Your Name/Nickname......... Jamie                       Age: 35            Sun sign... Leo

   Country........................ USA                                                            State....VA
   Occupation.................. Admin Assistant


   Your Twins name........ Gage                                  Age: 19          Sun sign.... Aquarius
   Country.........................USA                                                             State......... VA

   Occupation.................. Retail

   Site Link....................... N/A

Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....) 

He is the son of my very first boyfriend from high school. We met when his father passed away. I saw him at the funeral home and his eyes from across the room drew me in immediately. One look and I knew I was his. Time stopped in that moment and it haunted me for months... until he finally contacted me and we met up.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

His eyes. The way he looked at me. The calm I felt next to him, and yet the intense passion that engaged my heart. I felt as though my heart had never truly been awake until then.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?  

It's haunting me. Our age difference scared me. I felt as though my family and friends judged me, but I was willing to give it all up to be with him. Everything.. but he walked away. He felt as though he wasn't good enough for me, and he wanted to save me the heartache of what people would think, so he walked away and I feel so lost now.

Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us? 

We were so in tune with one another's touch. I could feel his emotions when he was sitting next to me. Sometimes, just being with him made me cry. I was overtaken with such emotion that I could not begin to put into words.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here. 

This is the hardest part. I don't even know if he knows what a twin flame is.. we don't talk anymore because he stepped away for my happiness, but what he doesn't seem to understand is that he is MY ONLY Happiness and without him, I feel SO empty. We never talked about twin flames, or soulmates. I have NEVER believed in anything like this until now. I began researching why I feel so lost due to being without him and I stumbled upon the definition of twin flame. After reading the signs, I am 100% sure he is mine. I don't know how to reach out to him. I can still feel him and I feel like he's heartbroken without me, but I am scared to allow myself to think that, in case I am just being egotistical.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.  

We felt each others emotions. He could make me cry just by touching me or kissing  me. The emotion he aroused in me is not worthy of words. We would text at the same time, or say things at the same time if we were laying next to each other, WE found the same odd things funny. We just belonged.

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below. 

We definitely felt as though we were familiar and that we belonged. I used to always think that it had something to do with the fact that, when I was in high school I went to prom with his father as friends.. his father invited me because the girl he was dating (Gage's mother) was too old to go to prom. The night we went, was the night Gage was conceived. After taking me home, his father went home and made Gage with Gage's mother. I don't know if that had anything to do with it now.. but I always felt it was something.

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion? 

I always felt I was searching for something. I once told someone, I have an endless hunger for something and I don't know what it is. I can't put my finger on it. Upon meeting Gage, my hunger was gone. He filled my void.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time? 

I've never really given much thought to this. Him and I have never talked about this.

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

He definitely feels as though he has a purpose. Between the ages of 16-17 he tried to commit suicide 3 times, and failed each time. He was in rehab multiple times and while spending time with me he said he finally felt as though he had a purpose. He felt happy for the first time in his entire life. He had lived in different homes, passed around etc.. he had a pretty hard life. Which is why he felt I deserved more. I don't know how to let him know that he is all I need. I don't know how to reach out to him.

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?

I don't know how someone would search, I realize it may be something you constantly think about, but I don't believe searching will help. I believe that it will find you. It will happen if it is meant to .. and it is something you will know instantaneously. Without question.

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here? 

I wouldn't ask a question, but one needs to be answered about.. what if twinflames cannot be together.. how does one go on? How am I expected to live life, to be with anyone else .. I cannot see it possible to ever touch anyone or kiss anyone or allow anyone else to touch me...he is the ONLY one,.. and I have never been like this until now.  Please answer that question.. how does one go on without their twinflame?

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

Absolutely, He awakened me. He has shown me so much that my closed mind would have never thought to consider. Now I am so afraid to go on without him.

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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude

Keep hoping we will find one another again.

When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt

Oh my word, making love to this man... I would cry. We would stare into each others eyes the entire time and nothing has ever felt so.. I can't even find a word for this! Heavenly? Perfect? His eyes, if I die before him.. I will cry out to see his eyes one last time.

Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon

I've never believed in soul mates until now. I know that I will never be happy with anyone else. I will always feel as though something is missing without him.

Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud

Help for those who cannot be with their twinflame.

How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria

We didn't really have conflicts that we discussed. But our age difference was definitely one, and our religious views. I am Scared I made him feel inadequate when he was perfection.

How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret

We weren't really sure how to handle it. It was powerful and I KNOW it scared us both. We didn't know what to do with it which is why we aren't together now :(

What do you feel is your shared purpose?  Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don

I had never heard of a twinflame until researching my feelings... I don't know what our shared purpose is, other than to help others.

What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting

Heaven. There are no words.

How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon

I weep. I stay busy. I exercise alot. My heart aches. I feel empty, lost. Can't concentrate on anything, I feel ancy and nervous.

What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin

There is no doubt. His eyes. How I can see into him, and he into me.

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....

I've always been Christian, but I'm not so sure anymore.. Things are changing, which scares me. I believe in God, but my mind has been opened to so much more.

Are you artistic.................................................? No

Do you believe in reincarnation...................? N/A

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