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Pearl and Gloria
posted on 8/17/2010

Your Name/Nickname......... Pearl                        Age: 39               Sun sign....Gemini

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Your Twins name/nickname........ Gloria             Age:  38                Sun sign.....Gemini.
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Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

We have been staying in the same neighbourhood for three years. We had seen each other off and on but had not really interacted.  Our daughters played together but we had not met each other. We finally bumped into each other a year ago and got talking.  No sparks happened then. But slowly we realised how much alike we were in our habits, thoughts, actions and mannerisms, likes/dislikes and values and attitudes towards life. This was despite the fact that both of us were from totally unrelated backgrounds. We come from two totally different parts of the country.  In spite of the differences, we experienced a strange kind of attraction towards each other. Felt a great urge/desire to tell each other everything about ourselves and all the revelations finally happened. We also discovered that we were spiritually inclined towards each other. Surprisingly, all this happened at ligtening speed; in a span of days.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

Pearl: When I started meeting Gloria, I experienced within me an intense emotion of happiness and this grew stronger every time she was around me. I did not want that feeling to go, so I would look forward to to her company. Slowly I realised that there was something more to our friendship. I also felt a desire to hold her hands, hug her and kiss her. These were strange feelings for a woman to feel for another woman. There was neither guilt nor an inner conscience pricking me about the way I felt about Gloria. We bonded deeply and discovered that we shared the same views about life, relationships and personal experiences. We are very versatile and talk endlessly on any subject. We experience an intense flow of positive energy between us. After exchanging miles stones of our respective lives we realised that our lives have had parallel experiences. We are both very good with people and have a deep desire to do work for the good of humanity.

Gloria: Upon meeting Pearl, strangely enough, I was almost guided by someone inside me. There was a deep longing to keep meeting her and to be in close proximity with her.  There was a strong realisation within me that told me that we had a connection which went beyond the physical. The conviction was very strong and I was certain that she felt the same about me. The attraction  felt for her was beyond comprehension.  Surprisingly, there was no guilt attached to this feeling. In the beginning I wondered why the pull, what was the reason. Both of us were leading perfectly normal lives with our respective families. There was no apparent need to get into a relationship like this. But soon I realised that the bond we felt was not of this plane. It was an attraction of a different kind. Being around her led to a feeling of joy and ecstacy as never felt before.  The first and most important feeling that drew me to her was the sense of,  Oh My God, She is just like me!!!...In fact If we had not looked different, she would have passed off as me. When we have conversations, there never seems to be an end to it. The gamut of topics we touch upon is vast. We can talk on any topic with the same passion and involvement. We match each other in wit, sense of humour, intelligence, likings, choice of clothes, sense of style, you name it.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

Pearl: Gloria is an embodiment of a complete woman.. She is gracious, kind, helpful, accepting,, loves what she does and very sure of herself. Meeting her has given me a purpose to follow my dreams-Now our dream. I am trying to change myself to be more giving, accepting and patient with the people around me. With her I see myself shedding some of the past baggage that I have carried along for so long. Meeting Gloria has been a major turning point in my life. And I wish to be with her till life's journey ends.

Gloria:  Meeting Pearl has filled my life with happiness. There is a sense of purpose now which was not present earlier. I have re- discovered myself and in the process have begun to love myself all over again. Pearl has made me realise the importance of loving myself and as a consequence loving others. She has, in fact, managed to peel of all my protective barriers to show me what it is to love. 

Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

We share many synchronicities:
We share the same birth date
Our parents anniversaries are on the same date
We speak out the same words at the same time
We are very versatile and can speak endlessly on any topic
We think about each other and get messages/sms
Dreams about other thoughts: simultaneous verified later
Wake up at the same time at night
Our bodies undertake each others physical pain
We have similar professional background
We discovered we like to collect the same kind of things like cards,coins,leaves and flowers

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 


Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

Between us separation is very painful. It's extremely difficult to say goodbye to each other. There is a sinking feeling which creeps in whenever we part ways after meeting. Eagerly wait for the next meeting to happen.

Gloria: I feel lost.  There is almost a physical pain that we experience when we are separated and more specifically when we are having conflicts.  Our bodies react peculiarly at these times: headaches, nausea, hollow feeling at the pit of the belly. When we are together time stands still only to be realised later that time has flown at lightening speed.  Our cellphones ring even when we have not actually called each other which we find extremely strange.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

We know that we have shared many lifetimes together as there is no explanation as to why we met in this lifetime and share the unique bonding between us. The strange attraction between us goes unexplained. Being a woman, it is very strange to have masculine feeling towards Gloria. Gloria on the other hand feels protected with me. The areas of conflicts that we usually have seem to be a leftover from past lifetimes, both feel that we must have been painfully separated in previous births which makes us so attached to each other that a moments separation is also unbearable.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

Pearl: Life has been through lots of ups and downs, lot of learning, painful experiences and faced worst physical health. But just prior to meeting my twin flame my life was at its best leading a good and settled family life, not particularly missing anything. But a lingering thought was always in my mind that - will I ever meet somebody who is just like me and understand me completely.

Gloria: When I met Pearl I must have been going through one of the worst phases of my life. Financially down and working hard to support my family. At every point I used to feel when I will finally get a chance to do the things I love to do. 

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

Gloria: I keep noticing 11:11 all the time. Also tend to notice symmetric numbers at various places. About past karmic experiences, see above.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

From a very young age we did feel we were "different." We did not seem to adhere to the conventional norms in any way.  I believe we did not consciously feel that we were put here for any specific divine purpose, but yes, we did feel that there was something out of the ordinary destined for us.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Go out there with an open heart. Do not worry, the soul is all powerful and can out-do the ego in an instant. It will surely guide you to your twin flame even if you are not consciously seeking him/her out. Do not consciously search for ur twin soul. Try and make the best of your present life situation and your twin soul might just bump into you.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

One could include the following questions:

How did you and your twin flame zero in on your purpose in life?

How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship?

What are the various ways in which you connect with your twin flame?

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

Both of us were on the same evolutionary stage when we met. One could say, both were aware and yet both of us "awoke" each other.

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? 


Are you artistic..................................................?  Yes

Do you believe in reincarnation.........................?  Yes

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