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Your Name/Nickname.........Shakiema Age: 28 Sun sign... Sagittarius
Country........................ USA State........... NY
Occupation..................Nurse
Email contact...............Ladelucious@aol.com
Your Twins name/nickname........David Age: 29 Sun sign....Cancer
Country.........................USA State......... NY
Occupation..................Logistics Agent
Site Link.......................N/A
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
We met on the same block we both live in. I first saw him on a friends profile and then learned he lived across the street from me.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
Well first I felt like he was very attractive, quite... like love at first sight! it took us a while to actually get together...but once we did we were inseparable!
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Crazy, He doesn't understand as much as I do, what it is that we're experiencing. So we both are more distant because of the pain. However, when things were good between us they were unbelievable.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
Well when we first started having sexual relations he replied to me telling me his first daughters mother and I share the same name. Then eventually I relize he shares the same name as an ex-boyfriend of mine. As time went on I've come to find out we both were in a relationship with them at the same times of our lives and eventually I found that both of them have the same sun signs and birthdays are very close. His ex-wife Oct. 21 and my ex-boyfriend Oct. 15. I've become pregnant with now his second daughter. I said to myself if this was meant to be, she would have a due date either the same day as his daughter or very close to that date. His first daughter birthday is Dec. 21. my daughters due date was Dec.22 and then changed to Dec. 17 and she was born on the 17h. As our relationship progressed I've learned about his past with his ex-wife only to find he went through the exact same trials and tribulations with his ex-wife. Also... I learned about a recent past relationship with a young woman who tried to trap him with a baby boy. This woman was pregnant around the same time I was with whom we belived was a boy (by my first daughters father)I had an abortion with that child, but if he were born he would have shared the same birthday as his son. (April 30) I found out that woman he had a son with, shared the same sign as he, just the same as my first daughers father. They both are Cancers and we both were Sagittarians. We are all 4 years apart in age. He being older than her and my Ex-fiance being older than me.Although I learned alot from him he was not the one for me. He also was born the same day as his Daughter Dec. 21. My oldest daughter has another sister from her dads side whose birthday is a week apart and her name starts with an I (Imani) just like my youngest daughers older sister name starts with an I (Iyana). David has been damaged from his relationship with his ex-wife as I with my ex-fiance but emotionally damaged from my ex-boyfrend David R., we ended up reliving our past relationship with his ex- Hakima and my ex- David R. Ive even seen David K. my Twin Flame do things unique to what my ex David has done. He even speaks the way he did with some of the same phrases he said. David K.(My Twin Flame) claimes I remind him of his ex- Hakima by the way I react to things he has done and sometimes how I think I know everything. I've even experienced having the same medical condtions. Including Having two girls and 1 by another man. However between the two of us. We find that there are alot better things about each other comparing to the two of them. I'm sure there are alot more - maybe I can update on here later as they come to mind.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
Well he knows there is something between us. I've explained to him what it is that we have tons of questions about and not many answers. He agrees that maybe this is what it is, but he doesnt understand how to handle his emotions when it comes to me, so he becomes very distant when he is hurt the most. And me - being his Twin he is hurt easily as I am too, but with him being a Cancer, he is very messy in the way he does things. Plus, he doesnt currently work... so its hard for us to live together without him having an income.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
Well the time frame I mentiond before our time line is pretty much the exact same... and I can think about really intensely and he'll pop up at my dorr the very next morning. Our child can call for him out loud in her baby voice and he'll come the next day or even that very night. I think he mostly ignores what it is that he is feeling, so in return we are at a stand still with progress yet we can't bare to be away from each other for but so long. It almost feels like your chest is going to explode and sex even is undescribeable. I really don't know how to put it in words... but their is a weakness, almost because the feeling is so genuine and organic. Hmm...
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
I am still trying to figure this one out. I wish I were more educated on the Twin flame and Soulmate thing. But I must add that the only reason I thought about a soulmate is because I was walking by a psychic 1 day and stop in and thru the visit she told me he is my Soulmate. And then, everything started to make sense. So here I am researching what I can to find out what it is I need to know to continue growth with our relationship on the many levels that we can experience them.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
Very upsetting relatonship with my ex that became very abusive - life changing! I thought I would never meet anyone else and here he was. And things went so fast between us... it was almost like okay, finally, you're here! Now lets get back to where we left , almost like we're running out of time because its been soo long since we seen each other.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
I don't know much about this sequence, but I will be looking for what this means. With all the synchronicities, there maybe some somewhere.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
Maybe I've always been interested in the zodiac and astrology. But for him... that I would need to ask.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Be very clear on what you're saying and doing with one another, and try to be honest! Our biggest thing was that he wasn't very honest with me and he still hasn't placed himself in a state to where he can find balance within himself... to be true to me.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
Has anyone felt physical energy exchanging from each other's bodies? I definitely get shocked whenever his clothes are in my room... by the door knob.
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soulmate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
Yes, but I wish he would get things together with himself in order for us to both grow together into one. He has a hard time letting go of his past.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
Need to figure that one out. Help
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
Too much intense feelings. I'ts very hard to say in words, but we both know because we are feeling it at the same time and we express that during sex.
Do you belive that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
Well... I think to be completely and genuinely happy, you do need to share your life with your soulmate. Otherwise, it would be halfway fulfilled.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
More advice about what to do to contol our feelings in recognizing when it's something between us that makes us feel this way.
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
Badly! It almost seems like we can't repair it at times, but when he comes it's like nothing ever happened nor the fact that he has been gone for awhile. We just pick right up where we left off.
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
It's very hard! I need help with this actually.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
I don't know... wish I did know.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
Not sure... didn't get there yet I guess.
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
I need help with this part because I think the biggest thing is educating yourselves about what it is that's going on between the two of you.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
Our lives, if placed on a time line are very much the exact same people and experiences happening, at the same times and ages in ourlives. BTW we are the same age, both born in 1982.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
Christian
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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Twin Flames - Shakiema & David
From The USA Posted on 7/20/2011 or 11 11
