OlaBlanca and Jof
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OlaBlanca and Jof
from the Philippines and USA
posted on 1/21/2010
Name/Nickname.........OlaBlanca                               Age: 30                 Sun sign.... N/A

Country........................ Philippines                             State........... N/A


Email contact..............sexy.heni@hotmail.com

Your twins name/nickname........ Jof                          Age:  23                 Sun sign..... N/A

Country.........................USA                                        State ........... N/A

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

We met throught the internet..in a 3D chat game.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

I was lonely at that time, but after my 29th birthday I told myself that I should try to be happy with everyday of my life. So, I started to broaden my horizons by meeting new people and try to improve myself everyday. Then he came...

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

He made a great change in my life, especially when it comes to spiritual views. He made me more of a mature person on way of thinking and acting. He taught me how to love myself first, more than anything else yet there are things that I am actually afraid of. I am happy  that I got to share those things which I never shared with anybody else in my life, but to him only.

Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

We took up the same major in college, but we both were not able to finish the course. We have very much the same hands (especially the shape of fingernails), but mine is too bony that he thought I got his hands (because he is skinny), and his hands should be mine because he had lady's fingers. His mom's nickname is the same as mine. We have the same dreamhouse. We both love to sing. We both got hospitalized twice with major illness (the first time with the same surgery-apendisitis). He had his long-term relationship with a girl (who is from my country too) the year that I got married to somebody else. Most of all, we both value family more than anything else. Doesn't value money or any material thing much.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

He knew that we are twin flames and he wanted me to go with him so that we can be together, but I am married. And I can't just leave my husband just like that. I am afraid to hurt my husband and his family. I fear of hurting my family too because I am not ready to hear what the society will tell about us. On the other hand, he is afraid that maybe he won't be able to give me a better life that my husband has for me now. So we decided to part ways.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

Many times, I find myself waking up at 4 in the morning to find out that he was writting an email and was about to send it for me. Sometimes, he wasn't able to finish on writting because he saw me logging on to my messenger. One time, he got so worried about me because he can't reach me thru my phone, I just found myself about to cry while I was riding in a bus. Sometimes, I got these goosebumps and the sudden lonely feeling that made me wanna cry and I rush to check my email to see that he just sent a message for me. When we had a big fight, the pain is undescribable as if you have this big rock over your chest, that you find it hard to breathe and that you are about to die because of the pain.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

Yes. We are both aware that maybe this is not only the lifetime that we met each other...the sense of knowingness between when we are talking to each other are so obvious that we can even talk about anything under the sun without feeling embarassed or awkward to each other.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

I might have found already my twin flame, but I think it is not yet the right time for us to reunite. Although, there isn't a single hour of a day that i didn't think about him and it really hurts most of the time, that I sometimes find myself crying in pain and longing to be with him. Well, I am still waiting for that "big thing" to happen as of now. I am still looking forward to being with him to feel the completeness again.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

I am not really sure of it..but our first meeting was February 22, 2009 (02-22-2009) at around 2pm (my time) then ends up talking at 2am (his time). IDK :-/

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

On his part, yes. He study metaphysics. He do meditation every night. And he always tell me that he wants to learn how to heal. On my part, what I want in life is simple...to give my love ones happiness.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
I learned that twin flame relationship is the hardest relationship ever, yet so great because that is only when a person will feel all the great feelings that one might encounter with love. For now, I wanna learn how to accept how the things are going right now. But still kept on praying that things will be better soon, and hope that time will come that finally, I will be with the person that God has made just for me.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

Have you ever felt an intense longing to be with your twin flame physically and sexually?

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?


How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..?  Spiritual, but not a church goer.

Are you artistic..................................................?  Yes

Do you believe in reincarnation.........................?  Yes

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