Your Name/Nickname.........Charity Schiller Age: 53 Sun sign... Libra
Country........................ USA State............ IL
Occupation.................. Actor, TV/radio journalist
Your Twins name........John Carpenter Age: 52 Sun sign.... Cancer
Country......................... USA State......... AK
Occupation.................. Associate Pastor
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
John and I met through our jobs at a TV station where he was in sports and I was doing news.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
His eyes. His eyes are luminescent, and they are the truly a window to his soul. He shares profound wisdom with me about relationships and love.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Meeting him changed everything for me. I no longer had any desire to be with any other man. I just wanted to be with him. I learned how interdependent we really are. There is so much understanding in our relationship no matter what happens.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
Around the time that I met him, I was leaving the wrong relationship for me. He was also trying to do so.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
Right now we are separated because he is in a legal marriage to someone else, and has a son with that woman. I don't know if the son is his biological child, but he is an associate pastor at a Bible church, and it seems to be related to his beliefs in marital fidelity. I am waiting for him to realize that I am his soul mate and for our reunion in the physical.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
When I had an accident involving my right pinkie, it didn't seem to faze him. He just told me that any true friend would accept me no matter what. I wasn't surprised by his response. It is exactly the sort of psychic connection we have.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
I think we both knew we had been togeter in another lifetime. He showed me a book that talked about spirit travel. And that is how I knew.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
I no longer wanted to be with the wrong man or a man who isn't my best friend.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
I have a sibling who was born on 11 11 in another year.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
I have felt I was here for a spiritual calling, a greater purpose.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
If you are searching, search for your best friend. Your twin flame will be your best friend.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
Is your soul mate your best friend?
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
I do believe that John knew in a deeper sense, and that our timing was off when he wanted to marry me. I think that the separation confused him and that he now needs to be awakened.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
I try to stay in my own power.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
Bliss. Heaven on earth.
Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
I don't believe that we can be truly happy with other soulmates. I think that eventually something appears to be missing with the other soulmates. John turned to become a pastor, because he felt that God was the missing piece in his life. I think if he were with me, he would feel a greater sense of God being in his life. I don't think the sense of void would be so great in a happy relationship.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
More information on reunions and how to be patient for them despite circumstances.
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
It devastated me to have conflicts with him
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
The intensity was only difficult when the third party was involved that he was leavin.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
I feel our shared purpose is to bring love to the planet.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
Merging feels like heaven on earth.
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
I try to distract myself with daily activities.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
I have never felt this intensely about anyone else.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
Free Form Comments -
I met John in the doorway of the TV station where we worked. I saw him standing there and my knees almost buckled. It was very powerful, because the attraction was mutual and so intense. He was in another relationship, married to his childhood sweetheart. But they had married for all the wrong reasons and were both unhappy to be together. He got the divorce and then eventually asked me to marry him. I said yes, but because I had lost my job by then at the TV station, I was living out of state in Chicago. We couldn't get the timing right, and so eventually he became involved with another person and married her. I am waiting for him to realize I am his twin flame and for him to change his circumstances.
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