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Your Name/Nickname......... Robert Age: 27 Sun sign... N/A
Country........................ Canada State....Canada
Occupation.................. Wal Mart
Email contact................lennoxrob@hotmail.com
Your Twins name........ Anon Age: 18 Sun sign.... N/A
Country.........................Canada State......... Alberta
Occupation.................. Unknown
Site Link....................... N/A
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
She used to work where I worked. I would always catch her smiling at me for an instant and then looking down and away, as if she didn't want me to see. She started conversations with me often. After a month or two of both of us playing hard to get we eventually met for drinks. The conversation was incredible, we were both suffering a loss of a soul mate, even though the circumstances were very different our feelings mirrored one another perfectly. At the end of the meeting with her I had to work the next day, I was nervous and said "This meeting was meant to happen" and I left. After that a few days later at work, she gave me a weak "Hi," and then didn't talk to me. A week later we met again but she kept sabotaging the meeting. It was like she wanted things to happen but couldn't bring herself to let it happen. She would set something up, cancel it, and then try it later. She would often say sweet things to me, but barely audible and then cover up with something arrogant. Suddenly she decided to move away, and promised another meeting, which never happened. She tried to stay in contact with me once after moving away but she screwed it up again. A month later she told me she really needed to work on herself. That was 4 or so months ago. I have heard she has moved back but hasn't contacted me again.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
I was dreaming about a woman soul mate that looked and acted exactly like her before I met her. The hair, eyes, the way she walks, style of clothes. I dreamed all of these things very vividly before I met her. There is a very sweet person inside of her fighting to get out. I would catch glimpses of it at times and then watch her cover it up later.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
It has changed me. I never realized how incomplete I could feel until she left. I've had girlfriends, crushes, soul mates before... but I have never felt anything like this ever.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
Many dreams, synchronicity etc. When I confronted her on her hot and cold game she was playing with me I mentioned that "the small things count the most." when trying to teach her that a small nice thing wouldn't leave me so flustered if she wanted space. A week later in a random conversation with another co worker, He was Talking about "The small things." making a difference just as she was walking up to me, she heard it. But I could tell by her face that the sync didn't register on her level, though clearly it was a message for her. When she moved away on the very day a circumstance forced me to move in with my family. When I moved out a week later she moved back to the province.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
I think she is strongly ignoring the signs of what she feels. I am going through the same thing too. Many thoughts of "who is this silly girl? and how could I possibly have such strong feelings for a person who seems to be just a tease or a player?". Like I said Whenever her feelings would rise to the surface (Which I clearly SAW) she would quickly cover them up and say something arrogant. She's trying to also figure herself out, is what she told me.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
I always get strong random feelings about her. She is going through something similar to me, going back and forth on the issue.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
I feel like I have known her because our gender roles seem to be reversed. I think in a past life I was the woman and she was the man.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
The big thing that happened to me was the loss of a soul mate to an arranged marriage.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
I see these everywhere.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
Yes, sort of.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Be cautious! This is not for the feint of heart.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
How do you deal with the twin flame separation? It's terrible, I swing back and forth from loving her to getting angry that she dropped off contact, cyclic back and forth. She is all I think about from morning until night - where I still dream about her.
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
Yes
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I've never felt anything so strong...nothing like it.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
I believe there is a God.
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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From Canada Posted ~ 4/10/2012
