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J.S. and N.S.
From The USA
Posted on 5/19/2011
Your Name/Nickname.........J.S. Age: 30 Sun sign...... Sagittarius
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Your Twins name/nickname........N.S. Age: 37 Sun sign..... Virgo
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Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
Met thru the internet during a mutual game that we were both playing.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
His energy, and passion for life. The way he loves everyone and everything around him is so beautiful. I don't believe I have ever met anyone who is so gorgeous inside and out quite like he is.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Shortly after finding each other I took an adventure into figuring things out which led me into opening up a HUGE spiritual path for myself. Over the year of knowing each other I have tweaked it and have become a whole new person I don't even recognize. My heart sings more than it ever feels like it has, almost at a constant rate of rapid beating. I feel like I have opened up more to the spiritual world and that communicating with my guides and God is alot more easier than I thought it ever could be.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
Yes. Him and I are always seeing 1111 and 111. The new recent thing is seeing triple numbers everywhere. Aside from that we both have a ton in common from the wine we like to how we eat our subs. We were also married on the same day, 12 years apart. I find myself enjoying some of the foods he loves, that I used to hate. We always seem to be on the same page and sometimes catch ourselves doing/thinking/or saying the same things at the same time. We have also noticed that our lives run very parallel with each others.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
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Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
Being separated is horrible! We have only met up a few times in our lives, but every single day that I don't talk to him or have some sort of human connection with him is painful. It is like a broken heart that I have had to live with every single day for the last year. I have wished and prayed for it to go away, and the longing and needing to see him and be in his presence holds stronger than the first few times we ever started to talk to one another. He is the first person I believe beyond a doubt to be pure and trust worthy in everything he does. There was an incident recently this year where over a weekend he was having an anxiety attack. I went thru it all the way with him- from the heart racing, sweats, shaking, to thinking I just might die! I found out earlier from him that at the same exact time he was having that attack I was experiencing those symptoms. He also could tell there was something wrong with me and on my mind one day even before we started talking and I told him anything. I have dreams of him, and just recently I had a dream of him and 1111 together. I can not remember what it was about but I do remember that he and those numbers were the highlights of that dream.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
We really haven't discuessed this. I have had a dream where I dreamed we were family. We both say that we are very familiar to each other, and that we never feel we have to impress the other.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
I think I was stuck in the fairytale version of life. You have to get married, settle down, and have a family. I was walking that line, and deep down I knew it wasn't where I wanted to be going. When he entered my life it was like the veil was lifted from my eyes and a new sense of love for life settled in me. I wanted to be free and travel and not take for granted living anymore. I meditated one evening on why he was in my life, and that same exact night he told me that he was in my life to help me realize my reality. I asked him why he said that to me and he said he said it because it felt right to say at that moment. In that single instant he answered my question that I asked earlier! The only big thing to happen before meeting him was getting married, and now I feel that my life is slowly working its way to a divorce, which would inspire a happier more lively me!
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
He and I believe that we initally started talking on March 11th. I dreamed the first three digits of his phone number in a dream I had a few years before I ever met him. 111 and 1111 always pops up to both of us, sometimes we are slammed with them during the day. We met on the 15th, which some articles claim is one of the days that twins usually meet up. The number 11 is very powerful and predominate in our lives. On a more spiritual level we both work every single day to be better people and help each other out with that always.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
I can not speak for him, but I myself have had a few moments in my life where I felt like there might have been a spiritual awakening about to occur. I feel like the time wasn't right and that I was just in an immature stage at my life to fully grasp what was happening and keep it without letting my ego get in the way. Now I know that this shift that has occured is here to stay and has become who I am. I thank him all the time for it! We have discuessed the fact that we felt like loners when we were younger and about the fact that no one besides ourseleves seems to "get us".
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
After deep research, and reading tons of articles written on the matter I have come to conclude that it is truely all about bettering your soul and self. Your twin flame is here to help in that mission. If you can work on yourself and find the same exact things you love about your other half inside of you, that whole togetherness feeling stays forever, no matter how much you miss each other. It always has to start with you. Love, Peace, and Happiness.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
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Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
Yes. I have had the stronger awakening, but he is well on his way and I am so proud of him. Not only does he work on it with me every single day, but he still balances his family and friends without lossing himself among everything. His ego still resides, but he is never selfish enough to let it seriously get in the way of his mission.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
I try to focus on me. When things get to intense or I feel overwhelmed with everything that is going on I realize I have to breath and live for me. It's my life and my lessons and I have to keep on top of that first and formost.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
I am still very intimidated looking deep into his eyes. There was a moment where I didn't break our gaze and it felt warm, familiar, and secure. But I felt like if I didn't look away I would be eaten alive. My job is to work on this and not be so afraid of finding myself deeper inside of him.
Do you belive that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
He is with his soulmate right now, and I like to think they are happy. I am happier I have him in my life, but there has been more pain from being away and not being able to have a relationship (whether its friendship or lovers) with him. In the beginning I begged for him out of my life, and now I enjoy knowing that I am loved unconditionally and forever by him. I believe he needs to stay with his soulmate because that is where his happiness lies and even though we are so similar and alike we are still leading our own lives which I choose to believe makes us want different things inside of them.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
I love inspirational stories! Updated stories about twin souls and how they have grown from each other would be wonderful and influential!
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
We don't really disagree, and when we do we enjoy and marvel in the differences of each other. When we do disagree we always take into consideration what the other has said and make it some how work in our lives. I find everything that is different about us very intriguing and interesting. He keeps me very entertained, so to speak :-)
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
We give each other pep talks and watch for signs from our guides! When I can't take it or I am having a moment as I call it, he always reminds me that he is always and forever here with me. He makes me aware of his love on a daily basis and when he misses me he always gets a message or a sign that reminds him that I miss him too. We even constantly log on to the computer at the same time just to tell each other we miss the other.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
I am not quite sure what our shared purpose is. I like to think we were here to wake each other up and instill love into everyone around us. We work on this individually but we work on each other everyday which gives us both the strength to spread love to everyone in our lives. We knew nothing about twin flames before talking. The only reason I was lead to the phrase was the fact that he told me he thought we were soulmates of some sort the first week we spoke. That led to a search which brought me to twin flames, and into my spiritual journey. Now we are leading two different lives right now and we are not thru with the karma and lessons we must go thru yet. So we keep our distance and our respect for each other.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
When I hug him I never want to let go! I feel energized and happy. My heart races and I feel secure and confident. He fits me perfectly like a yin and yang. It's almost like being hooked up to a battery at first and than feeling so secure that I could fall asleep right there without ever another thought about anything again.
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
I wish I had an answer for this. I meditate, and breath. This is the toughest part, and I know that it is the most important. It is creating for a stronger better me. Aside from our signs and pep talks, you kinda just have to hold on and wait for the moment to pass.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
Signs, signs, and more signs! My dreams, the way we communicate, the things we have in common, the fact I can tell him anything and I don't have to worry about what he is thinking. I dreamed his first three digits of his phone number years before I met him. I tried forever to place those numbers somewhere. I played the lottery, used them on locker combos, and nothing. No one else I know has those three digits in the beginning of their phone number....it was like it was a sign so that I would be able to place him when he came along. Also when we meet up nothing gets in our way....everything ends up being perfect and fits in place, as if our meeting were meant to be. I question our relationship from time to time and I am always answered with a yes some how.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
I am very spiritual.
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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