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Labhrain and Caoimhin
From The USA
Posted on 3/27/2011
Your Name/Nickname.........Labhrain Age: 35 Sun sign......Libra
Country........................USA State........... Georgia
Occupation..................Editor
Email contact...............caoimhinskarrad@yahoo.com
Your Twins name/nickname........Caoimhin Age: 39 Sun sign.....Aquarius
Country.........................USA State........... Georgia
Occupation.................. Government
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
I was a reporter, he was a police officer at the time. I went to see him for a story. He kept me waiting for 45 minutes. When the desk clerk told me to go back and directed me to his office, I opened the door and my entire life changed.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
It's hard to describe. He's very enigmatic. He's got a very wry sense of humor coupled with this vibe of complete ease. The moment I saw him, I wanted to sink into him.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Oh boy... let's see... Because of him, I had to go back through and re-evaluate every time I ever thought that I loved someone. Because of him, I learned patience, tolerance and what unconditional love really means.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
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If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
We're both married to other people. Neither marriage is a happy one, but we both took that commitment seriously and so we've remained very close, speaking all day, everyday, but we have never physically consummated anything. He has also been hurt badly in the past and whenever he feels that I'm getting too close, he'll go a period of time without speaking to me, at which point, we're both miserable. He's aware that he does it and aware that it causes a problem for both of us, but seems unable to help it. He also says that he doesn't believe in the Twin Flame theory and just sees the two of us as being very close for reason he doesn't fully understand.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
I can feel all of his emotions, no matter where he is or what he is doing. Two years ago, he was in a meeting and had a medical emergency. I was at my office working. Immediately I knew what was going on and was calling the person who was sitting next to him at the same meeting. We dream of each other constantly. He always knows when I'm having a bad day. At the same time, we'll email each other to see if the other is available for a visit. I know moments before that I'm about to pass him on the road or see him somewhere out around town.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
Yes. We've talked about that. He believes in reincarnation, but again, doesn't believe in the "Twin Flame" idea. He thinks that the person you end up marrying is the person you're supposed to be with in this life, regardless of whether or not you're happy.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
My decision to uproot from the state I was living in and move to this state, out of the blue, with no prior inkling of what would happen. A month after I did that is when I met him. Up until that point, I was constantly searching for something. The moment I saw him, I knew he was that "something." I remember the look on his face that first day also. It was the same expression of "Oh, there you are."
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
I'm not sure what it means but we always happen to see each other at the exact same time of day. 3:33. No matter what time I leave the office to go to his or vice versa. It's always the same time that we greet each other. We call it the "Groundhog" effect.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
Myself, yes. I'm a medium/clairvoyant. I do free spiritual guidance and counseling. He is now involved in government and feels responsible for the well being of the residents he serves.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
I'm looking for advice myself on how to help him better understand what's going on.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
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Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
Yes on my part and in a lot of ways on his. He at least acknowledges now that he didn't "come alive" until the day we met.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
I submerse myself in my spiritual growth and try to help him with his. We try to support each other in our earthly goals and aspirations and be a source of comfort for one another on a daily basis.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
I jokingly tell him that I'm not "right" for days after seeing him, but it's the truth. From the moment I see him, nothing else exists, nothing else matters. The entire world could fall away and sometimes it feels like it does. I love the way his eyes light up when he sees me and how he just seems to open the moment I walk in the door.
Do you belive that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
I was happy before I met him, or content, at the very least. But finding him in some ways was like finally finding myself and I needed that in order to really understand "ME". He compliments me. He makes me whole, so yes, I'm happier now that he is in my life.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
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How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
We don't have a lot, but I will say, we have different religious beliefs and it's been sort of an eye opener for him. I've gotten angry at him, actually pretty recently and it was a painful experience for both of us.
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
With a lot of patience. Not just for one another, but towards ourselves as well.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
No, I had no clue. I knew what soulmates were, but didn't know about the twin flame idea. No, I don't think so, LOL... unless he suddenly comes to accept what this is for what it is.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
We feel merged at all times. Even now. He's 45 miles away in a meeting, and I can feel his boredom. He can feel mine. He recently sent a text that told me to WAKE UP, because I was sitting here almost asleep.
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
Ironically, he copes with it better than I do. Sometimes I just ache for him, physically and not really in a sexual sense. It's more my eyes ache to see him, my hands ache to touch his. He's good at helping me through those times when I'm almost desperate for him.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
How can I even explain that? LOL, it was like a dam opened up within me and I was flooded with feelings I'd never even thought possible for me to have. It's the constant presence of him inside my mind and heart, in places that no one else has ever occupied.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
I am Pagan
Are you artistic.................................................? YES
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? YES
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