Your Name/Nickname......... Tormented Age: 49 Sun sign... Pisces
Country........................ USA State............ NJ
Your Twins name........ Rich Age: Sun sign....
Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
On the Internet, he contacted me the first day I signed up.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
It's hard to explain the pull, I wasn't attracted til the minute I saw him. When I first saw him I thought, OH NO, not my type but after a few minutes... immediately felt like I knew him forever and we both didn't want the night to end.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
It has changed me forever, after 3yrs of him running, I finally have given up but realized all the things I love and hate about him are me. He is my strengths and weakness personified therefore I've come to the realization that I am lovable even with my faults, so self love and acceptance.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
The same social quirks, moral values, same facial bone structure and body type, both have very smooth comforting voices that people immediately like, both are the go to person for our friends, too many to list...
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
He runs from me. I believe it's too raw, too emotional for him, it is for me too but the pull is too strong for me to ever say goodbye or no to him if he wanted to be back in my life, in any capacity. He has trust issues, is afraid to love or be loved, he's been burned and still working on past issues.
Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
The night we met, thought he pulled out ahead of me but I kept looking for him, feeling he was following, it didn't feel creepy, didn't see him anywhere, then he text to say he was veering off, just wanted to make sure I was okay. When separated for a while, I'd pop in to say hi, via text, he would be experiencing some sort of trouble and would always ask, how do you do that, do you have a direct line to my nervous system. When driving have a surreal moments, contact him and he's driving also. In that moment it was as if I was seeing the road through his and contact!
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
Loss of my stepson and marriage ending.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
No, I never paid any attention to that, wasn't even aware of it.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
Yes, greater purpose.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
Don't search for it, it's not easy, it's not hearts and flowers and it will find you when it is suppose to. If you're in the middle of it, don't force it, see it for what it is and try not to be too "tormented" by it or think it's the universes twisted karmic sense of humor, look at yourself and you'll see you in them and hopefully love them and yourself with all your flaws.
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
How you deal with meeting them and then being torn apart.
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
Yes, I have been awakened to so many things, he is shut down for now.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
Work on myself, try to believe there is a reason for everything and although we all have free will we all also have to make choices.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
I see myself in him. When we make love, it's as if it's not enough, can never get close enough.
Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
Our TS doesn't make US happy, we have to do that ourselves. So yes, we can be happy with others also once we have worked on self acceptance.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
No, so far so good :)
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
Yes, unfortunately very much in a negative way.
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
I'm not sure I am...
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
Self love and acceptance. No and sometimes wish I still didn't.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
Indescribable, amazing and tormenting.
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
Some days I'm not sure I can...
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
I know it in my core, no words to explain...
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
Are you artistic.................................................? No
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
Free Form Comments -
We met online, for what I thought was the first time, but then later realized he was this man I saw about 20yrs earlier at a car dealership. I was there with my husband at the time and there was this guy who worked there who kept looking at me or through me, completely unnerved me, our eyes kept locking. I went outside to have a cigarette and he appeared towards the back of the building to also smoke. He stayed there, kept his distance but kept looking at me. For days later I was disturbed by it as if his energy was all around me. I couldn't shake him. Eventually I forgot about it until after we met. He was over my house one day and we were talking and he mentioned he worked there and instantly I remembered him, it was 20yrs we both changed a bit, I didn't mention it but the year added up. I felt from the beginning our timing was off, always something in the way for a new couple just meeting. His father dying within a few weeks, trouble with a
custody battle for him, traveling for work. So we would always part to come back again for 3yrs, unexplainable draw for both of us. Things we would never put up with from others, simple misunderstandings that would just push us apart, we are too much alike. We aren't together now, it's been six months and I can't get him out of my head or I guess my soul. My soul literally aches for him everyday. I won't contact him again, it's not fair, he doesn't want it, he runs. I'll let him...
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