Posted on 10/11/2014
Sun sign... Capricorn
Country ~ USA
Occupation ~ Self Employed
Sun sign.... Gemini
Country ~ USA
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Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
Since a child I have felt I have been on a mission to find THE ONE. Thought everyone felt that way. I was about ready to give up on my search, life and happiness with any man but something inside had kept urging me, for 7-9 years actually, to talk to my neighbors, currently, 22 yr old son. They recently said they were moving out of state and the urge became unbearable. He is a very cute kid but 1-2yrs older than my daughter. I was confused as to why I would need to talk to him and had this nagging feeling inside. I gave in and came up with a reason to talk to him about a small job. After a few times talking I felt this connection to him and kept trying to get him to come by, have a beer and talk. He came to talk to me one night but brought his girlfriend and his longtime friend (who had thought I was hot and wanted my #). When they walked up I began to feel lightheaded and dizzy. I got close to his friend at one time and was startled so much that I kind of jerked away, he did as well. We all 3 sat and talked for a few mins then all left but his friend. We spoke for maybe 20 mins and it was a very deep and to the point conversation, quite odd. The entire time I felt as though I was going to pass out and thought maybe I was getting sick. I was afraid to stand for fear I'd fall. He finally got up to leave and stood there for a sec as though he wanted a hug, I had been giving his friend a hug. I felt as though If I stood up I would fall down and If I hugged him I may not want to let go. I was confused to say the least. After that night I could no longer think of anything but him and many strange things have happened since which recently led me to the internet looking for answers. I HAD to have an explanation.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
Too many to list!
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
I understand the true meaning of life, I am aware of my spirituality and my life is full of hope and dreams once again. I am no longer afraid to die. I have patience for others and their ignorance and things that happen in the world.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
I feel there are many but since we are not together nor even talking at the moment I cannot be sure.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
After the 20 min talk he would text me but would no longer drive by and look at me at all, also never come back to talk me. He has acted rather strange to say the least. Like he feels it, but he's fighting it. He is 25yrs old, has a 1yr old, lives with his parents and the child's mom. At one time he said it's completed, regarding his child and the mom. Not married, but completed. I feel this is a test for him and he must realize that if he's not happy with her and vice versa (he said they don't get along) then his child will not be happy either. I got the feeling his parents have pushed their ideals on him and think that because you have a child with someone you stay with them. As we know this is not what God intended.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
In our conversation I found out his last name. It rang a bell from junior high school. I asked if his parents he lived with were his real parents and if he knew the kids I knew, he said no but mentioned a side of his family they do not speak to. After that night, I went on his Facebook. His face looked familiar. Looked like the kids I went to school with. Suddenly things came rushing back to me regarding them. They were twin girls. 1 got pregnant in 8th grade by a 9th grader. I heard the rumor. Felt like I needed to know all about it, but we were not friends. I stood in the hallway one day looked at them and thought of "The One" for me. Asked God for him and even described him somewhat physically, personality, etc..I asked he be born now because I could not be with a 50 yr old when I'm 50. I'm young at heart! I did not know why this all came to my mind. I looked at the boy and girl and said oh yes there's would even be great if a boy, laughingly said
her lips, his eyes. Said "Oh yes" and walked away...After that I always felt this connection to them, they would even look at me as though they felt it too. My Twin Flame fits the description EXACTLY! and he is the correct age, month even. I KNOW he is HIM.
I was in a bad relationship at the time he came to talk to me. I have since came to senses and broke it off with him just a few months ago. Just prior to his moving out he was rubbing my back and attempting to be intimate with me one more time. I thought of no one other than my Twin and just wanted to go to sleep and began to feel angry. I finally said OK goodnight! He rolled over. Immediately I heard a wind sound as though a plane was in my house or my head, I couldn't be sure. Then the window shades shook as though something flew through them. The window was shut, no fan was on. It never happened before that moment or after. I asked him if heard that, i described it and asked what that was. He heard the shades and something but jokingly said it was him sighing cause I made him roll over. I was scared to death at what happened. I have since came to realize it was my soul, angry at the fact he would not leave me alone and as soon as he rolled over it rushed out of my body to
go be with my twins. Has anyone else ever experienced this?
I know He has felt my anger, we were coming down the road in opposite directions, I looked at him with much anger because he has ignored me, changed his number even, he swerved and almost ran off the road as I looked at him.
He pops into my head in the middle of things when I am not day dreaming. I feel as though I know what he's thinking but cannot be sure because he will not talk to me. I feel as though he has everyone convinced I'm crazy and wouldn't stop texting him cause I'm obsessed after a 20 min conversation. Absolutely Ridiculous!
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
I feel as though we have spent many many lifetimes together because the connection is so strong. I felt his soul enter his body inside his mothers stomach and described him at that moment. How else could that connection be so strong?!
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
Lost and alone. As though I am older and wiser than everyone around me. Confused about life, death and what it all means. We have not really had a reunion due to the circumstances.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
My fathers birthday is 11/11.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
Yes I have my entire life. Thought something was wrong with me for feeling that way but I've felt as though everyone and everything has been leading me toward my Twin.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Follow that feeling inside you that is telling you to do something. Don't ignore it until it overwhelms you for it may be too late! I later realized I had seen him 7yrs ago walking down the street with that neighbors son in front of my house. I felt this urge to run out and grab him and just take him and make him mine. I was thrown as to why, I was 32 he was 17-18 yrs old. Had I ran outside and spoke to him as I wanted the very first time I saw him, he may be mine now.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
He awoke me and I really hope that I am awakening him and he comes to his senses and accepts the reality of what we are.
User Generated Questionnaire:
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
Contentment, peace, happiness, just from looking at a photo.
Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
I believe "I" will only be happy with my Twin Soul. I have never had complete sexual satisfaction as most do with sexual intercourse. I've felt as though there is only 1 man who can accomplish that. Now I know that is REAL! I also discovered in my birth chart that I CAN see into my future. That was also a relief as I have seen many things coming in my life. I have seen the happiness we will share one day in this lifetime. I will be happy with no one else!
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
I already love what I see!
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
Lightheaded, dizzy, knees weak, as though you're going to faint.
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
Focus on improving myself, learning whatever I can and I imagine us praying to God to help us be as one so we can be with him in eternal bliss. I feel more confident each day that it is getting closer.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many things!!! I think I'll write a book next!
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
Are you artistic.................................................? Yes
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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