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Melissa and Brian
From The USA
Posted on 12/16/2010

Your Name/Nickname.........Melissa                 Age: 46          Sun sign......Cancer

Country........................USA                                                        State........... Ohio



Your Twins name/nickname........Brian              Age: 46         Sun sign.....Aquarius
Country.........................USA                                                        State........... Florida


Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

Our first meeting was at camp in June of 1980.  We stayed in touch for a few months, but then eventually went our separate ways. We reconnected through facebook in October of 2010.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

Where can I begin?  Even at 16 we had a spiritual connection.  I guess you could say it was "love at first sight."  Despite our age and the distance between us, we tried to continue our relationship after our week of camp together.  Sadly, I just couldn't understand or bear the intensity of our feelings.  We parted, but never forgot each other.  Since our reconnection, we speak almost non-stop!  The bond is indescribable, and we both feel certain it will only continue to grow.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

"Awakening" is a word that comes to do "peace" and "contentment."  We feel a love for each other that neither has experienced before.  I believe that true love does exist and dreams can come true.  The happiness we feel shows on our faces and is a positive force affecting everyone we encounter.  Brian, who is a musician/songwriter, has written some of his best music during the last year.  His musical abilities have improved as well.

Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

It seems we lived parallel lives during the 30 years we were apart.  We both married twice each time for similar reasons.  We both experienced a dark period during the mid-90's.  In fact, we had a "near miss" at that time: we were in contact and sensed each other's unhappiness.  We just weren't ready at that point in our lives to reconnect.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

When we were 16, Brian knew we were destined to be together.  I, however, was a scared kid!  This time around we are certain of our fate.  We were made for each other.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

We feel each other's laughter.  We seem to know what the other is thinking and when the other wishes to communicate either through text or the phone.  Recently, Brian asked me out of the blue what song was going through my head at that moment.  It was in fact the same song going through his.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

We actually were together once already in this lifetime.  The familiarity and comfort we have experienced confirms that we have been through this many more times than we can remember.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

About a year ago, we both felt the winds of change blowing.  Instinctually, I knew I needed to prepare for something big, although I didn't know at the time what it would be.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

The theme seemed to be looking for acceptance.  Both of us never exactly recaptured in our relationships the level of acceptance and comfort we had during our first time together.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

I certainly have...throughout my life I have desired to find a higher purpose and felt a burden to be of service.  We have discussed since our reunion the need to do something bigger than the two of us.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Cherish every minute of it.  And believe it is everything you could ever hoped for!  And don't be surprised if you get funny looks and some disapproval.  In the end it will be just fine.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 


Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

Oh yes....colors are brighter, thoughts are clearer, life is beautiful.  Sure, it sounds hokey, but I suspect others who have felt this can relate.

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....

pagan, wiccan leaning

Are you artistic.................................................?  Yes

Do you believe in reincarnation...................?  Yes

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