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R. and M.
from Scandanavia
posted on 5/10/2010

Your Name/Nickname......... R.                         Age: 35         Sun sign....Virgo

Country........................Scandanavia                State........... N/A


Email contact...............N/A

Your twins name/nickname........ M.                Age:  44             Sun sign.....Leo
Country.........................Scandanavia             State ........... N/A

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

Internet. He was browsing yahoo profiles and found mine. This was 1st April 2000. We met once, this was nov. 2003

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

I could never resist his charm. It was just so fun and easy to relate.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  


Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

Yes, after we stopped communication, I was invited to a party in the same small building he lives in. 10 appartments in a million city. When moving away from the city we both lived in, I overheard a conversation a person had with his wife.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

He was in a bad marriage with small children before we got to know one another. We communicated over the internet and phone for over 3 years, planning on meeting a number of times. We did meet once and we did all we maybe shouldn't have done (if one wishes to judge.) The pain was driving us both insane. I was just going frenzy and he was contemplating suicide. So I told his wife what was going on, after that we stopped communicating. Now I see his profile on Facebook, but no 3rd density communication.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

I always feel my twin. Have extremely vivid dreams of him, and he would also have those of me, both before and after we met. When I was in the building he lives in, the doorbell rang and no one was there. We would have seen/heard if there was someone. Also... that night, the volume on the stereo went up and down while nobody was in the room.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

I know our bond is deeper than that. I know this is my first and propably only life on earth. I am not sure about past incarnations that he may have had. I feel he has more karma on this earth than I do.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

When we got to know one another, I had just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years, whom I had shared apartment with. Prior to our meeting in person, I had done a lot of purifying and had gained the natural ability for healing.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

22:22 - alot. My phone numbers at that time were almost only double's. His street number is a double, his phone numbers contain doubles. The number 16 configurates also.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

I can only speak for myself, but yes.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Don't look! It's so extrodinary, it won't come to you until you're ready. And if you're not ready, you don't wanna find your twin. Very possible that reunting with your twin isn't part of your mission, or that your twin isn't incarnated at this time.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

I would ask about dreams and similarities in life paths and appearances.

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

Yes, somewhat. He knew I was psychic because I was a "good guesser," as he put it. And suddenly one day he revealed he had the same gift. We were chatting and I poured coffee into my cup, and he wrote, "coffee?"

All the time I knew him he had headaches and nothing could cure it. (he works too much) When we did meet, his headaches went away.

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? 

I believe in Oneness. I am spiritual.

Are you artistic..................................................?  Yes

Do you believe in reincarnation.........................?  Yes

Free Form Comments:

When meeting in person, it's beyond anything I can describe. First there was the shock that we looked so much alike. I found I couldn't read him, like I automaticly do with all people - if I sit with them one on one. But it was okay, I knew him. We always brought out the best in each other. We would smile, love everything about each other. Know what the other one liked and didn't.

Our parting is the hardest thing I've had to endure in this lifetime. After meeting, things were at a status quo. He was busy with his career and feeling guilty because of neglecting the kids etc... His son was being suspicious of who he was chatting with on the itnernet.
He was away during christmas, ran off to be alone on christmas contemplating suicide.
Slowly and certainly, we were both becoming more and more depressed and I tried breaking it off, but I couldn't. I would always regret a few days later.

In February or so... I woke up one morning, couldn't remember what I had dreamt or anything, but there was this compulsion that I couldn't deny. That I had to make that phone call and let him know the truth. And I did. And we broke off communications.

Through all the time, we never uttered angry words when we were upset. We both have bad tempers and can get angry, but we never could say really nasty things to eachother. We expressed ourselves, but we always smoothed things out quickly or left it alone and talked later, like it had never happened.

It's now been 6 years since we split. I have missed him every single day. But learned to accept it.

He still appears in some very special dreams, and we communicate that way.

He may just have left his wife recently, from what I see on Facebook.

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