Your Name/Nickname.........Jennifer Age: 42 Sun sign... Gemini
Country........................ USA State............CA
Occupation..................Medical Data Entry
Your Twins name........Kevin Age: 45 Sun sign.... Cancer
Country.........................USA State......... CA
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
My twin flame and I met 12 years ago; he hosted a weekend karaoke show. While being introduced to him, I had this over-whelming feeling of having known him from some place but neither one of us could figure out where. From that very day, there was not a weekend that passed that I would miss his show just so I could see him.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
All I have to do is look in his eyes, and I immediately feel like all is right in the universe. He also has the most amazing smile, and playful nature. When we hug, I could stay like that for a lifetime for it is such an indescribable feeling of comfort and security.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
In the beginning it didn't change anything because back in 2001 I didn't know what a twin flame was, and I was in spiritual limbo. He had rejected me when I poured my heart out then, and I ended up marrying the first man that asked. After my husband and I separated after 6.5 years, I was relieved, because I married a man who did not support my views, and was happiest when my thinking corresponded with his. I was not allowed to be me. After this spilt my twin flame gradually started coming around again, in part due to I was living with a good friend of mine, but mutual friend of his. Immediately the old feelings I had in the past surfaced once more and I asked myself why? Could I really still have a crush on this man after so much time? It really bothered me, and after much thought, I figured it out. I married my husband to get away from my twin flame, and that no it's not a crush, I have been blessed with an amazing gift, to find my twin flame! This realization came with many tears, not of joy, but of knowing that my life will never be the same, because my tf is now married to the same woman he was with 10 years ago, and decided to stay with. Neither one of us can sever our tie, so we keep talking and seeing each other, and slowly, very slowly, I am starting to realize there is a bigger picture to see here. I have never known unconditional love until now. I will go to all extremes to protect him, it is so crazily intense the emotions I can go through while talking or thinking about him! So yes my twin flame has changed my life, even though I am not so sure I am ready for the torture it brings to me.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
I am not really sure if we've had too many of these, although I am so in tune with him now I tend to not think these synchronicities are unusual. I do have a recent event that since having my spiritual awakening, I have reconnected with another good friend and call him my Anam Cara. My tf has recently told me, without me saying anything, how much he cares for my Anam Cara as well! He sees what we have, my anam cara and I work some magic when we are together! I do know my tf and I like the same music.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
I think I pretty much already summed it up in a previous question. I believe he knows, but he is vague to protect himself. I feel he has many questions, that I would love to answer, or at least give him my thoughts! I long for the day when we can have some really in depth conversations, and he doesn't say much. When we do get together I can't think straight and neither can he, we are like two lovers whom have been separated an eternity!
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
Since we are not fortunate enough to be together, I don't know how he feels, however I can say that yes! I know we have been together in past lives. I don't know what I've done to him in previous lifetimes, but it must not have been good because I am suffering now! I can just imagine our souls reuniting again after this life and the conversation that will ensue!
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
Well 10 years prior to reuniting, I was lost. Looking for love in all the wrong places, and wanting so badly to find it. Fast forwarding to our most recent reunion, it was the bravery of leaving my husband of 6.5 years and not having any idea what I was going to do on my own.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
Not at this time. I am still trying to figure it all out myself! Nothing significant comes to mind.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
I certainly feel that now, but not when I was younger no.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Learn what they are first. Don't think the first man/woman you fall madly in love with is one of these, sometimes new romance can stir feelings of such intense desire, it is mistaken for a cosmic or spiritual connection. If you have not had a sign, either recognition, or other be sure to have many conversations with this person to find out if there really are spiritual/past life ties. If you are certain you have found your twin flame or other, go easy on him or her, this is a lot of heavy stuff to absorb in a relativity small amount of time, they will run and you will chase, but inevitably they will come back.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
This was very well done, I cannot think of one single thing I could possibly add.
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
I will be the one to awaken him, and it has already happened, however he does not understand and so it is a slow process, but soon his full awakening will happen. I feel it and it makes me excited for it to happen.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
Yes staying of this world is a very hard thing to do once you have discovered higher consciousness. I have my Anam Cara, whom I tell all to. He understands what has happened to me and it helps to talk. Also the group page on face book is such a wonderful network of support from people who are going through or have gone through what I am now. I also walk to help clear my mind...its my form of meditation.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
Enormous heat and energy and a heightened response to touch..Really really amazing, as if you are connected mind, body, and spirit.
Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
Oh no, I believe we have several people put into our lives that we have experiences with in lives past. It's not a bad thing if you do not find your twin soul, and if you find your soul mate or someone you can really connect with, why let that slip away?
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
There have been some conversations when I think that will be the last time I hear from him, but he keeps coming back. I am not sure, but I believe he is listening and going over in his mind everything I say, he is intrigued, but not sure why. I confuse him, captivate him, and satisfy him and he is trying so hard to figure it out with his analytic mind! ha ha ha ( I laugh because we all know he won't find his answer there)
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
Take it one day at a time, and preoccupy my mind as much as possible.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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