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Your Name/Nickname......... Wife Age: 34 Sun sign... Cancer
Country........................ USA State............ AR
Occupation.................. student/stay-at-home mom
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Your Twins name........ Husband Age: 35 Sun sign.... Taurus
Country......................... USA State......... AR
Occupation.................. Computer Tech.
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Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)
We met a few times before we actually met, over 15 years ago. I don't remember actually meeting him, but he does, down to the last detail of my clothing. Anyway, (the day I remember meeting him) we met at a mutual friend's house during a party. He was playing a baseball game on the PS1. I couldn't help but stare at him, as I'd had a feeling I knew him, but couldn't put my finger on it. He volunteered to go to 7-11 for a beer run, and I decided to go with him. The whole time in the car he didn't say a word to me. So, when we got back to the house, I made it my mission to get him to talk to me. Later that night I asked him to play a card game with us, and he became more social. Still later, when everyone went to bed, I claimed the couch to sleep on. Little did I know he actually lived there and slept on the couch. So, I offered that we could share it. I expected him to jump on the other side that I was on, but instead he climbed in behind me in the spooning position. I was stunned but wasn't afraid. And as soon as his arms wrapped around me, I felt safe and like I was "home". I ended up spilling my entire life story out to him, talking all night long until he had to go back to the ship (Navy) the next morning. We have been inseparable ever since.
Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?
His energy! He is always optimistic and loves life. Sometimes he lets out his childish nature, and he just cracks me up! He has the most fascinating mind I have ever known! He thinks abstractly and outside of the box. He helps me to see many different views about many different things. His good moods are contagious and he is the only one who can cheer me up, no matter how bad my own mood may be.
How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?
Meeting him has changed my views on everything. Before him I had what I believed was my "type" in guys. He does not fit into any of the boxes I'd put guys in before. He is someone I would not have considered dating, yet he became my best friend the moment we started to talk. We have been through hell & back together, and are stronger than we've ever been. Everything I've ever known, or thought I knew about love, life, spirituality - just about everything - have gone right out the door since I've known him.
Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?
TONS!!! My favorite story is when I found out I was pregnant with our first child. I bought a card and baby toy in order to tell him the news. I anxiously waited for him to come home from work that day, and before I could give him the bag with the card & toy in it, he presented me a bouquet of flowers. I was stunned and asked why did he buy them? He said he was driving home and had a sudden urge to stop at the store and pick them up for me. He still had no idea I was pregnant. I felt that he was so in-tuned to me that he somehow knew I was pregnant, even before I had the chance to tell him. Also, when I was pregnant with our daughter he knew she was a girl, and refused to consider any boy names, before the ultrasound confirmed she was indeed a girl. Recently, I hit my elbow and cried out in pain. He didn't see me hit it but, when our son asked what was wrong, my husband answered him that I had hit my "not-so" funny bone. I asked him how did he know? He replied that his arm hurt too. He showed me the spot on the same arm, where mine was hurting, on his arm, down to his fingers tingling, as mine were. We are always in each other's heads. We finish each other's sentences, have the same songs in our heads at the same time, and finish each other's thoughts. Sometimes he'll answer a thought I had in my head without my even having told him what I was thinking. We have also have had the same dreams.
If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.
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Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.
Sometimes I can feel his arms wrapped around me, but I'm not sure how strange that is. He says he feels a void when I'm not with him, especially in the space I fill when he's holding me.
Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.
He'd had a vision, recently, that may have been a past life together. We both believe in past lives, but he really doesn't care to dwell on it whether we'd actually had one together or not.
How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?
I was an absolute mess before we met. I'd gotten out of a long serious relationship and swore men off, before I met him.
Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?
There are uncanny parallels to my parents story, as to our story. My mom was 19 and my dad was 20 when they met in Va Beach. My dad was on the George Washington submarine in the Navy, and he was from Arkansas. My husband & I met when I was 19 and he was 20, in Va Beach. He was on the George Washington carrier in the Navy, and he's also from Arkansas. Both couples married within six months of each other. Also, while looking through my dad's box of family mementos, I found that his parents (my grandparents) had their anniversary on the same day my husband & I got married. I had never met my grandparents as they both passed away before I was born, so I had no idea when their anniversary was when we got married. Another synchronicity is, my mom's and my husband's late grandfather's first name are the same, as it is also my father-in-law's middle name. Other than that, we both see the numbers 11:11, and I see 1:11 2:22/22, 3:33/33, 4:44/44 often.
Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)
Not really. My husband just wants to live and learn all he can along the way. I pretty much feel the same way.
What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?
This is NOT a romantic or superficial relationship! It is HARD!! You WILL feel exposed/vulnerable, and it's terrifying to see that mirror staring right back at you! I RAN as soon as I saw myself in him. I ran for years, but he never once let me go! Once we both realized what really was going on, and woke up to the fact that we are twins, I have stopped running and he has stopped chasing. Now we just "be" together without feeling the need to force anything of our relationship into a box that society will approve of. You need to face that mirror before you and you need to face yourself. Accept yourself and all of your flaws/weaknesses, as your twin reflects all those flaws/weaknesses in you. Absolutely EVERYTHING will be brought to the surface with this relationship, whether you want it to or not! The intensity is scary but it's wonderful at the same time, once you wake up and realize what you're going through and why. You will GROW!! In the end, it IS
worth it!!!
If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?
Do twin flames have karma they need to work out together? From all that I've read, they all say they have no karma. To me that makes no sense. For, once you find your mirror, you freak out and run. Would that not create karma? And the fact that we are humans, and if you're not awake to the whole thing, you are not perfect, and this relationship does not promise immediate perfection, as it's a process of understanding.
Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?
We have both woken up. We both know, without a doubt, we are twin flames. It wasn't immediately known, as we didn't know about the concept until recently. But, looking back and putting the pieces together, we woke up and realized, and accepted, the truth.
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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude
We just "be" together. We try not to worry too much about the future, though, we do plan for things that are important to the future of our family.
When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt
Just recently, we both saw our souls in the other's eyes, while we made love. It was frightening and beautiful at the same time.
Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? Or...do you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon
I believe you can be happy with other souls. When you love someone, labels don't matter. Just love.
Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud
More about the life twin flames live together and the challenges they face when together. Not just about the journey of finding your twin/soulmate.
How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria
OMG where do I start?? As I mentioned above, the mirror is TERRIFYING and your first instinct is to RUN!!! That's how it was with us. He, as the chaser, flipped out and tried to hold onto me as tightly as he could, in whatever way he could, including manipulation. We have been through hell & back together. But, getting past all the bad stuff we discovered, ultimately, we love each other, unconditionally. We have, literally, grown up together and learned together.
How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret
Our energies are incredible together. I feel so much love for my man, I feel like I'm going to burst. When things are on the extreme intensity, we find that making love really helps to balance it. On the flip side of anger/arguments, we both try to calm the other down, refusing to give up without breathing and talking things out, trying to understand where the other is coming from.
What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don
We had to learn a LOT, when coming together, about ourselves and about love, most of all. I believe we are just to share our love with others, and showing others how love truly conquers everything. Neither of us knew about twin flames when we first met. If there were any type of events in our area, we may consider going.
What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting
You feel like you can't be close enough. Like you not only want to, but NEED to be in each other's skin, reaching each other's souls. When we close our eyes, we feel it. Our hearts burst with love for each other, and we feel like we are "ONE".
How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon
In the past, I would run to try to get away from it. But, he never let me go and I would be drawn right back to him. Now, we talk it out. We hold each other, and everything feels right again.
What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin
We are mirrors of each other in every way. My insecurities are his insecurities. My thoughts are his thoughts. My dreams are his dreams. My hopes are his hopes. It's the 3D world that gets in the way of yourself/your twin. Once you wake up and realize this, you find that you are sharing one soul, one mind, one heart.
How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....
Follower of Christ/Christ Consciousness
Are you artistic.................................................? No
Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes
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