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Megan and Rob
from USA
posted on 5/27/2010

























Your Name/Nickname......... Megan                     Age: 26             Sun sign....Capricorn

Country........................USA                                    State........... N.C.

Occupation..................Massage Therapist

Email contact...............mingyow12@gmail.com

Your twins name/nickname........ Rob                  Age:  30             Sun sign.....Scorpio
                                                                                                    
Country.........................USA                                   State ........... PA
                                                    
Occupation..................Electrician



Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

I was reading a chinese astrology book right before my shop was closing, and he walked through the door to see if he could get a hair cut (meet me) ;)



Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

We both expierenced an instant extreme attraction and breath taking amazement with each other from the very second we met. And I personally felt a feeling of dread and fear the first time he looked in my eyes that night. I had contemplated in the weeks before I met him about how strange it was for me to realize the fact that, true unconditional love, the thing I want most in life was actually something I was feeling terrified of at the thought of losing once I had found it. I was very emotional and afraid with this contemplation, and when I got that psychic "nudge" of intense heartbreak feeling that night- I knew something was going to happen between us.. and that it was probably going to end up hurting me worse than any pain I'd ever known before. But I also knew, in order for that to happen- (he would first have to ask me out)haha.. but I would have to fall into a very real and unconditional love with him. One that I'd been looking for my whole life, but hadn't found up until that night. It was December 13, 2007. He ended up asking me out a couple weeks later, and our first date was actually Jan. 25 2008. Our first date was the best I have ever had! We went and ate sushi and hibachi, and realized how we were almost identical in so many ways all evening- we laughed alot and had a great time, and when we had our first kiss that night, an actual spark of static electricity shocked our lips as they touched for the first time. (We literally have sparks-that was very beautiful and unique moment to us) He treated me better than any man has ever treated me. He always told me I was beautiful, and the way he looked at me sometimes he never had to say anything.. I could see the love and amazment in his eyes. He always wanted to show me how much he cared for me, he would go start my car in the mornings when he got up early for work, and one morning before the windows defrosted he drew hearts on my windows so that I would see them later when I looked through them, and think of how much he loves me. He would suprise me with flowers, and little things that he knew I liked. He was always holdng me, comforting me & healing me from alot of pain I had been through leading up to him.. because subconciously he knew I needed it. He had a dream book that I noticed one day, and I had been very into dreams as well, and I think we both had that same common intrest in finding eachother through any avenue. We both knew we were out there, and were determined to find eachother. He had mentioned one day, how he was driving in his car, and he felt like I was in the car beside him.. and our song is actually a song that we both had stuck in our heads, and we'd turn it up on our radios because we enjoyed it so much just prior to meeting one another. It's Ingrid Michaelson- "The way I am".



How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

I have never known that love could be so real. So rewarding and healing, and yet so terrifying at the same time. But through all of this I've realized there is nothing to fear. Love really does conquer all, and God really is love, as the saying goes. I have become alot more forgiving of myself, and of others that have done evil things to me. I have become so much more enlightend since I've met Rob. I have grown alot closer to god, because I am becoming a part of his unconditional love, and the feeling really is indescribable.. there are no words. I'm now at the point where I want to help every person and every thing in this world in any way that I can.. and I pray that I have a chance to do so. I want to be able to help people feel this love, and be free from the evil that is trying to consume this world.



Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

Absolutley. We look very much alike actually, we have very many of the same features. I've had a couple people tell me we look like we are related. We both equally reacted to each other with the exact recognition, he said that I was like the female version of himself, and I had already thought of him as the male version of me, and everyone close to us could see this distinctly and agreed. Our looks, sense of humor, our hearts, compassion, intrests, our passion for eachother, our neatness, our flaws, our abilities, (our children even! both boys just 1 year apart- and we had them before we met.) Everything has lined up with us. We often called or texted eachother at the same time, or just when the other was about to. We always got a thrill or rush from hearing each others voice. He left me voicemails that were so sweet I saved them -just to listen to the way he said he loved me.



If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

Rob and I broke up in June 2008. We had only been dating about 4 months. The reason we broke up was related to.. um..Satan, basically. A woman from his past showed up, with his weakness in her hands, and he cracked the door open just enough to give in to the temptation, so she kicked it in the rest of the way and took over..because it turns out she's a witch (and not a good one) and now he is still living with her.. but I can feel him every day still. He still loves me, it hasn't changed at all- despite all her efforts with the drugs and heavy duty spells (they may have worked in the begining- but like I said LOVE conquers all) When me and Rob broke up it was a very cruel way. And I felt like the whole world was dying all around me, and I was in a state of complete anxiety and depression. I didn't eat or sleep much for a couple of months. Lost alot of weight, and I wasn't able to speak to him. I had no idea what was going on or why he chose to leave me. I had no reasons, no logic, no answers, no nothing. (My friend actually threatend to commit me to a psyche unit if I didn't go back to work.) I felt crazy because I had never hurt so bad or missed someone so bad before, and I wasn't used to the things I was seeing in my dreams (I guess that would explain the increase in psychic abilitys- I would see spiders, and black clothing- and then I saw him bleeding and telling me to leave, and I woke myself up crying that morning- only to look at the clock and see that was the exact time he was getting up for work.

After a couple months of all these occurances- I finally spoke with him again. We were calm with each other, but I was still very hurt and a little mad. I was going to give him back his money that he had started saving in my account- and he was very suprised at this, and told me to keep it. And then he called a couple weeks later and said that he had to move suddenly and he might need it, and offered to meet me for coffee to get the money - and I wanted to see him so bad I wanted to say yes..but instead I said "I don't know if that's a good idea.." (Because I didn't want him to see me break down into a million peices in front of him.. but I'm afraid I came off as "stand offish" instead of just very scared. And then out of nowhere, the first guy I ever dated (karma) showed up in my life after 9 years. What a coinsidence..huh? This I believe was a spell of hers, to get me away from Rob. Because as soon as I refused the romantic connection with my past boyfriend, it was too late and Rob and her were gone to another state in the snap of a finger. All the other boyfriends I had up until Rob then started showing back up (IN THE SAME ORDER OF WHICH THEY CAME INTO MY LIFE THE FIRST TIME.) I wasn't aware Rob had left the state until his sister came to my workplace looking for him, said he was missing and nobody could contact him. For the first time in my life I got into War mode-0quick-like. She had infoed me about this girl he was with and at that point was when I found out that the girl was a witch (an expierenced one at that) And all the dreams and "senses" of pain came together when that info. was brought forth. I had no idea where or what I could possibly do to defend he and myself against what was happening to us both. I was afraid he was dead, and I knew I had to do somthing- so In less than 24 hours I found out where he was, free of charge- from a kind hearted person who didn't know us, but helped me anyway. (good karma)Even though I found him, I knew I couldn't just go and get him, he left for a reason. He was afraid of what his dark side would do to me, he had self-worth issues before, and the spells were just increasing that -to make him bend more towards her will. I am here to tell you though, the Devil is as real as God. The angels are real as well, because just two days before Rob left town- I broke down in in complete desperation and fell to my knees and prayed for help, and I then froze for a moment everything was quiet and I heard the name "Michael" in my right ear. (I had never been able to HEAR anything from another rhelm until that moment) I was staying at a lady's house who i'd been taking care of that night. I'd been her caregiver for 3 years and never thought to look into the drawer of the night stand next to my guest bed.. but in that moment I had a feeling, and it was pushing me to open the drawer..so I did. And inside was a book called "The holy angels" I then connected the name Michael and understood it was the Archangel Who I had a message from. As I lifted the book out of the drawer the was something underneath it. It was a medallion with the archangel Michael carved into it. I knew there was no way around it, THIS WAS DIVINE Intervention..So I turned the book open, to a page that started to explain this problem from the very roots..

The passage was as follows "Man's narrative starts in the presence of The spiritual beings "Angels" in their two roles "Guardian" and "tempter". From the beginging we see that man is caught up by and pulled into a great spiritual battle. This battle is not between god and the devil, contrary to popular belief. It is a war waged between he angels of light led by the archangel Michael, and the angels of darkness, led by satan.." I really started realizing what was about to unfold, and then the days that followed were as I explained above, when Rob "Disappeared". I often wonder if he could hear me screaming his name that night when I was driving around, not knowing what to do or where to go to find him, or just to know if he was alive. I screamed and asked for him to tell me if he was still alive, and I felt he was. I havn't spoken to him in almost 2 years at this point, but I have a certainty- that we will be back together soon. Because I fasted and prayed for my first lent wfter he left, and that's when my growth started happening, and all the forgiveness and realizations came through. There is not one day that I don't think about him and pray for him.. and I know he is feeling the same. I know on the days that I can't stop crying it's because he is feeling the exact same way, because we want nothing more than to just hold eachother again. Every day for the last two years it has been like this. And there are constant heavenly "reminders" that will happen to me to keep my hope alive & my strength up for him.. and I believe that if I'm getting all those signs, then so is he. And we will both be able to talk with eachother about all the different and same signs we've gotten, as we come back together in the future. 



Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

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Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

We had a feeling that we had always known that we were out there for each other, just "custom made" for each other. And when we met, almost every move we made and word we spoke just confirmed to us even further, exactly how much of the same person we really were. Granted we have our differences, but there are very few.



How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

In my life before I met Rob, I was always in a relationship. I always had a fear of being alone I think.. and this had led me to be giving and kind to a fault. I ended up first in verbally abusive relationships where I was taken for granted and lied and cheated alot, and then the relationship I was in for the 2+ years before I met Rob was extremely abusive. I felt like I was doing the best for that person at the time though because they truly had nobody else but me, and I didn't want him drinking himself to death, so I stuck it out for a while, until he moved closer to his family, and then I finally realized I didn't deserve to be treated that way, and I left him when I felt he was safe with his family. Then about 6 months later I met Rob.. and I knew that nobody had ever really loved me until Rob. I had never felt what it was like to be truly loved by a man-until then. Rob did leave me, but he didn't leave me for HIS sake, he left me for MINE. No other man has ever done that. And I have had to understand even further how everything really does happen for a reason, and we just have to trust God's will.



Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

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Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

Well, I'd say Rob has had that feeling- but he's not here at the moment so I can't exactly speak that for him. But since I was very young I have always wanted to help people, and always had a very very strong nurturing quality. I am very happy when I feel like I can make someone comfortable, or help them have a good day. I really enjoy seeing others expierence the light and joy and the goodness in the world, instead of focusing on the bad.



What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
 
Sometimes you are going to feel destroyed, and you may very well be. But if it is something unconditional- it will always find a way to mend you, no matter how much time it takes, no matter what- you have to trust that person is out there and they love you and want to find you just as equally as you want to find them. And even if you find them and you get separated again, just believe me when I say- NOTHING- and I MEAN HELL OR HIGHWATER- LITERALLY (In my case) NOTHING can ever break the purity & connection that the two of you have.. In spirit you are one, that's how you were created, that's how you always will be, and the union of the twin flames is sacred and will not be broken by any means.



If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

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Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

I believe we have both awakend eachother, and our ponderings before meeting were just leading us up to the true awareness of everything that has happend, and is happening to us.



How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? 

I believe in all things positive for the greater good of love in humanity..


Are you artistic..................................................?  Yes

Do you believe in reincarnation.........................?  Yes









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