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The Cook and Digger
from USA
posted on 5/29/2010

Your Name/Nickname......... The Cook               Age: 40             Sun sign....Aries

Country........................USA                                    State........... MN

Occupation..................Habilitation Counselor

Email contact...............N/A

Your twins name/nickname........ Digger              Age:  32             Sun sign.....Capricorn
Country.........................USA                                   State ........... MN

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

We met at my/our former place of employment.  I used to cook in a neighborhood bar and one day he and his buddies came in for happy hour.  I walked in to start my shift and was zapped by an etheric feeling.  When I looked over and saw him my whole being was full of electricity.  I walked into the kitchen to start my shift and felt all zapped and tingly and wondered who in heck that gorgeous handsome guy was.  I felt surged for that whole shift and couldn't stop watching him. The first time we made eye contact we both kind of made a sideways look like "WHOA....who are YOU! I KNOW YOU!"

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

Mostly it's his eyes.  They hold so much power and are like that of a chameleon.  But his internal power and generous energy draw me to him also.  When we are together we share so much electric energy we amp each other up and get kind of antsy!  I also love the sound of his voice, it makes me melt....and the touch of his soft hands....

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

Not long after we met he pursued me and I had already had an insight that he and I had a lot of clearing of karma to do in the space at the bar and with some of those people before being together so I declined.  That was the first sign and one of the toughest things to do.  Over the next 6 years we would go through the karmic dance and through many life changes.  I ended up losing jobs, switching jobs, reinventing myself several times, working out my karma, and losing all sorts of friends.  There have been many many deep changes, some still going on.  He is in a place right now of major upheaval and personal change.

Do you share many synchronicitis together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

We have similar personalities.  We have similar upbringings and our relationships with our fathers are very similar also.  Our individual life paths are also very similar and I feel like he is doing some of the same stuff I have already been through in some very common ways. We have some of the same life lessons and attitudes.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

He is in a place of major change and feels that I am a threat to him because of how past women have treated him.  He is afraid of the same things I was afraid of two years ago, mainly of losing friends.  But the friend lesson is hard and very valuable because it teaches us who our true friends are and forces us to grow up and mature a little.  So we are in a phase of separation because of life's lessons but also because we both know how much we mean to each other and are afraid of making mistakes.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

I have always been intuitive but since meeting my man it has increased greatly.  I have been more in tune with the unseen and have been able to 'know' more now than ever before.  I know he thinks of me all the time, I can feel his fear, I can feel his sadness, I can feel all his struggles and I can feel him sending me love and wanting to be with me but not knowing how to do that. I see things in my peripheral ...shadows and well as sparkly things in my direct line of sight.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

Shortly after we met I did some etheric work and received some important and powerful insights.  Like the vision of all our karma we needed to work out.  After a couple years I did some past life regressions and found out we have shared many past lives together....all ending in some kind of separation or with trust issues.  I shared with him my insights and though we never really talked about them and he didn't tell me one way or the other if he believed or agreed, I know he feels that we have known each other before.  I feel that he agrees and believes in the past life stuff, but is too afraid to actually go with it.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

The last big thing for both of us was we each ended an LTR.  His was a five year relationship and mine was a ten year with marriage so I was divorcing. I think both of us were searching for that right thing, the right path in life.  I was freshly going through my saturn return and he was heading for his. Both of us were very emotionally raw and hurting.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonaccie Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

Yes.  In many of our past lives something always wedged its way in between us whether it was a person, people or situations and that has reflected in this lifetime. In the past we have always had to endure the betrayals of others and making the decisions to stay together or split up.  In our last life together he put his job in front of our marriage and I didn't have the patience to wait for his job to change so we split.  I keep telling myself in this lifetime that it's his friends this time around and that he is coming up on the ultimate friend lesson and to just wait it out.  This lifetime IS the ONE where we will work it out and for GOOD!  :D

I see the numbers alllll the time!  His birthday number, life path and expression numbers (both are #5) as well as other grouped up numbers and yes a lot of 11:11....12:12 etc....

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

I have always felt that my life was meant for something grand and even though I still feel this way and am all the wiser in my years, I have no idea what it is. I feel very strongly that once me and my man pair up for good that we will blow each other and the world away with something....somehow ....somewhere....  I feel that to my very core.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Keep updated in the ethers.  Touch your twin through energy no matter how close or how far.  Know that the person is in your life for many reasons, always do the self work, get your ego in check and most of all....NEVER GIVE UP!  No matter of anything....NEVER GIVE UP!

Oh....and don't talk to ordinary folks about this....they will never understand. Actually, they will throw logic and personal experiences at you to make you think you are fooling yourself. You can't listen to that other stuff because it just simply does not apply.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

A message forum is a great idea if you can swing it.  It would be wonderful to be able to touch base in that kind of way with others who are going through these experiences.

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

I think we woke each other up but in different ways. I think we both know what this is about deep down, but that I am a little more aware of the metaphysical side. He is anxious to know what I know and to learn more about it.

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs..? 

Spiritual, Quantum

Are you artistic..................................................?  Yes

Do you believe in reincarnation.........................?  Yes

Free Form Comments -

I've noticed that some of the stories I've read here, the people are miles and miles away.  I just want to note that my Twin and I live about a block away, so distance really does not matter.

I would also like to add that all the doubts in my mind and all the logical stuff going on surrounding this does not hold a match to how I feel....FEEL....and intuit about this.  I know he is my Twin down to my core and it fills the essence of my soul.  I have spent over 20 years exploring metaphysics and since meeting my Twin I have gone through such inner upheaval that I am surprised I've made it this far in one piece.  The feeling is so divine and true.

What I am doing right continually working on myself....checking my divination tools to make sure I'm on track....and visualizing a wonder filled life with him and acting/pretending like it's already happening.

I personally think the new age coming up is going to be a big bang for us Twin Flames, that we are all going to be finished with our personal and soul group work so we can come together and blow the world away with our magicks and everlasting unconditional love.

Peace out and THANKS to Brendan and Paula for providing a current and up to date and spot on place for us to come together.  This next year or so I feel is gonna be big bang stuff!  So glad to be here.  :D

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