Steve and Dottie's Profile
Name/Nickname.......  Steve
Age: 54
State/Province......... N/A
Country........................ France
Your twin/soulmates Name/Nickname........ Dottie
   Sun sign.... Taurus
Age: 50
   Sun sign..... Capricorn
Country....................... USA
State/Province........... Texas
Occupation................. musician, substitute elem. teacher, Reiki practitioner
Occupation................ elem. teacher, musician, Reiki practitioner
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) We had been past band mates and best platonic friends for 16 years and married to others in Houston.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame? We always felt close and knew we could tell the other anything and be accepted afterwards. circumstance brought us to a restaurnat alone together 2 years ago where we shared "feelings" of how others always thought we would make the "perfect match". this was let go quickly since we are both married.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life? Very encriching spiritual experience for both but on the worldly level filled with hate from our spouses and children as they think we are trying to "take away the lives they know" and they do not buy into the cosmic elements of our story that we feel that our "awakening" is not ego-driven but God-induced.This is also why we backed down on being together at present and did not have sex. Also decided to give our spouses a chance to make things work with them and not just leave and play follow the leader out of marriages. Mine is a love marriage and hers is a two lonely people sharing a house and kid roomates sort of mariage from an emtionaml stand point. She had never known love for a man until she had the revelation with me and now "knows" what all the love songs mean.
Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? We spent time alone during a family visit and talked and realized the "bubble of togeherness" that permeates our beign alone together. Time stands still, no need to talk, others always looking at you (like they see the LOVE that surrounds the Two).Feelings that penetrate the body by just thinking of other from miles away.And ALL the little synchronicities that occur that give us the feeling that the Universe will take care of its own, no need for us to force outcome. If we are to be, we shall be.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. N/A
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another. Time truly stands still when we are together. Our thoughts can be felt across miles.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? My wife and I were getting along great, so that only added to the confusion/dilemma when the OTHER presented herself.

I truly thought the Universe was saying this is your future path and you will have to deal with it.
things leading up to the revelation were events like losing my teaching job after 11 years and being let go from my band after 8 years, things telling me that big changes were on the horizon and get ready for them and face things with the attitude that life is about change and everything is just lessons; don't get attached to outcome.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. I believe that but can't say i FEEL that.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships? 11 Hang in there.Bon courage! que sera, sera. you are not ego-driven but God-induced and if you are of the same spiritual maturity things will endure, if not the calling was premature and can be a rough go emotionally. our own calling may have been premature due to the fact that both of us are/were married at the time. Having said that "Higher self doen not care about covenants, if it is time to move on and you have learned all the lessons you need to , then go. those others you push out of daily life will have needed to be pushed to start their own n"ew paths" that would not be possible if you were not the catalyst for change in the first place. We are on interdependent on each other, eveythin connected for a higher purpose; thouygh many will miss the spiritual lesson there and just see things negatively as ,"Why are you doing this to ME"?
We do not own each other, we love to eventually set free and TS certainly do no take prisoners.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? The fact that when my grandmother died her mantle clock stopped and my watch stopped at 6:57am and that was close to the date 6/25/07 when my TS and I were "revealed" to each other 30 years after the incident.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.) She felt like she would love to have or find someone who could share things with and share feelings with eventually from a young age, with no forcing of concentration.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? liberal esoteric integrationist Christian
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation........................? Yes
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Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak? Yes, it set her world on fire. She now smiles, talks and shares with others, realizez what love is and the possibility of true happiness.She glows now and othes have noticed.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? Nothing, complete in itself. Bravo!
© 2008 by Collapsing Duality
Steve and Dottie from France and USA
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"29 Hours"  (song recounting our first 29 hours together and the revelation that we are Twin Flames)

Song by Dottie (written for Steve) July 2007

You leave me well, make me well, help me be well
everything i do, I see thru the lens of me and you
i wish you well, be happy and well
do the good work your hands do (reiki)
live in the moment, live in our moment of yes

I walk my paths as if you hold my hand, because you do
suddenly it seems to me that God has a plan,
a rason for everything
You make a doubting women believe

It's like it had already happened, before it happened
it was ther all along
hiding in the cracks of the words unspoken
until it cracked wide open and we jumped in

driving down River road is my forever
my place in this world is right here in your arms
my home is in your kiss

Now, my love, be well, happy and well and when you think of me
think of being open to love and life
live in the moment, here in this mement, live in our moment of


Comments by readers
6/20/2011 - Anonymous said:

This story is so much like the story of me and my twin that I had to write! Thank you for this website, it has helped me to feel like I'm not going off the deep end!

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