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Casandra and Iggy
From The USA
Posted on 3/25/2011























           
    
       Your Name/Nickname.........Casandra           Age: 49       Sun sign......Leo

       Country........................USA                                                    State........... New York

       Occupation..................Theater Artist

       Email contact...............N/A

       Your Twins name/nickname........Iggy            Age: 44       Sun sign...Gemini
                                                                                                    
       Country.........................USA                                                   State........... New Jersey

       Occupation.................. Business




Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

Met on internet.  Fetish site.



Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

We are in sync.  We seem to understand each other and feel a strong bond/connection.  I can feel him and visa versa.  I find him funny, smart and beautiful.



How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

I am now constantly working to raise my self up in all areas.  To work towards what I want him to see in me.  To work towards achieving only my best and uncovering that for him.



Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

Yes.  His son was conceived on my birthday.  I was fired from a job which was on the same block (didn't know then) he lived on the day his son was born.  He lives in a town with the same name as my street.  His name is very important in my life.  I have had many very bad and good experiences with people who bear his name.  The same is true for his with mine.  There are tons more.



If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

No he knows.



Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

I have seen him in dreams. He is not my husband. My husband knows about this relationship and he also has seen him in dreams or seen him in our room.  We can communicate without words or telephone.  I know what he is feeling and he does me.  I can see where he is, know what is happening around him.  He has the same phenomena.  He says he feels me around him. Sees me. 



Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

Yes.  I keep thinking that he was my father or brother last life as well as many other things to me.  He senses that too. 



How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

My life has been a rocky road but not a bad one.  Before I met him I was given much bad news about my current husband's health and I went through a dark night of the soul.  I also entered into a new form of sexuality which was brought about because of my wanting to run from the reality of my husbands illness (he is doing well now) and I met Iggy in the world I went into. 



Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

My birthday and his are both in the Sequence.  We have similar, almost identical family lives and problems.  His current wife is very similar to my ex-husband and her birthday is the same as my ex-husbands.



Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

Yes.  Both of us feel this way.  I have followed many paths and found one that works for me.  He told me that until he met me he was (still is a bit) looking for a way to fulfill this purpose.



What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
 
Stay with it.  It is hard. Terribly hard but life altering.



If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

Do you see him regularly?



Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

Yes.  I think we have awakened each other but I feel he really has awakened me.




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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude

I got a tattoo.  It represents what we are to each other.  When unsure.  I look at it.  Touch it.



When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt

We only had one time together and it was amazing. Not sex.  Just kissing.  We were both afraid and so thrilled we couldn't stop giggling.  It was like coming home after a long journey and seeing your family.



Do you belive that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon

Soulmates can be happy too.



Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud

N/A



How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria

Yes, somewhat. We are both married to others and have not seen each other for months now.  His choice.  He doesn't really want to hurt his wife or child. He also worries about the term Twin Flame. He thinks it means he must leave her if he lets himself go with this.  I have told him that I do not want him to leave her and I will not leave my current husband either.  We are sort of stuck.



How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret

He seems to stay away a bit.  I use writing and music to express what I feel.  I use my art to put those intense feelings into. 



What do you feel is your shared purpose?  Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don

I do think it has something to do with art and spirit.  He seems to be my Muse in this inspiring me to greater heights.  I did not know about twin flames before.



What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting

Freedom.



How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon

N/A



What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin

I recognize him.  I know that it is true in my center.  I feel it.  He does too.  It is not a nervousness or concerned feeling but one of finally laying down after a long day, coming home, being safe...



How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....

Pagan


Are you artistic.................................................?  YES

Do you believe in reincarnation...................?  YES



Free Form Comments -

I met him on an internet site.  He saw my picture and decided to contact me because he wanted spiritual help and for some reason he knew I could provide it.  We began an on line talk affair which morphed into an online sex affair and then met only once.  What we thought was only fun and easy became very intense within moments of seeing each other. He looked shocked and I was almost too shocked to speak.  We were like a long separated married couple it seemed. 

After some kissing and amazing feelings only once he left me.  I regret ever letting him go that night. 

We fell in love very fast.  Too fast!  I told him that I loved him, he responded the same within a day.

Fears about our partners came up.  Fears that have kept us separated for months.

Still, we carry on in writing.  Supporting and loving each other and still loving. 

Seems unusual but we don't need to be together to love and share our love.  We can do it mentally.  I can call upon him and know he is with me and the same for him. 

I think that one day we will be together.  I know that really.  It is such a secure feeling.  I am so sure of it that I don't worry.

I have found a miracle.  It is an amazing miracle.




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