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Twin Flames ~ Carol and Pat
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Posted on 9/17/2014

  Age: 63 
  Sun sign... Leo
  Country ~ USA 
State.... Virginia
  Occupation ~ Painter

Age: Deceased at 25  
Sun sign.... Virgo
  Country ~ USA  
State.... Minnesota
  Occupation ~ 
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Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)  

Unusually we were both in Germany taking a 6-week language class at the Goethe Institute. I was with my German boyfriend, and he was doing an after-college tour of Europe. I was 11 years older. 

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

I noticed him and wondered "is that him?" as he walked across the yard. Suddenly he made a sharp 45-degree turn and came straight towards me. As he walked up we started talking like friends. Then I felt a strong pulling sensation towards him, like my insides were going into his. I was surprised and looked him in the eye. We locked eyes and it was like a shock. I think we downloaded each other basically. 

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  
​Completely changed me - I met him 27 years ago and I'm still changing. All of it spiritual.

Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?  

Both born on the 27th, both had mothers named Mary, both went to Catholic grade school, both interested in the arts - film and books. 

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.  

After our 6-week class ended we were both going back to the US and we agreed to write. He wrote 2 letters and then the letters ceased. Broke my heart - and I just couldn't understand what happened. 27 years later I found that he had died in a car accident just then. Broke my heart all over again. 

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.   

I went back and read my diary (I had kept a record of all dreams) and I discovered that I had dreamt about his death many times. We had a physical relationship then in the dreams. He died while fighting a battle for me (had several dreams about that). I asked him if he really wanted to do that and he said yes. I was helping him arm for battle. The dreams went on for 2 years. 

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.  

I don't remember any previous lifetimes, but my soul definitely did recognize him.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?  

The usual - not really happy, thinking is this all there is? I had just gotten divorced and prayed fervently that I would be shown the way. 

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?  

​Dreaming - I started dreaming about him again 25 years later, which prompted me to learn what a twin soul was. A psychic told me a long time ago that he was mine, but I didn't know what that meant so I forgot about it (pre-internet).

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)   

​Yes we both felt like we had something to do. 

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?

​The only advice I would have if you're searching is to pray for guidance and forget about anything you might want. 

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?  

What should a person whose twin has died do? 

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

He definitely awakened me. I think he was more advanced.


User Generated Questionnaire:
 Answers to questions that Collapsing 
Duality Twin Flames Need From You!

What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude


When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt

I wish!

Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon

Really a soulmate would probably make you happier. But the twin is the ultimate love - you can't be with them until you're both perfect. 

Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud

How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria

How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret

What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don

I didn't know about twins. I don't know what I'm supposed to do since he died right after I met him. 

What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting

An unbreakable permanent bond and unconditional love.

How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon


What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin

I'm sure, but it's evident by the profound spiritual changes he triggered. 

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....

Christian I suppose - not church.

Are you artistic.................................................? Yes

Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes

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