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Your Name/Nickname......... Debra Age: 41 Sun sign... Aries
Country........................ USA State............ Nebraska
Occupation.................. Telecommunications
Email contact................ debrasweetrthnb4@aol.com
Your Twins name........ Daniel Age: 50 Sun sign.... Leo
Country......................... USA State......... Nebraska
Occupation.................. Telecommunications
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Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
We work together.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
The first time I saw Daniel, his energy amazed me and I felt a need deep inside to speak to him. His eyes were so full of sadness, but lit up every time we spoke, I felt right away a sense of belonging, but I had never heard of twin flames, so for over two years I ignored it, until the day I was put on the same team at work, he instantly asked me to sit beside him, I felt it was my place right away. We were so in tune, instantly being open, even affectionate, which I tried to fight against as well since we were both in relationships at the time, but it was stronger than anything we could control. We began expressing the issues in our current relationships, eventually admitting our feelings of each other, things happened so quickly from there, our relations with the others just fell away, it's the only way to describe it..they went away, next thing we knew we were together picking out furniture! Neither of us can explain what happened. It was like we realized subconsciously who we were to each other and the similarities were amazing! We like the same foods..not just a few but everything! We can't be angry with each other because the pain is too much to bare! The feeling of openness, oneness, belonging was scary! This was when we began our search for answers as to why this relationship was so different from anything we knew, so we searched everywhere when we came upon a Webster that described us to a tee, we have been so fascinated by finding out the truth of who we are to each other that we can't help but share. Our mission together is to help others in their journey, so we have many groups we have started to advise people in their everyday journey!
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
My life, as well as Daniel's has not been an easy one, but understanding why... now has made all the difference. Everything in our lives has changed! The way I see people has changed, the depth of my love has deepened to a level I never believed in before, the joining of our souls is overwhelming at times. I have never been a needy person and for lack of a better word, I need to be with him always, any time we spend apart leaves us both feeling empty, we will immediately hold each other upon reuniting, to absorb the energy, to feel our hearts beating together is like music and fills us with a soft calm that I have no words to describe.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
I have to laugh when I read this question because it happens all the time! We will speak the same words, make the same gestures, even some our facial expressions are the same, we are hungry at the same time, always..and without it being spoken, we will go to the kitchen together or meet in the breakroom at work...too many too list!
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
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Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
I have always had psychic abilities. I am able to connect with spirits, but have only used this for my own growth, but with Daniel I am able to speak to his... and them to me as well. Our telepathy is something we have played with a little. We are working on that now. Sometimes it just happens: I will think something and he will do it before I have a chance to ask! We are not apart often, but it is painful when we have been. For myself I feel lost, empty and disoriented.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
I knew from the first time I saw him that I knew him, but as for where and when, I wish I could say yes. Unfortunately for me, I have blocked alot of my memory due to trauma's in my life so I feel this might have something to do with it. I would love to work on that but am not sure how.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
My life hasn't been an easy one. I had been divorced twice..a third time after meeting Daniel. The last big thing that affected my very being was when my son decided to move back home to be with his father. We did not separate on good terms. He moved 1600 miles away and I'm lucky to see him once a year. It broke my heart. We were very close and it was meeting Daniel and his advice I took to finally get to speak to my son after almost 2 years!
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
11 11 has been one for sure, but right off hand I would have to say the one karmic thing seems to be that the universe is protecting us. When we have had people who have tried to come between us or cause us pain and trouble..they are removed from us physically. They can't seem to be near us at all and we didn't have to do anything..eg: a few people at work have left or been fired for other reasons, but were people causing problems for us.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
We both have felt this. Both of us have explored many religions, relationships, in my case I kept increasing my education because I felt there has to be something more! Daniel as well. In fact neither of us were born here in Nebraska and neither of us could explain why we stayed here..until now.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
I feel if they're searching, then you're interfering. You can't change the divine plan! As for those like us who are living it... my advice would be to enjoy it. Never stop appreciating it for exactly what it is..and never let the intensity scare you. Embrace it and let it flow!
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
What does it feel like inside to know this person is you?
What are the differences in your past relationships compared to your tf?
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
We both agree that we have awakened something in each of us. I won't go into detail for these were very personal things to each of us. One thing for me that I feel comfortable sharing is Daniel has awakened the feminine side in me. I have kept that hidden for so many years building a wall around everything soft and sensitive anything feminine including friends. All my friends were male... I dressed in very unflattering clothes; never cried in front of anyone; rarely wore any jewelry or make up, dresses or lingerie. It was to protect myself from feeling anything..now I feel so vulnerable sometimes it has taken some time to get used to, but I am loving the feeling of freedom, I feel safe, protected, secure, beautiful and content with myself. I don't feel I have to protect my heart because it's back where it belongs..so I no longer have to cry alone. My tears are cleansing tears now.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
We just try to accept that "normal" people will not understand what we are to each other, but if asked we try to explain it the best we can and leave them to their opinions.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
I get very emotional... especially when making love We often have to stop, because for both of us the connection is so intimate that the feelings are so different. Both of us have felt that from the first time we looked in each others eyes we knew we belonged to each other, I could see such pain in Daniel's eyes when we first met that it was hard for me to look into them without tearing up, yet I knew I would be the one to take it away. When I look into them now, it makes me smile through my tears because I see happiness, love and peace.
Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
I feel you can be happy with others. I'm not sure if you could if you have met your twin, or have been with them and have separated. I myself could not imagine the feeling of being without Daniel..literally can't begin to fathom the idea, which is another thing that's changed in me, I never had any problem seeing my life moving on with anyone else.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
Listings of twin events.
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
We have to tell each other our feelings because it becomes a physical pain. So... if something is wrong even if we know it wont be an easy discussion, we must get it out!
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
One word...meditation! we ask our spirits to help us understand and accept.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
We feel our purpose is to help others make positive changes in their life, teach them how break the cycles, bad habits etc. We would love to attend twin events if we knew where and when they were
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
To try to put it into word is not easy. It feels like coming home on a cold wintry day after a long day at a toiling job..when you come into your warm house, take off your wet clothing, slip into your favorite pj's, sit in your most comfy chair with your favorite drink, your pet in your lap, favorite book in your hand...that feeling when you finally sigh a long sigh and your whole body feels at ease.
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
Haven't experienced anything terrible, except the release of old ways and thoughts.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
Because I recognize him as me. The entire connections feels like you! Everything about your twin resonates within you!
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
We believe in God as the creator.
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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