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Your Name/Nickname.........Nichole Age: 36 Sun sign... Aries/Taurus Cusp
Country........................ USA State........... GA
Occupation..................Graduate Student - MSW
Email contact...............alinicul@yahoo.com
Your Twins name/nickname........Charlie Age: 31 Sun sign....Gemini
Country.........................USA State......... VA
Occupation..................Pet Grooming/Construction
Site Link.......................N/A
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
We met on an internet social networking site. No..it wasn't myspace or facebook :D Not very long after we met on that site, we both deleted our accounts there...lol
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
I had been asking the universe to "show me something real" for awhile...all the while keeping in my thoughts the type of person that I was wanting and waiting for...I had a picture of him in my mind. I knew my tf would have long hair, so when I saw his picture (it was a really small icon) I was instantly thinking "hmmmm....let me see this long-haired man...." hehehe So...that's what made me click.. It's fun to say that I FOUND HIM :-)
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
In every way it has changed both of our lives. We both have a history of failed and complicated relationships and both had nearly resigned to the fact that "this kind of love" wasn't real. Needless to say, after reuniting....the total opposite has been shown. Life now has purpose and a very distinct one at that! This world is vibrant with color and beyond 3D when we are together. We weave our own world ;-)
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
Hmm...yes we do. It started with the numbers like 11:11 and those that are similar..we would see them a lot. Then after getting to know each other more....there are several. My Mom was my best friend...just like his Dad is his. My mom passed away from cancer...just like his Dad's mom did. His dad and his grandmother were best friends. He has a blonde-haired blue-eyed son just like I do and they were born 11 days apart. Both Gemini's.....twins..hehe. :D We often text each other at the very same time and end up missing those texts b/c we didn't hear it come in b/c the other was sending their own :-) We definitely finish each other's sentences.. A LOT. It can be annoying :-)
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
Oh...he knows it. It's been over a year long journey now and within the next month or so, we will be happily living together. However, he is currently living in VA. He is in the process of wrapping things up for the move. Lots to do. We got married on 7/9/11 - our one year anniversary of meeting in person :-)
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
We definitely pick up on each other's thoughts. We usually know when one of us is thinking about the other because we will receive a text or a phone call :-) We can totally feel each other when speaking on the phone. We can instantly tell if one is upset and immediately identify the emotion being felt. There is no emotional hiding in this relationship. We experience an ability to be intimate with one another even though not physically present. When we are together, it seems as though time stops...there is no concept of it at all in our love bubble. We just are....of course until the time is up.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
One of the first things we said to each other, even before we realized what this was...was...nice to meet you again!! :D We were told by a psychic of our last lifetime incarnated together and it fit so well...that we could both visualize and actually see it happening. She said that it was in the late 1850's and we were newly married and beyond ecstatic to be together but I contracted an illness...some type of fever and passed shortly after. She could see him there...leaning over my bed and inconsolable. It was interesting b/c I had this reading several months after we were together, but upon our first meeting in person..when it was time to leave..i joked about taking his hair with me :-), and he said without even thinking..."braid a piece and cut it, take it with you". I was floored in that moment..beyond touched. This is a man who had not cut his hair in nearly 10 years. It was the most meaningful thing...I felt that I should say no, but I couldn't because I wanted it that much. Of course, this was common practice in the 1800's--to cut a lock of hair to remember a loved one or if a loved one passed, their spouse would cut a lock of hair. It also kind of fit in with why I felt undeserving...I was carrying guilt over from having left him before. I also had an unfounded fear that something would happen to him in this lifetime.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
I had experienced my spiritual awakening and in the process realized that my current relationship was not serving either of us. I knew it was just a matter of time until I figured out what to do and where to go. Right before I met Charlie, My Mom and two grandmothers passed away...personal deaths like these have a way of making you really evaluate what you want out of life and what you are willing to do to get it. It also makes you realize the fragility of life and that we all have a finite amount of time to accomplish what we want in this dimension. Basically, they made me brave.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
11:11, 11:22, 12:22, 1:22, 2:22, 3:33 - these show up regularly. But we also have a sense of no karma between us. We feel that we've reached this last stage together and while we had karma to finalize and clear up with others (past relationships) we come together now completely ready for what this will bring.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
Definitely yes....though it seemed always elusive...until now.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Just Breathe. B-R-E-A-T-H-E If you think you are but are not sure, then it's not. You will know when it has come to you. Without a doubt.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
can't think of any :-)
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
We were both very much awakened. However, haha it's 1:11 right now...we both very much inspire and push the other to open even further without even consciously trying. It just happens.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
Deep breathing, relaxation meditation, mindfulness meditation.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
It sometimes can feel like being sucked into a black hole...but not in a bad way :-P it is all encompassing and the two beings are swallowed up into one. again..we weave our own world.
Do you belive that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
Hmm...wow that's hard to answer after knowing that I have him. Contemplating happiness and life without him is a rather daunting task... I will say that if I wasn't aware of him, I think I could be okay...just going along and find a type of happiness in life. My kids...life. I would be okay I think. But to be really honest here-and I am not a co-dependent type- I cannot imagine being/experiencing true happiness without him. It would all pale in comparison.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
Twin inspired artwork or creative writing :-) I have some! hehe
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
We rarely have conflicts...in fact you can't hardly call them that because we always work through it immediately. The only really hard thing right now is dealing with the distance. The missing each other can be miserable at times. There is an unconditional acceptance that allows us to open up and communicate extremely honestly.
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
You mean how does it manage us?? lol Yeah. You don't manage that kind of feeling...you are swept away and you just go with it. ;-)
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
I did know about TFs and so did he, but I wasn't really sure if it was real. Hmmmm...we definitely see a shared purpose of becoming self-sustaining at some point. Also, the general helping mankind and those who are experiencing tough times.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
Hahahaha...is this a trick question? There are no human words for that my friend. You can only conceive of it within your imagination. It is a twirling and swirling of the brightest and warmest of lights....cosmic explosions and births of new worlds....yeah...that's a start... :D
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
Ha. You do the best you can. It's imperative that you keep communication wide open. When you want to retreat and withdraw....don't. Push through. It will pass.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
Like I said, when you know, you know.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
spiritual not religious; open
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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Twin Flames - Nichole and Charlie
From The USA Posted on 7/26/2011
