Your Name/Nickname......... R. Age: 26 Sun sign... Taurus/Aries Cusp
Country........................ USA State............ MI
Occupation.................. Art Related
Your Twins name........ D. Age: 27 Sun sign.... Taurus/Aries Cusp
Country......................... USA State......... MI
Occupation.................. Medical Related
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
The series of events that brought us together is rather complex, but to put it simply we met through a mutual friend. I believe we have had several "almost" meetings before we actually met.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
The most obvious thing to me is personality, that I do not really need to explain myself to him. However, it is deeper than that, and I feel to quantify it is to make excuses that really don't answer the question.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Finding him was like having a freight train drive into the middle of my life. I have not wanted anything between us, but things seem to keep coming there, which is what keeps us separate. It would appear that I'm farther along on the "path" or whatnot than he is. Though it would seem we have the same flaws and do the same things, we are both strong people. I don't feel like I'm alone.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
Personality, expression, sense of humor, interest in learning, we both like to watch movies and tv, play video games, actually the synchonicities are kind of uncanny. Our sexual interests are a little unusual and are also very much the same, including appetite. We are the same height and of the same coloring, pale with dark hair and dark eyes. It would seem in many ways, we are very similar people, even in our past, we were picked on horribly in school and both had to come to terms with that.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
My twin flame knows what we are deep inside. In fact, he kind of knew before I did. But he came at a time when I had been finding out that I am physically disabled. This was hard for me to accept, and I didn't want anything between us. To me, he was sacred and special and he deserved everything. I hurt his feelings, and now that I am ready to accept it, I am not sure he is ready. I think he forgives me, most certainly, but I think he needs to do some exploring of life before he decides it's okay to feel that love for me again. It's a very intense thing and both of us are fairly young. Of course I also am not long for this world, but I have this sense, even if I die, I will be with him. I have felt always that I will find him this life, in fact, people have gone out of their way to tell me I will find my true love. I have dreamt of him. I have never asked him if he had a mystery girl in his dreams, but I bet he did.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
Sometimes I can feel if he is very sad or very angry. If we have been around each other recently the effect is increased. Sometimes if he thinks of me I know what he is thinking about, it will just pop into my head. I have seen fantasies that he has had about me. Perhaps he has seen the same, he is slightly less spiritual, since we have known each other he has turned from Christian to Atheist. I hold my own beliefs in the world and the spiritual side. I think many things are possible, and I don't wholly discount psychic phenomena.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
I feel that way, I know there was immediate recognition. I dreamt about him before I met him. I somehow know we have not yet been able to be together romantically in a lifetime. I feel like, we are inseparable on the other side.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
I had almost killed myself, prior to our reunion, actually twice, the first time, when we first met, and the second time, when we met again. My life has always been chaos, but since I met my twin, it would appear that I am moving into the realm of acceptance, I feel an intense desire to resign myself, to calm down, and learn to ride the waves, so to speak.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
Not that I have noticed, no, but I'm sure there are.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
Yes, I have always felt that way, and I know he has a major Paladin (save the world) complex, so I know he feels the same way.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Don't be freaked out by how powerful it feels, how passionate the two of you seem to be, and don't be scared and run away, even if you think that person deserves better than you. Just let it happen, regardless of the circumstances. You should never try to force apart what really wants to come together.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
I believe I have awakened him and he has awakened me to a certain extent. I think we're still working on that process.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
Haha, I've always worked on being grounded, in fact, I think I'm quite skilled at staying grounded, and it's more difficult for me to let go!
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
His eyes draw me in and I feel as if they are an explosion of light, and time separates into 15 layers, in which we have different thoughts and feelings and we are talking to each other in different ways, but it's also as if time does not exist in that place. It is beautiful and terrible at the same time. He and I have not made love. Albeit a bit personal, I have always felt that my orgasms are for him, even before I met him, I felt they were reserved for him. I am very spiritual, very mental and emotional, and not just physical, so that outpouring of feeling is special to me and I wish I could share it with him.
Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
I have felt it is both happy to glean love where one can find it, in a person you can share things in common with, where you work to gain tolerance. But my twinsoul makes me ecstatic, his presence stirs me on another level, no one else can touch that place, no one but myself. I would rather be with my twinsoul than anyone else, but if I cannot be, it is a storm I shall weather. Because since I have first met him, it is easy for me to at least imagine his presence. I have always written post it notes in my head and sent them off to someone as if, "If you could only see this now," and somehow, I think those get to him, whether through dreams or psychic phenomena. Sometimes I think I feel what the answer is. Not to sound crazy or anything.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
I can't think of anything right now.
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
I believe I have grown massively from any conflict between us. I don't consider conflicts between he and I to be conflicts of a petty nature either, they are deep and dark, but somehow around him, they become easy to deal with.
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
Oh dear, I have a hard time with it, and I think he does too. It's hard when I have felt unaffected by other men, and he is the only one that can make me feel really aroused or really excited about anything. He does that just by existing. When he talks, it is the sweetest music, I could listen to it forever. I find we are both impatient, I feel like I can feel his feelings and I feel like I'm not wrong. When he touches me, I feel like electricity alights us on all of our levels, it's a little too much, to be honest. I want more, but I'm scared of how vast and aching that desire is, to be physical with him, because it would be something I could never recover from if we endeavored to have a physical relationship and then it was robbed from me or him somehow.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
I knew about a twin flame, he probably understands the concept of soul mates better. I'm not sure of our shared purpose, I think we'd have to come together more for that.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
It is unimaginable until you feel it. I'm not sure what is meant by this entirely.
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
I try to weather it in stride and do the best I can to cope as a normal person. Sometimes I have unhealthy habits regarding this, both he and I are fairly stable but prone to outbursts, usually verbal or we will write, to get things off of our chest.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
I can't unknow him, I can never forget him, and despite the years that have passed between the last time I have seen him, when I see him again, it affects me the same way, if not stronger. He and I, it's like we are ceaseless. It's very hard to explain. I just never want him to leave whenever he's around, and it's not because of a selfish thing, I just like him so much for no apparent reason, he makes me ecstatic. I don't want anything between us, and I don't understand why we just understand each other. I feel things with him that I do not feel with anyone else. He makes everyone pale in comparison.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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