Lorraine and Jeremy
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Lorraine and Jeremy
from The USA
Posted 8/13/2009
Name/Nickname.........Lorraine                               Age: 46               Sun sign.... Aquarius

Country........................ USA                                    State...........  Ut

Occupation..................Educator / Lightworker / Artist             

Email contact.............. frostysupreme@hotmail.com

Your twins name/nickname........ Jeremy               Age:  27               Sun sign..... Aquarius

Country.........................USA                                     State ........... Ut
Occupation..................Anthropology Student / Artist / Musician

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

We were introduced by a mutual friend at Jeremy's place where he was having a get-together. This was more than two years ago. I always felt attracted to him, but I just thought he was a young handsome babe...he is....but he's my twin!

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

He is both beautiful physically and spiritually. He has a beautiful heart, insight and understanding. The fact that he and I are so alike draws me to him. I also just feel compelled to be near him at times.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

My mind has been blown because just a month ago, I didn't know twin flames existed. I had never pondered the concept intellectually. I am now fairly certain that I am mot mad. The whole concept just threw me. I feel more connected than I ever have and my purpose in life is becoming clearer. It has expanded my awareness considerably. It has totally changed my outlook on love, because it answers everything my soul has yearned for. I feel immensely blessed and yet, to whom much is given, much is expected. So, I feel greatly challenged as well.

Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

We are both visual artists who share love for both Gandhi and Mother Theresa. We have tons in common, but I wouldn't call these thing sychronicities. I would say he and I share a very parallel life scripts. Some of our life experiences parallel one another's very closely.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

He is 19 years my junior and as a male, he naturally should want to be the alpha in the relationship. But because I have traveled and done many of the things he hopes to do, I think he feels intimidated by me. He has told me he will "catch up and get back with me." I have healing and karma to work out. I know he must too. So, I do not feel this is the time for a full reunion. It is a very frustrating and confusing time for me, as well as being inspirational and motivating. It's just mind blowing in so many ways.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

I was recently driving to a training and had hoped to see Jeremy afterward. I got on the expressway and realized I had gained an hour. I didn't know how it happened and I mentioned this event to him. I never understood it. I do not understand how it happened because I hadn't played with my alarm clock. I had been napping and set the alarm to get up and drive to the training. On the expressway, I looked at the time on my cell phone and it was an hour earlier than what my clock said at home. It was a strange phenomenon. That's all I can say. I still don't understand it.

I feel that we are able to communicate telepathically and that I understand his thoughts. I hope he is receptive to my thinking as well. I have a feeling he reads my mind, because he has finished my sentences once or twice, even though I didn't really know what I was saying.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

He once told me he thinks we were married in another life. I only sensed something when he was saying that to me, but now I understand this is probably true. He once wrote me that he thought we were martyrs and temple dancers in another lifetime. These kinds of things are coming from him, so I will assume he is really sensing them.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

Just as so much information on Twin Flames says, I was the one coming out of the "dark night of the soul" wherein I was depressed and despondent about almost everything in my life.

I have been unemployed for almost a year now and I was even suicidal (mentally) about my situation. I was fired from two jobs last year and it affected my self esteem in a down spiraling way.

I have raised my children on my own and now they are never home and older, not needing me. The whole situation really put me in a "lost" state of mind. I suffered with insecurity and fear and my attitude was horrible. This was as recent as a month or so ago, but I have made some drastic outlook changes and they're working so far...Better times ahead!

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

Jeremy and I both have the Master number 11 as our Hearts' Desire or Souls Urge. Everyone I am attracting right now seems to either have a birthpath of 11 or a heart's desire of 11.

We both are old souls according to numerological challenges. According to the book Spiritual Astrology, he came to teach and learn the exact lessons as did I. They use prenatal eclipses to determine such things.

In his teen years and in mine, we experienced some of the same karmic and painful experiences. The experiences of being institutionalized by an unstable parent, being maliciously overdosed by others and being arrested when innocent are common to us both. He works in the library as did I when a college student. He and I are both visual artists and each have good senses of humour.

Finally, I looked at his palm and realized we both share a not so common line called the Ring of Solomon. Only afterwards did I read on TF sites that similar palm lines and a developed sense of humour are shared between twins.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

I have always felt something, but then again, maybe I am a megalomaniac? Joke! No, I have always felt aspirations to higher levels of awareness, living, and humanitarian service. I suppose I have always felt "something" :) I will have to ask him if he has had these feeings as well.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Be Strong. Live Your Life as Best You Can. Grow Spiritually. Be Blessed. Rejoice in the Blessings Abounding in Your Life. Even if you can't be with your Twin Flame, send Love and Prayers so he/she is surrounded by Support. Be Amazed at God's Creation and Love for Us!

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak? 

I know I have been awakened to a stronger desire for spirituality and devotion to God. I feel more courageous right now, due to changes in my thoughts and this phenomenon presenting itself. I feel we have both been awakening one another to the phenomenon and nature of our Twin Flame relationship. I can only hope through this, he is awakening to his higher purposes in this life.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

I think you did wonderfully! Thank You!

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..?  Eclectic, Judeo-Christian, Metaphysical, Spiritualist

Are you artistic.................................................?  YES

Do you believe in reincarnation........................?  YES

Free Form Comments: 

When I met Jeremy, I had no idea we were Twins. I now cannot seem to stop thinking about him, although I know we each have things we need to work out.

It is a very frustrating thing to feel this way about someone who isn't right there with you on the same page, yet who validates everything with his words and actions.

I am both an idealist and a perfectionist, and I am ready to settle down and do the cool Aquarian work I feel I was born to do. Of course I want to do it with him! But, I don't have patience, so I will be doing the proverbial growing and paradigm shifting needed no matter what!

When we are together, there is a dreamy state of mind that we share. When I am in his arms, I feel utterly blissful. I just love the energy created when we're together. There is a lot of chemistry on all levels.

He has admitted that he is afraid of me, but it is clear that he enjoys my company and gets into a dreamy state of mind when we're together. There is a heightened sense of spirit and time itself does seem to slow down when we are together.

We have shared the proverbial karmic negativity and I know he has work to do, as I certainly do, before we can ever think of being together fully.

I do hope we can work together in spite of our glaring imperfections. Both he and I are, and always have been on the same path towards Humanitarian Service and Devotion to God.

I pray one day we can truly do work required of us and find the fulfillment that we both seek.