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Elle and Gee
From Canada
Posted on 3/16/2011
Your Name/Nickname.........Elle Age: 42 Sun sign......Capricorn
Country........................Canada State........... N/A
Occupation..................Healing Arts Practitioner
Email contact..............N/A
Your Twins name/nickname........Gee Age: 54 Sun sign......Aquarius
Country.........................Canada State........... N/A
Occupation..................Professional
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
We were introduced by a friend of mine who is his brother. My Flame was invited as a business advisor for our spa/healing arts practice.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
I have always been inexplicably drawn to him. It could be because of how great it feels just to be around him, his sweetness, his warmth, his smile, his touch. The thought of him makes me anticipate more of him.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
I was together and composed. My deepest issue was out of sight - all about being open to love and to being loved. I saw, tasted and felt True Love and Soul Love for the first time in this lifetime.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
We have shared many syncronicities, we are very similar and we understand each other in a deep and profound way. Words are often not required. We experience thinking of each other at the same time. When we are apart or not communicating, we tend to breakdown at about the same point and reconnect in some way. We have not spent more than about 2 weeks without communicating since we met. One of us was traveling when that happened. We e-mail each other at the same time, know what the other is thinking, feeling etc...
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
My Flame and I both were afraid to love again after having been hurt in our respective previous marriages. After spending over one year together making passionate love, having fun but not getting too serious I asked for more. He took me up on taking 'us' to another level and he did as I had suggested; he went to speak to an ex he had unfinished business with in order to move on. She appreciated his newfound openness and honesty and they decided to try again. So there he is and here I am. We still communicate regularly but it is very painful. We have tried to stop communicating but it has not worked. We are not together because he is with someone else. Runner and Stayee? It makes no sense and yet it is. It is excruciatingly painful and so I am still learning something I just don't know what it is exactly.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
We feel each other. My Flame is not usually comfortable with energy and the spiritual realm but he is aware of us and what is happening even though he is making choices that don't seem to make sense. It is as though we are connected and living multidimensionally. We have always communicated without having to speak and we have both recognized this happening. It is soothing to my soul when I feel what is happening and then my Flame feels it too.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
Yes, definitely! I was told that we have a soul contract and that we agreed that when we met I would help him to awaken (as a benevolent act). I am not too thrilled about this but it does make sense given what has happened so far.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
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Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
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Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
Yes, I certainly was always 'different' and definitely spiritual. I used to go to church by myself as a child because I loved to listen to the stories. I loved the values. I am not religious but I am spiritual as always.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Remember that it is all about love. Focus on love. Take self-love and unconditional love to a deeper level. It's not about being perfect but it is all about always coming back to LOVE no matter what happens.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
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Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
Yes, my Flame recognized that he was awakened and healed by being with me. He changed radically - like night and day. He came back to himself and it is the most beautiful thing I have ever witnessed. Although I have been on a spiritual path all of my life, I too was awakened by this man who knew nothing about energy or awakening. He woke me up to true love and to the depth of the human spirit.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
Unfortunately, this might be one of the reasons we are apart. I think this is an important lesson to learn.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
There are no words...Perhaps it can be described as feeling whole, complete, fulfilled, so totally happy - in the deepest and the highest sense. It is more than divinity incarnate.
Do you belive that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
Good question! I don't think that we all choose to have a relationship without twin soul in this lifetime. It is so intense, I can understand this. I assume we can be happy with a soulmate.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
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How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
The intensity made us realize that we have to be true to ourselves and each other when we are together. There is no room for fear or issues - this is what created conflict. Once we agreed to be totally open and honest even when we felt vulnerable, everything became easy and harmonious.
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
We are apart!
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
Perhaps to learn and share knowledge of twin flames. We are models of opposites realizing they are the same.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
Divine!!!!!!!
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
I go on even when I don't think I can or want to. My Flame and I talk about it. This is what I am learning about as I am in a lot of deep soul level pain most of the time. I think that we are somehow leading the way and teaching about this pain because it is so difficult to talk about it because people don't understand. I am hoping the pain will pass. ???
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
I just know. When I doubt I try to release it but I can't. Then, again, I remember and I know.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
Love, Divinity, We are all ONE
Are you artistic.................................................? YES
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? YES
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