Lynn and Mark
From The USA and Australia
Posted on 6/20/2011 or 111
(111th story posted to cd.com)
Your Name/Nickname.........Lynn Age: 64 Sun sign... Gemini
Country........................ USA State........... N/A
Your Twins name/nickname........Mark Age: 52 Sun sign....Aries
Country.........................Australia State........... N/A
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
We met on the Internet a year and a half ago.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
His Aussie accent, his sense of humor and playfulness, sensitive nature, patience, and unconditional love and acceptance. He's also very sexy, and passionate.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Literally, it has turned my world upside down. I even changed my daily schedule to Aussie time, so we get up and sleep about the same time. More than that, it has caused some major changes in my spiritual life, my way of thinking, and has made me more tolerant and less judgmental of others who are different.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
We have so many synchronicities, it is incredible. We are constantly posting the exact same thought, sometimes even the same words at the same time on chat, when we are on Skype we are constantly blurting out the same thought, or finishing each other's sentences. We have the same laugh, same smile, and our noses are shaped the same, except mine is smaller than his. Other than that we are complete opposites, physically:he is 6'3" and I'm 5'3", his eyes are brown, mine are blue.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
Both of us know we are Twins, and we would love to be together, but he is married with children, and I have family obligations, although I am not married, and my children are all grown, with children of their own. The distance alone is enough of an obstacle, as is the financial aspects. Even so, we have chosen to create our own paradigm of reality, and enjoy what we have, without worrying about the future. We both feel that if it is meant to be, it will be.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
We are very aware of each other, with a very passionate psychic-sexual connection. That connection is so strong sometimes, it causes spontaneous orgasm. The first time that happened I was so shocked, I had to grab onto my computer desk, to keep from falling off my chair. We have also had erotic dreams together. We are also aware of how each of us is feeling emotionally. What is really funny is that we get hungry at the same time, and when he is on a break from work and skypes me, he will often say he is eating, at the same time I am eating. Once I impulsively broke up with him, and both of us got sick that same day. We cannot stay away from each other more than a few days without contact, because we get sick and very depressed.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
I had a normal life, working, busy in my church, busy with my family who lives in the area, busy on the Internet. I would say the last big thing that happened was I got fired from my job, which I had almost 6 years, and took an early retirement the next week. That was in September, 2009. We met on an internet forum, the following January.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Stop looking, and let it happen when it will. I had given up completely, had been alone for 20 years, and was not looking for anyone. This was totally out of the blue and unexpected. If you are already in the middle of this kind of relationship, be patient, don't pressure each other, be quick to forgive if you fuss at each other, accept each other and love each other for the pure joy of loving.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
Does either of you have an Extra-terrestrial or Star People connection?
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
I would say it's more of a re-awakening. Back in the 80's I was on a very spiritual path, experiencing all kinds of paranormal activity, working with healing energies,crystals, etc., and frequent UFO sightings, dreams and visions. But, I shut down, because I was a very open and sensitive empath, too open for my own good, and I was getting hurt. I left my path, and went back to organized religion, a very strict church. A few months after I met Mark, I became inactive from the Church, and am now back on my spiritual journey.
One day recently Mark and I were on chat, and I told him, "With you, my restless heart is content, and complete. " He answered me with, "You were asleep a long time." And I said, "Yes, but you found me and woke me up, and I will never be the same." Then he said, "I'm glad for us both that we found each other." And I said, "So am I. Don't ever let me go." It was so spontaneous and unexpected. I didn't know he would say that. I had always thought I was the awakened one, but he said I was asleep, had been asleep for a long time. It was like he knew that he had been sent to me to re-awaken me.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
I'm just starting a course in Zen meditation, and I occasionally do yoga. I am not very disciplined, because I have ADHD. I also do a lot of writing, journaling and blogging.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
Complete merging. We feel like we share the same mind and body. We often say We are One.
Do you belive that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
There may be other soulmates to be happy with, but, even with all the obstacles in our path, and the possibility we might not meet offline for a long time, I have no desire to find anyone else.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
The only conflicts we have had are because of outside pressures, judgmental people, and a strict religion, which made me feel guilty. If I let the pressure, and the guilt get to me too much, I would impulsively break up with Mark, only to go back to him a few days later. The first time I did that, I changed our relationship status on Facebook, and he was very hurt, said it felt like I had slapped him in his face. We can't stand to hurt each other, and quickly apologize and make up when we do. If I impulsively break off, he says he just waits patiently because he knows I will be back.
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
Mark really got upset once, and seemed a little stand-offish, and I was a bit miffed, and asked him what was wrong. He said he was feeling a little overwhelmed, because he wasn't used to being told so many times a day that he was loved. He said he had tried to protect his heart, afraid of being hurt. Since then, I have learned to tone it down a bit, and give him a bit of space when he needs it. He said he appreciates that, and it makes him love me more.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
To overcome negative patterns in our lives, to heal each other with unconditional love and acceptance. And then radiate the love to the world around us.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
Very intense energy, awareness of each other's presence (sometimes, for a split second, I can see him)a feeling of peace, calmness, and being surrounded by love, and that we are so right together, we fit perfectly.
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
The worst part of this is the loneliness. Going to bed alone every night, waking up alone every day. Missing him so much, and then sometimes wondering how that can be. How can I miss someone so much, when we have never even met offline? We rely on Skype, chat, and Yahoo Messenger. We also text when we can. We have had some real problems at times, with technology glitches, and went several months without Skype, or chat, because my computer was down. During that time, I spent several weeks off and on visiting my daughter, so was able to get on Facebook chat occasionally. Other than that, we had no choice but to text, which he hates doing because it is slow, and dangerous with his job, because he is on the road driving most of the time. We came very close to breaking up that time. But it was hurting both of us to even consider losing each other.
We also had problems when he lost his iPhone, and had to go back to his older, slower phone.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
We are so much alike in the way we think, our favorites, our feelings, we have such an intense connection it is almost physical, and we feel it even thousands of miles away from each other. We have similar facial features and expressions, our laugh sounds alike, think the same thoughts, say the same words at the same time, have similar, vivid imaginations.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
New Age Christian
Are you artistic.................................................? N/A
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? N/A
Free Form Comments -
I just wanted to add one thing, a poem I wrote soon after reading the Twin Flames Signs. It sums up what I feel about my Twin and our relationship.
People say that it's a sin-
Give him up, you can't win-
But they don't know what we know,
So we'll see how far we can go.
God has a plan that they can't see;
A perfect plan for you and me-
But...they say, God will not bless-
Judging me, they just don't see;
How all this depresses me.
How can love be a sin-
An affair between soul mates?
My heart, seeking truth, waits-
And finds the answer deep within-
Not just soul mates-
You're my Twin!
And so we compromise, somewhat sadly,
Knowing what we want so badly
May not be for quite some time,
And our love has no reason or rhyme.
No logic at all, and yet it's real,
Worth protecting with our zeal.
But I won't listen-
Un-shed tears in your eyes glisten;
In my heart I hold you near,
And take away your every fear.
Oh, go away!
Can't you see?
Oh, let us be.
If our love's a sin-
Let God decide-
The love of Twins,
We just can't hide;
And God will teach us to abide.
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