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Your Name/Nickname.........Mir Age: 40 Sun sign... Aquarius
Country........................ UK State...........
Occupation..................Multimedia
Email contact...............N/A
Your Twins name/nickname........Ric Age: 36 Sun sign....Libra
Country.........................Sweden State.........
Occupation..................Engineer
Site Link.......................N/A
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
Growing up our families were close.Our aunties were bestfriends. When I was a little girl I played with his first cousin and used to hang around his maternal grandmother's shop. She died when I was 13.
In my teens his sister Amanda was my bestfriend. When I turned 16, his older half-brother 2years (let's call him Nick )had an interest in me. I was not attracted to Nick at first, but he was very persistent and patient, I finally gave in eventually. I fell in love. I used to spend most times at their house. I never gave Ric the time or day, he was 4 years younger.
One day I was 17 he came around my house with his sister - my best friend. My mum stormed out of the house, grabbed his throat and told him to leave me alone. I remember screaming, telling her to leave him alone, I told her he was a kid. The funny thing is that lots of people mistook him for my boyfriend. I always wondered why they would even imagine a thing like that.
I got pregnant by Nick when I was 18, my mum kicked me out, his mum on the other hand was very understanding. She had been a teen mum.The mum(now my ex mother-in-law) sent the whole family to Sweden and a year later she arranged for me and my baby
to join the family.
When I met him later he was 16 and I was 20. We started bonding. He would give me hugs and never seemed to let go. Kept telling me how his brother was no good for me. I would feel very confused around him.
By 22 I had another kid by Nick, Ric also got a girl pregnant and had a kid at 18. For some reason I didn't like the girl. And in my heart I felt he deserved someone better.
A year after I had given birth to our second child, Nick left Sweden for London, when he said goodbye I knew that was the end of our relationship. We kept the long distance relationship.
At 26, he proposed, I got married to Nick thinking he was moving back to Sweden. A year later I found out he was cheating on me. Got a divorce. Meanwhile Ric kept coming to see me once in awhile, then he would disappear. But everytime he would come around I would get all nervous and would miss him
In 2003 got married to another guy and moved to London so my boys could me closer to their father. Ric got very distant, but his mother(we are so close) she would tell me how he is doing. He moved to Australia for awhile and came back.
Through the years I would have dreams like 4 times a year about him, then I would think about him. This year, I separated from my husband. I decided to go to Stockholm for a break. His mum(mother-in-law)insisted I meet him she gave me both of his numbers and email. I did not plan on calling him, cause I had had 3 romantic dreams in a month and I was scared of what would happen.
Then a week before I left for Stockholm, I had a dream about him the night before. I kept thinking about him during the day, then he called. I told him I was thinking about him. He laughed it off. I went to see him at his place, there was alot of tension. We hugged alot.
I think he has known all this time. He gave me an usher cd 1997, every time I hear Usher on radio or tv I think about him.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
Did I mention he has the sexiest voice ever, it gives me goosepumps. We hug alot and we never seem to want to let go. There is this intense magnetic energy. I feel so drawn to him, it is so magical, out of this world soul chemistry. Words can not describe the way I feel.
I have never ever felt this way with anyone in my whole life.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Ever since I met him again 6 weeks ago, I have been crying and I feel his energy in my chest. Am feeling his grandmother(who is in spirit) lately.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
Grew up in the same neighbourhood went to the the same university different campuses, we both love music and freedom. His family and my family have love triangles with each other. One of my younger aunts went out with two of his uncles. His mother and my favorite uncle had an affair (when they were teens).There have been lots of love triangles going on in both our families.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
I have been praying for these feelings to stop, its driving me insane. I am going out of my mind, he is constantly on my mind. He is my first husbands half brother. Our relatives would have a field day.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
I have been crying alot when I think about him, I want to be with him. I prayed and asked Angels to let me have a validation of his feelings. Which I did in a dream last night.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
When I was meditating 2 weeks ago I saw him in my vision but it looked like 2 centuries ago. He was my husband and he went to sea and never came back. To me the vision explains why we both love staring at the sea.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
It must have been the frequent dreams about him.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
My numerology number is 11, I see 11:11 all the time 01:11 lived at number 11 in stockholm, nr 33 in another town. I have 11, 44, 33 in my phone.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
I have always felt I was on earth for a purpose, my mother told me I was a mistake and she never planned to have me. I was meant to be born. She actaully says, all of her 4 kids were all mistakes, all of us have double digits me 11, my sisters 33, 22 and my brother 11.
Ric's mother had an affair with his dad when she was still married. He told me he thinks he is a mistake. I believe Ric and I were meant to be here on earth for a purpose.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Am new at this, its just so intense.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
It is perfect, thanks.
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
I have been awakened, I think he is still in denial, I think it was a matter of right timing.
We are both single at the same time.
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Twin Flames - Mir and Ric
From The U.K. and Sweden
Posted on 7/18/2011
