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Twin Flames ~ Yi Yan and Xue Hua

Posted on 10/27/2014

Yi Yan 
  Age: 23 
  Sun sign... Gemini
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    Xue Hua
Age: 24
Sun sign.... Virgo
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Please tell us how you met? (Internet, store, vacationing, dancing, etc....)  

​After an extremely painful breakup, I and a girl friend of mine decided to work part-time at a food store for extra money as well as to tire myself out and not think of my ex. It was my first week and I had invited a few of my friends to come try the sweets at the store.

It was a Sunday when my twin walked in with two friends of mine. And my hands were shaking even before I consciously knew of the arrival or laid my eyes on him. The energies were so electrified and loud that I could not bring myself to look at him or even speak to him; perhaps I came across as rude ONLY to him.

Please tell us about those special things that draw you to your soulmate or twin flame?  

​There are no special things. It's probably everything. There is not a thing I can put my finger on and say, "yes, this draws me to him." It feels natural, fundamental, no matter what his habits are or his personality is like, there is this huge invisible wave consisting of he and I, the ebb and flow distinctly balanced. The attraction feels seeded within me. There has to be no reason.

How has finding your soulmate/twin flame changed your life?

I have been very dissatisfied with my education/career for a long time but I did not have the strength to do something about it. After meeting him, I dropped out. It has caused difficulties for me because now I have to do something about my career, but maybe I finally feel more like myself?

- I have started to actively live a healthier lifestyle, my eating habits have improved, I am very much inclined to take care of my body in a holistic manner. It is only the beginning.

- Recently I have found myself obsessed with herbalism, traditional Chinese medicines and the healing arts in general. I remember wanting to learn Reiki and energy healing and even buying a book to study, but I have never been as determined as now. Now I feel as though NOT listening to my soul's desire to heal myself and others is NOT an option anymore. Like I HAVE to do it or I won't be able to breathe.

- Even as a child, I used to dream things that came true in time. I have had strangers visit me and voices speak to me in my dreams since my human memory can remember. I always recognized my twin's energy even though I had not known of his physical existence before. Since the time I met him and recognized him in physical, now my dreams of he and I have become clearer; the visions containing he and I are visually clearer. Now I understand better how to heal both of us, and it only a humble beginning.

Do you share many synchronicities together? If so, please think of what they are and tell us?  

 YES YES YES! to the extent that it initially creeped me out and got my heart racing out of my ribcage!

His DOB accommodates a part of my DOB (the number 9) and I followed him to this world exactly 9 months after

Before we met, there were some things that we were doing simultaneously. For example, being in two towns very close to each other, wearing clothes of similar colors, posing for photographs in the same way, the same winter, the background very very similar. If one was to compare the two photographs, he would say that my twin and I had planned those photos. We went to visit certain places in the same year, may not be in the same month.

He lived 10 minutes away from me for 5 years and I never knew.
We were in the same university, although in different campuses.
I have always known his friends and acquaintances. He had heard of me before. But we never met until this year. And it was my last year living in that city. His too. We both moved this summer to different cities.

He told me some things, shared some of his thoughts, which were EXACTLY my thoughts too. Not just thoughts but visualizations which were exactly the same to the last detail. Perhaps I downloaded his thoughts, or he downloaded mine; it is hard to tell which of my thoughts are really mine and which are his.
We also seemed to have the same opinions on some things; i am the more talkative of us two so it was always me expressing after seeing something, and he would nod vigorously like he was thinking of the same word.

I am obsessed with a certain foreign culture and he is too but with another foreign culture. Those two countries happen to be geographically close, have history of cultural exchange including philosophies, writing script, traditions and architecture.

I did not spend much time with him or met him many times or talked to him a lot, so these are the only synchronicities I could observe.

If you believe you have found your soulmate or twin flame but he/she doesn't know it or can't be with you due to certain circumstances, please tell us about your situation here.  

​I saw him and I didn't consciously connect the dots right away but eventually realized he is my twin. I never mentioned what I know, never asked him if he felt it too. The circumstance is such that my old love and he are very close friends, and a soulmate of mine I am currently in a romantic/karmic bond with also happens to be a good friend of his. But it does not matter because I do not feel the need to be in a romantic relationship with my twin, and I also feel burdened with a lot of things that I have to fix first. Although the longing is there, I am happy improving myself and learning in my journey in which he is currently not present. We are connected, I receive messages from him in my dreams, we are more like siblings who are best friends. But in soul. In the physical reality, he and I rarely talk, and we now live in two separate cities very far away from each other.

Below, list all strange phenomena, if any, related to time, increased psychic abilities, or feelings pertaining to how your partner is feeling when you are separated from one another.   

Since we do not talk, there is no way to crosscheck. But I constantly sense him like as though we are two bright looking kids perched on a tree branch and enjoying the landscape and the breeze, somewhere else. Like I am here as well as where he is. Like there is another place in another dimension where we are constantly together.
Since after meeting him physically, our telepathic bond has stabilized to a great extent. Prior to that event, I could sense his energy but sometimes it would be gone for months at a stretch. Now, at most, it goes away for a day or two.
When I see something pretty, I automatically "talk" to him how about how blissful it makes me feel.
Whether he subconsciously does the same, I cannot tell. There ARE times when I feel him strongly and feel certain emotions, but how can I be sure? 

Do you and your partner have the feeling that this isn't the only lifetime you have spent together? If so, please tell us about it, below.  

No, I don't remember any past life with him. Not yet. I only remember being together before any life at all, or maybe between incarnations?
Lately, I very deeply remember/feel walking together in a forest/garden under the night sky and being in bliss. Not sure if it is a past life.:D

How would you describe your life up until the time you found your soulmate or twin flame? What is the last "big thing" to have happened to you prior to your reunion?  

Before finally meeting him in person, the themes that defined, even slightly, my life would be these~

- dreams, love for the night sky/astronomy, etc. I was obsessed with extraterrestrial life as a child
- extremely strong tugs at my heart chakra and I would want to go look for something/someone. I later decided i wanted to seek God, and since then my notions of "God" has also changed a lot. i was still in high school at the time
- I was all about adventures, which I still am
In brief, I was having an extremely happy adventurous childhood full of magic and friendship. I was busy learning science, but without restrictions of thoughts. There was no internet here and I lacked other resources too, so all I did was write down my questions about things and think them over and over..

Then came the phase when I learnt of ancient traditions, about being close to nature (i always was but it was so natural to me that i didn't consciously think of it), about exploring religion and then i started to build a personal bond with God. This bond went through multiple evolution and I read about energies and chi and psi, etc. This bond is the one that made me yearn for something else, or rather a certain person. I realized on my own how it seemed as though i was having a telephone call through my heart

​I kept living spiritual and too much into this "reality" in a simultaneous manner, never trying to find a balance. Life kept on happening to me and I learnt so many lessons the hard way, especially since the death of my very beloved cat and since my father fell terribly ill.

Right before meeting my twin, I had my life's most difficult breakup. When I was suffering, I thought I was dead inside, and I really was. I couldn't eat or drink, I had lost weight, and I was too deep in depression, and had suicidal thoughts every night. I was having terrible existential crisis as well, not understanding who I was and why I was here; I think I had pushed myself away from my own spirit, trying to live the "reality". It felt so wrong. I also lost more than just a person I loved, more than my spirit, I was beginning to lose hold of everything.. When I was in the process of clearing myself of these energies, when I was emptying myself, he appeared out of nowhere.
Right after the darkest night of my soul.

Have you noticed any recurring themes in your relationships, ie..past karmic experiences that keep popping up or the numbers 11 11 and the Fibonacci Sequence as it relates to date/time?  

Multiple Line Textbox 9 I only noticed this, regarding our DOB~
my DD x his DD = 9
my MM x his MM = 9
my YYYY x his YYYY = 11
9 is the common number in our DOB

The no. of alphabets in his real name = 7+4=11
In mine = 8+8= 16 = 7

7117 is the number of twin flames

It might be different for another twin couple :)

Have either you, your partner or both of you together, had the feeling from a very young age that you were put here to fulfill a purpose for which you never received any specific instructions? (feelings of a spiritual calling, a higher call, or a greater purpose.)  

YES YES YES!!! oh I didn't read through the questionnaire. I wrote about this a few answers back.

Only once in a dream, it was clearly said out loud to me that I have to help, that it is why i am here. Other than that, I always feel a pull towards my mission Like somebody is subtly calling out to me to lead me, and now after so many years, I have finally found a "job" that resonates so well with me. Healing

What advice would you give to anyone out there who is either searching for their own twin flame or soulmate or is in the middle of one of these relationships?

That everyone's story is different! You have to listen to your heart, it knows your soul's mission and will guide you accordingly! Sometimes we are only meant to be friends with our twin, sometimes we are meant to serve the world together, sometimes separately.
It is my personal opinion that at this point in our planet's history, if twin flames are coming together, its major goal is not to lose ourselves into each other, but to awaken each other more and more to do our mission. Our twin is always with us in soul, and I know how strong that longing is, but most of us just want to rush into a relationship with our twin, forgetting out journey. Please remember your mission
If you want to be with your twin, please remember to cleanse yourself of all negativities and ego and low frequency energies, create the right atmosphere so that you may reunite with your twin in the physical
And if your paths are supposed to go different ways, please respect your path as well as your twin's path, and walk on. Because, in the end, you will meet them, you two are always one.
My own advice is for me too. 

If you were the webmaster of this site, what is one question you would ask, that you did not see here?  

​There are so many questions here that I cannot think of a unique one! :D

Do you believe that upon finding your twin flame/soul mate that one of you has awakened the other, so to speak?

This much I know that he has awakened me more and more. My visions are now more sacred, I see the twin "thing" better and clearly. There was a time when my longings were so strong that I guess I used to force out my knowledge about twin flames from my subconscious to my conscious. The longing is still strong, maybe stronger, but now I understand. There are certain parts of me which were half asleep or completely asleep, now awakened because of our meeting. There might still be a huge part of me happily dormant. Everything in the right time.
I am not sure if I awakened him because we never spoke about it.


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What do you do to stay grounded in the here and now? From - Kristin and Jude

​Grounding has been difficult for me. I am fundamentally very yang. Always flighty, always thinking, always dreaming. To keep myself grounded, which I usually forget to do, I try to get PHYSICALLY active and MENTALLY passive. Yesterday, I perched on the topmost projection of our roof with a cup of tea and watched the sunset until the very invisible moon showed up as a thin silvery curve before disappearing again. I play with my pets, help my mother with gardening, listen to earthy music. These help me.
Oh, I also cook to bring myself to this dimension because I am mentally ALWAYS gone somewhere. Haha

When you look into their eyes or make love, what do you experience? Kandice and Matt

​He and I have so far only joined our palms. But when I look into his eyes, he is no longer him and I am no longer me but we become each other. It was the one thing that made me accept to myself that he is my twin. We reflect each other from the back of our eyes.

Do you believe that you only can be happy when finding your twinsoul? you believe in other soulmates that we can share a happy life with? Cinderella Man and Capmoon

YES! we have soulmates we share very deep bonds with. They definitely cannot replace our twin, but when we grow, we grow more accepting of the fact that most of the times, it is one of our soulmates we might end up sharing a lifetime with. And let our twin fly away to walk his own journey.

Is there anything on our site that you would like to see? Persephone and Rosebud


How have conflicts between the two of you affected your relationship? Pearl and Gloria


How do you manage the intensity of your twin flame relationship. David and Margaret


What do you feel is your shared purpose? Did you know about twin flames before meeting? Do you plan to participate in twin flame events? Tracy and Don

So far, I have received a message from his higher self that he and I shall be separated. I am not clear as to how long, or if we will ever serve together as friends. Right now, I am clueless.
I did know of twin flames before meeting him I had done a lot of research as a curious teenager and had always longed to meet with my twin. I met a few souls whose energies felt a lot like his, and on one occasion, I even believed one of them to be my twin (I looked into his eyes and was transported to a different world for a second, and remembered he and I to be very close siblings/friends before the beginning of everything). But having finally met my real twin, and having a similar eye-contact experience, I was initially confused in my mind. But my soul probably knew, and later I received confirmation through multiple synchronicities and dreams that HE is my twin

What does the merging feel like? Anonymous Posting

I am yet to consciously understand this fully~

How do you cope with the terrible emotional turmoil? Anon and Anon

By remembering that we are one at soul even if we may not be talking or together in a romantic relationship. Sometimes the longing is such that I cannot help but cry. The pain is deep, the longing stretches through lifetimes, and the only thing I want is to sit together and watch the moon. And I feel the rage that even a simple desire like that cannot be granted to me. But then I remember, all in the right time. And that I am not actually ready yet.

What makes you so sure you found your twin? Joanna and Albin

His eyes, oh his eyes!~

How would you describe your spiritual beliefs....

Always evolving with experiences~

Are you artistic.................................................? No

Do you believe in reincarnation...................? Yes

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