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Shelly and Randy
from The USA
posted on 6/2/2010 or 11

Your Name/Nickname......... Shelly                      Age: 46       Sun sign....Cancer

Country........................USA                                    State........... KY

Occupation..................Medical Transcriptionist


Your Twins name/nickname........ Randy            Age:  50       Sun sign.....Leo
Country.........................USA                                  State ........... KY

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

My now husband was my little girl's violin teacher. She had been taking lessons from him for 2 years before we connected, although I had quite a reaction on meeting him the first time. I went home and cried all afternoon, but I didn't understand why.  It was almost like seeing myself outside my body, most unsettling.  It took 2 years for him to see who I was and he says it happened in a moment like scales had suddenly fallen from his eyes.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

He is the kindest, wisest, most sensuous soul I have ever known. He has great maturity but has never lost his childlike wonder of the world and sense of fun.  He is very spontaneous and unafraid of what other people think.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

I am free to be who I really am and live in constant assurance of his forever love. I finally feel whole and can function the way I was meant to.

Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

Too many to list, but even before we were aware of each other's existance, we had been at the same place at the same time many times over the years, even though we resided in different states during that time.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

For a couple of years I knew and he didn't. However our situations were such it wasn't time for us to come together.  When it was, things just fell into place for us and he was aware without me saying a word that I was his twin flame.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

I usually can sense how he is feeling when he is away traveling.  He seems to anticipate my moods often and seems to have a greater understanding of them than I do myself.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 


How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

My life was miserable, constrained, and seemed muffled.  The last big thing that happened was that my exhusband decided to sell our house and then disappeared with the money from it, never to be heard from since.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 


Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

Yes, both of us.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Be patient, it is worth the wait and don't jump the gun if you have found him/her but he/she is not aware of it yet.  If it is real and meant to be it will come.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 


Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

Yes, we both have each in different ways, or brought out things in the other that had long been suppressed. 

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? 

Christian, but liberal to some extent

Are you artistic..................................................?  Yes

Do you believe in reincarnation.........................?  No

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