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Your Name/Nickname.........Kate Age: 21 Sun sign... Aries
Country........................ USA State............WA
Occupation..................Assistant
Email contact................ kateelora@gmail.com
Your Twins name........George Age: 23 Sun sign.... Aries
Country.........................USA State......... WA
Occupation..................Warehouse
Site Link.......................N/A
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
When I was 18, completely out of my character, I made a myspace. I thought "well shoot, I may as well put myself out there although I find this a little lame." Not too long after, I got a random message from a young man 2 years my senior. He simply said "hi", and that I seemed wonderful. We chatted a bit online, and for no reason at all, stopped talking. I thought nothing of it, graduated high school, and was forced into college. About 1 year later, the second day of my second semester I was having an awful day (it was also the day after my 19th b-day), I had to park parallel a mile away from my classes and I had to stay after to pick a new class since I had failed my already simple math class the previous semester. Walking out to my car I spotted an insanely attractive young man like no other I had seen before. He smiled at me as he passed. I checked him out as he walked away. When I sat down in my car it dawned on me I knew him, and he was the boy I had briefly spoke with a year before. I went home immediately and got into my old emails to see if it was really him. It was. I contacted him, he gave me his number, we met up, and have not separated in almost 3 years.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
An unexplainable need to be close. He never tires of affection (even though I am awkward about affection). He even loves my cat, and more importantly, not only does he tolerate my baby talk toward her, he joins in, even using it on me. His face, I could never tire of it. Most importantly, he is exactly like me.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Everything in my life has changed, I see life through much different eyes, with a very different intensity. It's as though while things are becoming clear, the emotions he musters in me that I have long since neglected create a strange pattern of pain, regrowth, pain, regrowth, pain...I've definitely been forced to stop and look in a mirror.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
We do, at first it was weird. Now it is simply a part of our relationship. We say things at the same time that no one else could have thought of because it always occurs in the spur of the moment; when making a joke, trying to describe something, or in our reactions toward things. I always grab my phone to text him only to look down at the exact time he is sending me the same message.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
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Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
Both our psychic abilities have increased since we got together. I can even say at times I have things to learn from his intuitive abilities, (I tend to allow logic to get in the way of mine), but above all I am proud of him, and encourage him to develop it further. We both have a knack for getting what we want simply by intent. We have been together every single day since the night we met, the two days we separated due to a camping trip I couldn't go on, I got the flu and couldn't go to work anyway.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
Sometimes we do, but it's difficult to discern whether that's what we're really feeling or not.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
I didn't do much before we met, I have an exciting internal life, nothing external ever really happened to me after age 10. I was generally going through a time where I was being open to my options as I had just graduated. Perhaps more importantly, I had just shaken off my dogmatic religious beliefs for good.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
We met the night of April 11th of '09, at 11pm after I closed at work. For about a year I've seen 11:11 so much I don't even bother mentioning it. It wasn't until a couple days ago when I became curious about twin flames that I saw the connection. Upon telling my boyfriend he pointed out "our birthdays equal the sum of 11". Also, in numerology my life path is 11 so 11 has been heavily haunting me anyhow.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
We both hold the belief we have higher callings, but we believe this to be true for everyone, whether they know it or not.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
I would say - go with the flow. Trust that you are on the right path, and if it is meant to happen, you will be at the right place at the right time. Like I was. You will attract what you project from within.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
Is there anything you will not tolerate from your twin/soulmate, or are there any "deal breakers"?(in regards to personal boundaries)
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
Not so much. We wake each other up in different ways, but it is completely balanced. He teaches me unconditional love, healing, and respect, while I try to ground him and guide him intuitively through the big picture so we may both reach our goals in the most affective manner possible.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
It's hard because we can both be very airy in different ways. Sometimes I do not understand the limitations of human reality, and it frustrates me, but he's always patient when I go through these sensitive moments, because he sometimes experiences them too. Usually when one of us is taking a trip to outer space, the other is patiently waiting on earth to pick up where we left off.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
I can never recall the experience, as though my memory gets erased. All I know is I feel safe.
Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
I don't believe that. However, I'm an all or nothing kind of gal, and I can't imagine myself knowing I have a twin flame out there and settling for possibly less. But the thing is, I probably wouldn't settle for anything less than someone who was "like " a twin flame anyway, even if I didn't believe in such a thing, because that's how I tend to approach everything. I feel that's how I drew him to me in the first place.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
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How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
Conflicts seem to be like poison, and it takes a great deal of detoxing to get things back to par. We never have any small conflicts like most couples seem to, and we never put each other down. The larger conflicts on the other hand, can have us both curled up and crying. We always decide to stay together and work on it.
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
The need to stay together keeps things under control.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
I have always felt we must lead from example, since separately, people tend to look up to us.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
Addicting, confusing, and absolutely right.
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
Cuddling and giving in to love. Plus, I expect emotional turmoil in a relationship, any relationship.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
When I know I know something, I know it's right. I've always thought our relationship is a special one of fate. When a thought like this pops into my head, patterns emerge that reaffirm my speculations. I cannot say for sure though, nothing is guaranteed in this realm.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
I take what I need and leave the rest.
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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From The USA Posted ~ 11/18/11
