facebook talking about the same exact thing, adorned with vocabulary that I consistently use in my day to day lexicon.  It's just too uncanny to be coincidence.  I also believe that sometimes when my mood shifts for no apparent reason, up or down, it could possibly be because he's feeling that way at that moment.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

It's a long story, but to give the abridged version:  When we met, he was in town for his birthday (he lives half a country away from me).  We met on a Saturday night, spent the rest of that night together well into the morning, and then repeated that again on Sunday night.  I only ever spent two days with him.  That Sunday/Monday morning, he said, "This feels so..." and I replied "right."  It was exactly what I was thinking.  I dropped him off at his hotel, and for the month proceeding our meeting, we kept in touch all day, everyday through texts.  Then one day, out of nowhere, he didn't call, text, or anything.  I confronted him about it the next day, but didn't really get an answer, so I just let it be, but internally never let it go.  We spoke again 2 months later when he contacted me (a friend got in touch with him indirectly and told him to call me, she did this without my knowledge), he told me he was involved with someone else, but throughout the conversation I garnered that he still had feelings for me.  We got off the phone and didn't speak for again for over a year.  This past summer I friend requested him on facebook, and we spoke for a little bit, but we were then both involved in our own relationships so not much was to be done on the grounds of properly rekindling.  As of right now, I'm still with someone, but he's single.  I get the notion that he won't speak to me because of it, to avoid any daunting feelings, which I believe is best.  Thing is, it still pains me to not be with him.  All in all, it's my heart that tells me those things, not him himself.  Our lives are just on completely different courses right now, but not a day has gone by since our meeting that I haven't thought about him, and trust me, I'm a girl that can cut my losses.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

Any confirmation to this question is one I would have to reach inside of myself and find the answer to, because it's something we obviously have never been able to truly discuss.  I just know that some days are better than others, but I sometimes think that things constantly remind me of him even when I'm not looking for it, visual or auditory.  Additionally, he's definitely been the most recurrent person in my dreams, and whenever I do a good deed (big or small) I feel like the energy from it has the possibility to reach him, or make him proud of me in some strange way.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

Based on the research I've done and how I felt in his presence, I got the feeling that I could say anything, tell him anything, and not be judged.  I just felt comfortable, like he could be my best friend, lover, and mentor all in one.  Due to that, I tend to believe that this might be our first incarnation together.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

Well, I had never truly been in love although I had dated a guy for a year and a half.  After I broke it off with that guy, I entered this transitional stage where I just wanted to have fun and to come and go as I pleased because I'd never had the power or confidence to do so. The night I met him, I wasn't looking to swoon or be swooned.  I wasn't being very kosher with myself at that time to be honest, but when I met him, I started to make decisions that prompted myself away from all of that because I knew he didn't deserve any of it hampering who I was, and could have been for him.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

I remember the exact date we met, and it adds up to 11 11.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

Yes, I have...with my writing.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
If you want it, you can't exactly search for it.  It comes to you.  If you're in the midst of a separation like I am, you just have to be better with yourself.  It's difficult to be human and balance out this mystical reality with rationalization, but at the end of the day, just talk to your heart.  Sharpen that intuition and try your hardest to not doubt the power of the universe.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 


Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

I believe that he has awakened me.  I also believe that I tweaked something inside of him that he's never felt, but is too emotionally scared to step forward and recognize it, therefore he just ignores it (another reason why this could possibly be our first incarnation). 

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....In between a set belief system and my own musings.

Are you artistic.................................................?  YES

Do you believe in reincarnation...................?  YES

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