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Your Name/Nickname......... Catherine Age: 30 Sun sign... Libra
Country........................ England State............ Bucks
Occupation.................. Business Owner
Email contact................ catherinecarter431@btinternet.com
Your Twins name........ Neil Age: 29 Sun sign.... Sagittarius
Country......................... England State......... London
Occupation.................. IT Recruitment Manager
Site Link....................... www.dinkytoes.com
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
Internet dating site but physically met 21.1.11 in London.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
They are my mirror... It's hard to see at first but we both do once we let our ego's go. His love draws me, his understanding.. He is me! But there's something deeper like cupid firmly stuck us together. We've had quite a dramatic year and just cant leave each other no matter how much we've tried!!
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Completely. I feel awakened. Since we met we've both become very spiritual and see life very differently to what we did the previous years. Its been a very hard year of karmic debt and ripping each others egos away... He's my best friend and can feel that underlying love. We've gone through issues that most people would walk away from, but we cant. We are so drawn to each other its almost like we could do anything and we would forgive each other. Scary!
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
Yes very much in our first year together. In the early days we would send messages to each other at the exact time all the time. Even if it was just 2 a day it was weird. We would say the same things and think the same things, which comes with spending a lot of time with each other, but this was in the early days. We used to test it also, testing choices and would always get it the same. 40+ choices and we just knew each others.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
We have pushed through this, I felt to weak to carry on the relationship but I'm stronger now. He is Hindu where I am Christian and his family haven't been the most supportive, I'm like the white witch to his mother which was painful initially but again as everything else has helped me grow stronger and more loving and accepting, understanding and forgiving.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
We are very in-tune with each other. I was always able to feel energies on another level but this is the first time he has felt so in-tune. We feel each others emotions when not with each other.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
The first time I met him I thought "I know you but I don't know your face" and he has a lovely face lol but I felt like I couldn't relate to it. I am of course used to it now.. I'll never forget that feeling. I guess that confirms we were together in a previous life.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
Bit of a mess, lost, confused and still seeking for someone special.. I used to cry at love songs such as 'Iris' knowing and feeling that someone special was out there.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
Yes absolutely. We both had our previous relationships come to light in our relationship. Mine to a freaky extent. So I was given the opportunity to handle it differently and free myself of the karmic cycle. All the time I see 11.11 and I saw a lot of 22.22 also last year and recently a few 4.44 which isn't so good lol! So I change my line of thought as it's usually when I am being ego filled.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
Yes and it's almost been torture for my partner not knowing what it is. Myself I feel it's here to basically just help and give out love. As a very young child I would take peoples issues on and try and help them through it. I remember when I was 10 this was very much the case. Being the youngest in my family and taking on my sisters relationship problems and also my mums debt problems. Also violence in the house I felt to protect my mother from her partner.. so strange to look back at myself now. But I am still the same, I have a lot of love to give and want to help everyone free themselves, I want nothing in return!
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Don't search for them, leave it to the universe. Send out a message for them and ask for them. But don't actively seek them, this isn't healthy. They will pop up when you are least looking!! Even though I met my partner on a website there is no way I would have thought he was the one.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
Has it been a hard relationship or easy and why?
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
YES! 100% yes! It's amazing actually I never ever expected this, we've both been seeking something deeper and now feel like someone turned the light on and we can see now. The growth we had in 2011 has been amazing.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
Not much, I have a 6 year old daughter to keep me grounded!! :)
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
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Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
Yes of course although I'm not sure these are ever lasting. We just cant help seeking. So many relationships seem to only last 10 years and I'm sure that's why, the spark has gone and it's become boring.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
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How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
Initially... badly! I wanted to run for my life.. but it's made me so much stronger.. and I am so thankful for all of it!
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
Talking! We are both on the same level and talk very spiritually about what's going on, this helps immensely.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
I feel in us being together, we are our best and therefore can do our life tasks better.. No, only soul mates until I did some spiritual study.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
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How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
Meditating. Understanding and forgiving, we are all on individual journeys and every path is different. We should not judge, but it takes awhile and a lot of practice to get rid of that conditioning!
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
Nothing else explains it.. it's incredible and what a year we have had together!
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
"Conversations with god" book explains how I feel
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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